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 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 1334
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Sure its possible to fall in love with some one you've never met and its also possible that the tooth fairy going to show up with a Big Mac, large fries and a soft drink too.

I agree with Candles on , and want to add people fall in love with the idea of falling in love, Love at first sight? please it generally disappears after the second sight as your making a beeline to the nearest exit .
 lifeisanadventure987
Joined: 7/25/2011
Msg: 1335
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/22/2011 6:46:55 PM
It can happen, but it is all a fantasy.....and yes in the end someone gets hurt.....

This is one of the reason I do not like to talk to much before meeting someone...I have a soft heart, and when talking about life, and issues...I always care to deeply....and always end up getting hurt or hurting the other person........


So I like to meet soon, and take it from there....makes life easier.....lol!!!
 Jypzee
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 1336
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/23/2011 9:05:45 PM
yeah, well, i'd like to get a good sniff of him first
 DSMTraveler
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 1338
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 7:06:02 AM
Fall in love? Sure.
Stay in love?
 unYOUsual
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 1339
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 7:17:09 AM
No it's not possible...Love is more than corresponding, chatting, texting, talking on the phone etc......What you are experiencing is not real, it is fantasy, when you meet Reality will be like a slap in the face, you may delude yourself into thinking that it is true love..but it is not...
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 1340
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 11:02:02 AM
Absolutely...YES..!!
Although...'Tecnically'...there has to be a face-to-face meeting to get to know all the little
flaws in character and personal quirks they may have...
But I've Fallen for Several ladies, here...mostly an empty love...for trivial reasons ...like ~Distance~
But I'd SO Marry them In A Minute...if we ever got together..!!!
* Siiiiiigghh ! *
 pinkoleander
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 1341
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 12:33:12 PM
Anything is possible. So yes of course.
 Becoming_Me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 1342
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 1:02:51 PM
I think its possible to feel those feelings for someone you have never met, but to I think its love no. I think to really and truly love someone you have to at some point get to know them in person., be able to observe them in their environment how do they treat the people around them how do they treat themselves. If you’ve never met them in person you don’t really know. You just know what you are being told.
 ebony wild one
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 1343
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 6:28:45 PM
Right now you are in the with a message and a picture.....Unless you are miles upon miles apart....you would have met by now. Yes you can fantasize about touching and holding and kissing and his messages totally make you feel wonderful but in the end it is all just a message.

Cheers,

Hope you meet...and hope it is all that your mind has made it out to be!

Ebony
 dave402
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 1344
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 8/24/2011 7:35:37 PM
Ahh, there's the rub.
The dreamer in you goes....what if? *sigh*
The realist in you says-wtf am I doing?

I've heard stories of people on different continents, falling in love before they've even met, so it is feasible

If you want to go with your heart.....the heart knows what it wants.

It is a crap shoot when you roll the dice, and if you do roll.....hopefully you wont roll snake eyes
 Indaraw
Joined: 7/24/2011
Msg: 1345
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/19/2011 2:31:41 PM
I Googled the same question and ended up here...wow...I met someone on a phone chatting site. We really had s lot in common and an age gap. I'm much older and we just seem to have this connection that's baffling. She says she loves me and I'm beginning to have some serious feelings toward her. But as far as true love I think you have to have sex first...lol...good luck to you and me.
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/19/2011 4:00:16 PM
Noooooooooo. Don't do it!

I know I probably posted earlier in this thread
that it is possible.

I got to live it-

I'm going to bone up to all of you- it's not
real until it is in real life.

There is no way you can get to know anyone
in an email or chat. You can get to know that
they are good with words, express themselves
freely but you need to "see" them-

don't laugh but you need to smell them. Touch
them. Be near them. See their reactions.

This can not be achieved in an email or chat.

Now- if I like someone, I meet them right away.
That aleviates any fantasy I can possibly build up
about them in my head.

It has to be real. There is no way you can know
the person they actually are.

I learned a hard lesson believing what I did not
see.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 1347
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/21/2011 11:01:18 AM
If I can collect enough information by E-mail and phone....My next step would be...:
"As soon as I get the chance, I'm gonna put a Ring on that girls finger..!!"
 distinct_purpose
Joined: 12/16/2008
Msg: 1348
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/21/2011 12:11:48 PM
Believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see!!!

Enough said....
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 1349
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/21/2011 5:01:22 PM
Verissa- No. You can find out that you have things on common, get closer by sharing with each other, but love without ever seeing/meeting the person, I don't think so.
You have to meet face to face, see if chemistry is there, spend time with one another before you can TRULY fall in love, jmo.
 StealthyNinjaKitty
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 1350
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/23/2011 3:33:51 PM
Possible? Yes.

Probable? Not so much.

Did you actually think Sleepless in Seattle was real?
 TABITHA890
Joined: 9/1/2011
Msg: 1351
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/23/2011 4:59:12 PM
Well what about years ago when all they did was write letters? And in the Bible one set eyes on someone and they just knew God had sent them. I think it is possible but I would rather have real time love in person than just on the computer. I would want to meet them and see if anything developed. I met someone on here and we talked for about 2 mnths and had a completely different idea of who they were when we met. When I met them it was totally alot better than what I thought they were. They acted shy in letters and when I met them, they were so funny and I really liked them. I think everyone wants a challenge, I know I do. People do not want door mats, simple as that.
 slimmer9999
Joined: 10/29/2011
Msg: 1352
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/23/2011 6:03:01 PM
Yes it's possible. I had a dream once, I was on my back and this beautiful woman was on top of me, she got me so excited that the dream ended, but I don't think I had met or had seen her before.
 HoldingHands27
Joined: 12/16/2009
Msg: 1353
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/26/2011 2:17:43 PM
There Are some DDG women, here....
Unfortunately, the ~Conceit-Factor~ mandates a _minimum_ of a 2-point reduction...rating-wise!
I'm just hoping for that 'Chemistry' with a nice lady that finds me as interesting as I find her!
All she really has to do is show some return interest to a 1 st contact.
 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 1354
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/26/2011 2:22:47 PM
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Im sure it is but is it real or just in love with the fantasy?I remember when I first joined this crazy site I had this huge crush like thing with this gal from L.A she was a teacher but I kind of pooched screwed the chance of meeting because of hockey.... yeah I know dumb f uck.

But until you meet the person its strictly fantasy IMO.
 LouiseA88
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 1355
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/26/2011 2:28:32 PM
but true love cant be measured it is a connection, in 3 main parts, PHISICAL, emothional and mental! simple!
 walkingtall38
Joined: 11/16/2011
Msg: 1356
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/26/2011 2:42:00 PM
That's a tough one. I suppose it would be possible. Can't say I have ever experienced it and would imagine that would be kind of strange but sure...

I believe it can happen.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 1357
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/26/2011 3:02:05 PM
It happens all the time. Why do you think hot looking movie stars get fan mail from people writing them love letters and asking to marry them? Same thing with rock/rap/bunny-I mean hip hop stars. How many women here had huge crushes on the teeny bopper stars of the day when they were tweens? Almost all.
 HappySingleSpirit
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 11/26/2011 3:31:34 PM

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?

No, it's not possible. Falling in love with someone you never met is a type of transference experience.
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