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Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 128
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Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 129
Posted: 4/11/2009 4:41:29 PM
I luv to rub/massage and tickle.Yes an hour or more and it has already lubricated itself.So wet and tasty
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 130
Posted: 4/11/2009 7:48:16 PM
I need this SO bad to get turned on, and women today think that oral with NO touching qualifies for a proper warm up for sex. Sorry but I like a little more. Tease me, touch me, kiss me, make me beg for it, and I will reciprocate back to you.

There's nothing like it when two people are turned on to the point of rapture and just take each other. You lose all concept of time, (oh look it's morning, huh?) you can barely move without tingling all over, (nothing like a sh!t eating grin with a side of the giggles) and no matter how hard you try, you can't concentrate on a DAMN thing... That is truly great sex. And to get there, touching, like kissing is essential.

Hell a good rub down and make out session can make a girl cream in her pants right there, and some guys even have been known to experience this "happy accident." That alone should show just how essential good touching and foreplay, along with kissing can be to take the sex to the next extraordinary level.
Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 131
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Posted: 4/11/2009 8:43:36 PM
Touching is a very important part of a relationship. It is definitely a non-verbal way of communcating to your partner how you feel about them. So many times in relationships, the focus of touching seems to stay in the bedroom and deteriorates outside the bedroom.
Fellows if you want your woman to want to be intimate with you inside the bedroom... work on the outside of the bedroom time. Random touches and kisses can definitely steam things up a bit.
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 132
Posted: 4/12/2009 2:14:00 AM

Do both men and women belive this to be true?
How important is this connection throughout the day?

Yes, this to me is VERY important! Im a very affectionate, touchy feely type person (and no its not being clingy!) and he needs to be as well. If he isnt, it's just not going to work out. Alot can be said for 2 people who enjoy those lil love taps, a quick tight hug, kisses on the back of the neck (or wherever!), as we pass each other during the day. Those sweet lil displays of affection (and more!) shows how really into each other you really are! I think stolen moments like these help to enhance a relationship and keeps it alive. :)
Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 133
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:03:55 AM
... is a very important part of a relationship, both in and out of the bedroom.
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 134
Posted: 4/12/2009 6:20:31 AM

The most important part of a relationship is not the actual act of having sex together, but the touching that goes on throughout the time you spend together. Holding hands, rubbing your back, stroking your hair, placing a hand on your knee, a kiss on the cheek, cuddling, playing footsies, a gentle smack on the butt, you name it. Any kind of loving gesture to connect with your partner will enhance the lovemaking in the bedroom.

So well said. Worth repeating. Thank you, Leeanne!!
 texas ice tea
Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 135
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:19:48 AM
VERY IMPORTANT!Gets the juices flowing,acts of play,that take away the daily stresses in our lives, All forms of fourplay rock!So buy the time you hit the bedroom the heat is so smokin,One may just might forget to shut the door behind! As passion is let loose,bring mountains of pleasures rippling threw your body!MMMMMMMMMMMMM! got to go now!
Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 136
Posted: 4/12/2009 2:25:09 PM
I like to hold public and behind closed doors. I like kissing. That is about the extend of touching that I will engage in.
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 137
Posted: 7/19/2009 8:20:16 PM very important. While you are walking down the street, holding eachother's hand. Or holding one another while waiting on line at a movie. One in a while a gentle touch on the shoulder or a light touch on the back of the neck. It's all important to me when you're with the person you care about.

Most important, while in bed. When you both are in no hurry to go anywhere and have all night. Massages are nice, with the lights low and soft music. Soft touches and taking ones time makes the night all the more better.
 Single_in_ H_town
Joined: 6/14/2009
Msg: 138
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:33:44 PM
holding hands is one of the best feelings in the world when your with someone you love, the feeling of souls binding even for only sometime, is something we should all remember, in my opinon: love is about it all, not just doing well "it" in the bedroom

you are 100% right.
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 139
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:08:12 AM
I believe touching is very important in and out of the bedroom. When I am in a relationship , I just cant help myself if I care for someone. Holding hands, touching there face, giving a hug, kiss on the neck,it all just seems normal to me . That is one of the things I really miss now that I am not in a relationship . I believe its important to show affection even if the motive is not to end in the bedroom. I used to give the ex a squeez on the butt as she washed dishes just to let her know I cared. I was really surprised when my ex g/f told me that she had never been with a man, that cuddled after sex. She loved it. For me after making love, I still do not want it to end, I need to gentle hold her in my arms, lightly brush her arm,rub her back etc. Damn I miss that lol
Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 140
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Posted: 7/20/2009 12:11:36 PM
NO!!!! If someone was continuously touching me I would have to kill them. I'm all for sex but there comes a time when you need to stop touching me. If you want to pet something buy a cat.
Joined: 2/6/2009
Msg: 141
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:36:16 PM
Foreplay starts the minute you meet and continues forever.
Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 142
Posted: 7/20/2009 1:20:04 PM
I am happy to have the guy in my life that wanted more than friendship after awhile. We are both continually being touchy and feely. When I am on the back of his bike, I can't keep my hands off his neck, shoulders, arms, back and chest. I have to make myself stop. He is always reaching down and rubbing my leg. When not going out and just watching TV, we cuddle and are touchy & feely. In the kitchen, the same way. He is the same way afterwards, also. Touching, for me, is like foreplay, also.
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 143
Posted: 7/20/2009 11:07:06 PM
Touching is way more important than anything else. Without touch, even an infant will die. Think about that for a moment.
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 144
Posted: 7/21/2009 2:08:10 AM
Leeanne, you and hubby have been very, very naughty even has you writing about it!

It is very important to not just "bump and go". Caressing a woman into my embrace is just as important as going full throttle inside of her. I love to hold hands while I'm deep inside of her, while enacting reverse cowgirl. I also love having the woman lie her back on my chest, and grab her breasts, while in the same moving position.

Touch is an assurance for both of us. A deep physical connection is just as important as the mental connection conversation creates.

Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 145
Posted: 7/21/2009 4:41:47 AM
This would be called the little things that woman appreciate and enjoy...light touches as to carress...maybe a brush in the right is foreplay to an extent and builds her anticipation.....BUT .....most men dont take the time.....
Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 146
Posted: 7/21/2009 6:26:37 AM
Some do though. Most women do, too.
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 147
Posted: 7/27/2009 3:05:10 AM
I think everyone craves the physical touch of another person, it's just a matter of whether or not they're willing to admit it. I loved it when I was in a relationship and my girlfriend would hold my hand as she drove or when she would suggest we watch a movie just so we could cuddle. I also liked running my hand up and down her leg, especially when she shaved. Likewise I liked having her run her hand up and down my leg. Needless to say I was sad when the relationship ended.

While I do like to touch and be touched, I'm very shy about initiating it because I know not every person likes to be touched by people they aren't close to and it can be very uncomfortable if they don't want it. Needless to say there are a lot of times where I'll see people giving each other massages, running their hands up and down each others legs, hand holding, cuddling, etc. and I'll wish pretty badly that I was involved in that and get a little down because I'm not. Actually talking about this is making me wish I had a woman cuddling with me and touching me right now.
Joined: 4/18/2009
Msg: 148
Posted: 7/27/2009 3:54:23 AM
Im very affectionate an enjoy touching, kissing, holding hands, cuddling up on couch, reassurance touching like out in public an i wrap my arm around him or lean against him.. If there is None of above than i lose interest really fast.. Hmmm makes me miss being with someone
Joined: 5/2/2009
Msg: 149
Posted: 7/27/2009 4:00:01 AM
Yes it is very important, I totally agree.
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 150
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:26:14 PM
danzandsing - LMAO Check out the start date of this thread - we've been naughty for a very very long time! Some things never change - thank God!! Wouldn't have it any other way!
Glad some people are still thinking about the simpler side of life and intimacy!
 Miss Blueberry
Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 151
Posted: 7/27/2009 8:13:22 PM
Touching is EXTREMELY provides indication of interest. This can be a simple touch of the shoulder, hand, slight brush up against your arm...Just stay away from those other body parts...Or the gal may run unless you ALREADY know each other...
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 152
Posted: 7/27/2009 10:38:18 PM
the most important part in any relationship...touching is foreplay from the minute you see the person until the act of making love
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