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 kingofaman
Joined: 4/18/2006
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 wonkaman2002
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 977
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/12/2006 1:05:01 PM
Love has no boundaries , Love has no distance , Love has no certain time. Love can happen whenever , wherever. Love can happen over the internet even as long as there is contact with a human being. Then you could fall in love with that human being. You have to meet them at one point though to make sure that the love can hold and stand. I mean its not fair to be in love with a person you'll never meet. Thats just holding you down.

Personally, I fell in love just the same way. I met her in person but then I had to go overseas to see my family and she was in Canada. Everyday I thought about her in my arms, her soft body held on me , her soft kisses and that beautiful face of hers. Her beautiful magnificent eyes just melted me everytime I thought about them while I was away. The sweetness of her voice made me feel so light. I never felt as great as that. I knew it was love and I said it to her as soon as I went back to Canada and it never felt greater to say it. I still feel that way even when I am here with her .
 LadyNCuffs
Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 978
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/12/2006 1:11:46 PM
It's ABSOLUTELY possible. That doesn't mean it will work out once you meet because until you can test the real chemistry you won't know. But the emotions are genuine. Period.
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 979
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/12/2006 1:59:22 PM
Possible to fall in love with someone you've never met?...NOPE... you have to meet and be around them to see what they're really like... a good clue is to watch how they treat others around them (waitstaff, storepeople).
 *Illsa
Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 980
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/13/2006 7:41:38 PM
Yes. At least you can cause yourself to believe you are 'in-love'...

Whether or not it is real depends on if the two people make it real...

 WOULDBCOMIK
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 981
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/13/2006 7:57:59 PM
DUH! Thank you "smile with your eyes" not only do I agree, it's a well documented fact of science that until your "chemical make up" meets thiers in person, the love you feel is a dillusion. Sorry to piss on your fire.
 BlueSilkRose
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 982
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 1:29:34 PM
If you've never met... then your perception of him is mostly imagination.

What does his touch feel like? How would it feel with his lips near your ear whispering sweet nothings? What does he look like as he walks towards you down a path?

Who better at answering these questions than you?

Things that you'll know in when you've met, he's flesh and blood, and you've had experiences together:

1) if he's an utter klutz,
2) what he smells like,
3) (and I deem highly un-negotiable) does he keep his promises?

Hope you meet him and all goes well.
 *Rain*
Joined: 11/29/2006
Msg: 983
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 1:36:00 PM
This thread is so lame...I'm surprised it's still around....pfft
 BlueSilkRose
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 984
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 1:56:42 PM
Been around since March 2006. I wonder if the start of the thread can give us an update on her status. Oh well.
 tsunny58
Joined: 6/12/2006
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 4:05:02 PM
VERISSA

I didn't read thru all the pages, but I did want to say.....YES YOU CAN !!!!!!! I did !

It was 3 years ago, and no we are not together now, but it was the best. I did finally meet him at an airport when he flew me to his state to 'finally' meet. It was New Years Day. Although I never told him I loved him....until after we met.....I knew I did. He had 5 days of the most spectacular times I've ever had, all planned out. I got snowed in and had to stay an extra day ( aw gee!).....we did end up saying the "words".

I am a romantic, no doubt......but no one has touched my heart that way since....not even my exhusband of 16 yrs.

When we saw each other at the airport, although nervous, it was like we had known each other for a lifetime.

Don't give up......I even wrote a book about it, soon to be published..........IT CAN AND DOES.....HAPPEN !.................savor it!
 itsallinthesoul
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 986
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 4:14:13 PM
It is possible to find someone with whom you are completely satisfied with that you have not met. Does that mean you are in love with him? No, not in MHO, in MHO you are in love with the "dream" of what it would be if this virtual man became a reality in your life. Sadly, few people are the same in the real world.
 tsunny58
Joined: 6/12/2006
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Posted: 12/15/2006 4:31:46 PM
itsallinthesoul.....

.........until you've "LIVED" it.....I guess you can't be an authority, now can you ?
 BCAngel
Joined: 7/23/2006
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Posted: 12/15/2006 7:23:07 PM
tsunny58, I think you were lucky. I've tried a couple of different times with guys over the internet. Although I was being honest, and felt they were too, it quickly became apparent upon meeting, that they were not as they had portrayed themselves.

There is a lot to be said about not falling in love with the image portrayed by someone, and truly, once reality set in, it really sucked. The disappointment, anger, hurt, betrayal, and the feeling of what a waste of my time - they all came into play, but one gets over it. But, of course, that does not mean I wouldn't try it again, but I'd definitely be a bit (lot) more reserved. I'm always open to love ... no matter where it may come from.

BCAngel

 tsunny58
Joined: 6/12/2006
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Posted: 12/15/2006 8:26:04 PM
bcangel......maybe I was lucky........to an extent I guess, because it didn't last. But I learned, loved and felt more from that experience than I ever have in my 48 years. I will continue to seek that feeling again in a man. But there are absolutely no regrets. In general.....he was the only internet date, that it actually worked that way with.....my point was only........It can happen.

I hope you do have that experience, maybe it was one in a million, but it was a memory I will cherish.

Merry Christmas .....tsunny
 sunshineofhope
Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 990
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 9:11:29 PM
I talked to a few guys. With one of them i've been talking to, we actually met. He is sweet, kind, caring, and hilarious. I like and he knows that and he likes me but we cant be a couple for awhile. He has no problem with commiment. He is leaving this July or August for Iraq for a year and I want to wait for him but another guy says he likes me and I only like him as a friend. What do i do? do i just wait for a year or do i give this other guy a chance? Im so confused! I like this guy who is leaving for Iraq and i want to wait but i want to give this other guy a chance. Do i follow what my heart says or my brain? my heart says wait but my brain is telling me to give this other guy a chance.
 spirit_brat
Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 991
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 9:22:03 PM
I would be cautious till you meet face to face and there are no last minute "emergencies" that keep him from meeting you. I also hope you have seen multiple pictures of him and not just one. Not to sound jaded but I've heard and seen it all when it comes to online.

I do hope it works out though, I personally try to meet people I may have an interest in asap, no months of online dating for me

Good luck to you!
 Bigger Guy
Joined: 10/3/2005
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Posted: 12/15/2006 9:32:55 PM
Lust, Like, appreciation, curiosity, or any number of other things, but can not love them till after that face to face and have spent time together. To think, dream or even imagine otherwise is foolhearty and setting the stage for disaster.
 sunshineofhope
Joined: 11/1/2006
Msg: 993
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/15/2006 9:41:36 PM
thanks. i am gonna follow my heart and wait for a year to wait to date the army guy. i respect the fact that he dont want to worry about the girl cheating on him and it does happen to other soldiers. plus he dont want me worrying about him if he dies or gets hurt. no matter what i am going to worry about him because i care about him. with this other guy i will just be friends and thats it. my heart lies with the soldier leaving for iraq in 7 months. thanks for the help guys

Have a great holiday guys! - sunshineofhope
 mary27
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 994
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/16/2006 3:03:07 AM
I have spoken to some people and feel a warmness for them and sometimes I think it is respect for some of their thoughts on life.BUT if we where to meet,would there be chemistry,I have met two,and it wasn't there at all.Also,some of these wonderfull people are NOT who they say they are,Dr Phill had one such case on tv not so long ago...she was engaged to him. He ended up being married with kids,living in a caravan.Meet him and get to know him, I would hate for you to waste time swimming the net with him,when maybe your true life fishy is smimming away.Care about yourself and I do hope it works out for you.
 sassysexyrebel
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 995
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/18/2006 1:35:11 AM
Yes its very possible. ( been there / done that / think its wonderful / wish he wasnt married )


Ya'll
 Laughinwu
Joined: 11/7/2006
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Posted: 12/18/2006 2:05:23 AM
Ok here's a good one for you!!! I have fallen Feet over Ear Lobes for a guy who I haven't even spoke to. We are both on another date site, that we aren't members of so, we can't write to each other but Can send flirts. For two months we've been tossing flirts back and forth. His profile says everything I've been looking for in man. Oh my....And his picture the first time I saw it my heart skipped a beat..I was hoping he would join the site but he hasn't. So I decided I'm going to, right after Christmas and if I don't hit it off with him, it will have been worth money instead of thinking what if............
Am I just crazy? He has been flirting right back with me and he is the one who started it all.. Firm believer in love at first sight!
 caldus85
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 997
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 12/18/2006 2:08:03 AM
Yes it is possible. It has happened to me before as a matter of fact. Crazy, I know.
 Dj BlOoDuSt
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 998
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Posted: 12/18/2006 2:10:22 AM
fall in love? NO heavy attraction? YES... love is an experience not a visual thing..
 BCAngel
Joined: 7/23/2006
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Posted: 12/18/2006 4:21:04 PM
Laughinwu ... hate to burst your bubble, but just take a moment and sit back and ask yourself "If he's so interested in me, why hasn't he joined the site to get in touch with me?" There may be a reason he won't join the site ... he could be a cheapskate (and boys, boys I'm NOT calling you a cheapskate) ... or he could have another reason (he's playing with you girlfriend). Is there any way you can "direct" him here to the Pond? Just be careful.

BCAngel
 miss_claudia
Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 1000
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Posted: 12/18/2006 4:34:54 PM
I think that you can fall in love with someone without meeting them in person. It happened to me a few years ago. I began talking online to a guy in Texas, then we started speaking over the phone. After a few weeks, I found myself waiting for his calls, and when I heard his voice my heart would pound almost out of my chest. I thought about him all the time. Unfortunately it ended after about 7 months, because he had a small son and didnt want to leave Texas, and I had my job and family and didnt want to relocate either.. We were both heart broken ... I still think of him from time to time!
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