|TOUCHING!Page 7 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)|
|I feel very awkward when I touch and they pull away or NEVER touch, even after asking. It sort of heightens my "spider senses". What's wrong here, ya know?|
If they never touch, there is a problem, unless the dude has lice on their body or something.
Posted: 9/10/2006 1:53:55 PM
unless the dude has lice on their body or something.
Me.. I love to touch. I'm a very affectionate person and I guess my way of showing affection is by hugging, kissing, holding hands..whatever. My thing is, when i'm with somebody, relationship wise, I need to touch them. It's weird I know, but I need to touch the people I'm with. I do touch when I flirt, one on one of course. I fidn that touchign makes things flow better and body language is always a good communicator.
Posted: 9/10/2006 6:18:19 PM
|Yes toughing is very important. It makes me feel special and really gets me in the mood. And it makes my girl friend fell special and also put her in the mood.|
Posted: 9/11/2006 5:36:41 PM
|After some of the nasty girls i've met, i'm surprised i still love touching, but I do |
I remember one oral experience that left me with a yeasty taste for a week.. simply gross.
Posted: 9/11/2006 5:42:00 PM
|i would not be with someone who didnt do the touching, carressing, kissing, holding hands, to me thats what builds me up for later.............j|
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:17:55 PM
|I luv to touch... Lots of touching, kissing, cuddling & caressing is always a good thing|
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:23:52 PM
|Touching is good!! I touch myself ALL the time!!!!|
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:44:09 PM
|Sometimes it's good to take the moments in your life when the touching made you feel the most euphoria. Try and hold on to the events surrounding those moments. What was the build up - how was the touching played out - what was special about it - what part of your body was it that made it so wonderful - was it lips, tounge, fingers or other that brought on the euphoria? Transfer all of that to every moment of touching and try and capture that again and again. Hold it in your minds eye and when you are being touched again allow that feeling to surface and you will find yourself deeply involved in the pleasure once again. It's sort of a tantric way of being - allowing yourself to hold on to all the pleasures in life and carrying them on for moments less intense - allowing them to build to a better place. |
Continual contact with your partner helps to keep things fresh and tantalizing - the casual touching makes the more intimate moments electric, because you have been craving the touching to go further.
Posted: 9/11/2006 8:19:38 PM
|Touching.. any touching, throught the day.. is the best form of foreplay. Talk about 'delayed gratification'.. but when that gratification comes.. WOW!!!|
Posted: 9/11/2006 8:38:47 PM
|i love being able to touch a guy....i agree, being physical does not necessarily always mean it has to be sexual.|
Posted: 9/13/2006 4:59:41 AM
|With the right person I love this sense to experience. It warms you up, energises you ... afterall, it can be quite contagious if you let your barriers slip down quickly|
Posted: 9/13/2006 6:33:46 AM
|I come from a very touchy-feely family -- nothing better than saying hello to a friend or family member with a nice warm hug. Something as simple as putting your hand on another's hand conveys a feeling of compassion. When in a relationship, there is nothing nicer than those little touches -- a soft kiss on the back of the neck while doing the dishes or a small carress in passing. To me, this is one of the nicest ways to show affection for another person. It is those little gestures that keep the relationship strong.|
Posted: 9/13/2006 6:41:06 AM
|Could not agree with I more the more u touch the closer u get the more u touch the better the fun in the bedroom|
Posted: 9/14/2006 9:39:16 PM
|Ohhhhh yeah. Just touching can be fantastic. Sometimes its just a very slow caress. And then there's one where she drags her nails slowly across my tummy... I don't know what it is but every muscle starts clenching and releasing... its electric, almost too intense, but I don't want her to stop |
Posted: 9/15/2006 3:36:11 AM
|I agree touching is a very important aspect of every day life in a relationship,its a way of saying wow,or good morning,or i love you,or thank you for being in my life,its love and warmth,knowing someone actually does care about you and likes the way you feel,same as holding hands or a small kiss good morning,and over all these feelings all come from the heart,the body is an amazing piece of creation and creation needs to be touched as many have lost touch for who they really are|
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:27:35 AM
|Addressing msg 151...|
It is my belief that touching becomes something that some younger ladies feel uncomfortable with, because they are unsure of their own sexuality and feelings about thier bodies. Sensual touching and touching of any intimate nature becomes much easier for them as they mature and become at ease with themselves. Exploring with a woman that is of a tender age is a task that needs to be taken slowly and without being pushy or aggressive in nature. (Or just appearing that way.) Don't feel dejected - just take it slowly and go with her cues as to when and how she wishes to be touched - build on that & in time touching will become more natural and flow with ease.
Posted: 10/11/2006 5:29:31 PM
|TOUCHING AND OTHER THINGS LIKE HOLDING HANDS AND HUGGING AND KISSING ARE ALL FOREPLAY TO ME.....................|
Posted: 10/11/2006 5:38:07 PM
|I think touching can really show that you want to be with that person. It gives an extra boost of confidence to the person you're with when, you hold their hand or just touch them as you walk by. Plus it's really sweet.|
Posted: 10/11/2006 5:52:34 PM
|Touching....stroking...is one of the best healers we have. Touching can heal and mend emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It creates a bond between two people that is very special.|
The skin has so many nerve endings, that when touching begins, provides immense pleasure. The hands speak for the eyes.
Posted: 10/12/2006 4:18:21 AM
|Oh, absolutely.....what else is foreplay other than holding hands, touching, hugging, all of that? It's the first way that you communicate to each other that you're attracted and want to be closer.....and how the other person responds to that sends a whole lot of feedback that tells you if the feeling is mutual. If it IS......it builds from there!|
Posted: 12/19/2006 8:35:14 PM
|To add to Message 169....Love all that you said - totally agree that touching can heal and mend emotionally, physically and spiritually. IMO, though, the hands speak for the HEART, too (not just for the eyes).|
Posted: 12/19/2006 8:42:15 PM
|Well if I'm with somebody I find sexually attractive and he puts his hand on my leg, I really feel it, I have been totally turned on by just a slight touch before, I love a man who is good with his fingers too, very important to me, love to have my hair played with, love to be touched by the right person, sometimes you just feel a jolt, I agree, it's really nice.|
If that's not something a guys into, I won't stick around long, next time. Never got much of that from my last one. I hope I can get with somebody really good again someday, who likes what I like, who I have strong chemisty with.
Once I was with a guy who was totally into playing with my hair, said he just wanted to look me in the face so I just did that, and the whole time he messed up my hair, played with it, pulled it but not hard, and he was getting so turned on by staring me in the face, making strong eye contact, we weren't talking, just staring at each other and he was really getting turned on, I think, it was really erotic for me, loved it, all about touching. It's the kitten in me. :)
Posted: 12/20/2006 3:52:07 AM
|TOUCHING throughout the day ( and not just for the bedroom's sake ) is a big indication of how good your chemistry is together. There is this guy who just loves to kiss my back or smell my neck. I could be just standing there in his room and he can be busy, getting ready for work or whatever...I could be washing his dishes or doing whatever...and HE NEVER FAILS to come up behind me and press his face up against my neck or my back...to smell it and kiss it.|
Posted: 12/20/2006 5:43:26 AM
|to sum it up|
Actions speak louder than words!
Posted: 12/20/2006 6:52:50 AM
|we actually just learned in class that those who are touched on a daily basis by either another human, or pet, will live longer then a person who does not. |