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 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 11
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i wouldnt feel offended. maybe inadequate. if i bust a nut 3 times and im done for the evening but she still wanted more, id feel i didnt do my job

oh yeah, im a guy on the internet... ok, changing my answer to "thats great! i want it all the time! im always hard! im f'n cool!"
 kernunnos666
Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 4/5/2006 8:34:48 AM
nymphos....cool
I was married to a woman once whom though once or twice every month or two was sufficient. Needless to say, if A ladys sex drive was higher than mine : I would just have to grudgingly adapt. LOL
 stoneside
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 43
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:02:28 AM
Sex? What's sex? I'm on a dating site for God's sake. Can't remember what sex is anymore. HEHE
 Skittles32
Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 48
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 4/5/2006 10:53:24 AM
I eat Skittles. Skittles are like my Spinach.

:p
 cpupro_4hire
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 52
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 4/22/2006 6:14:10 PM


Guys...would you... Feel offended if your girl seemed to have a higher sex drive than you??


Okay seriously, what's your question?
 Truth or dare
Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 59
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 5/10/2006 10:20:26 AM
Well justagrrl the idea of sex 24/7 sounds great on the surface and most guys would say no problem, and I agree, but if you are not showing any other affections to your guy, maybe there is more beneath your surface you need to look at not his feelings.

As for you last question if I didn't agree on how good the sex was I wouldn't necessary come out and say it wasn't good for me, but would look at opertunities to show her the things that I like to make it better. I would never ask a women to tone down her sexuality that is just wrong and then it wouldn't be that person anymore. hope it helps.
 harryv05
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 65
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 7/25/2006 3:16:34 PM
I BELIEVE MOST MEN ARE AFRAID OF A WOMAN WITH A HIGH SEX DRIVE. THEY HAVE THIS IDIOTIC GUILT. THEY ARE AFRAID TO EXPOSE THEMSELVES. OR BE THOUGHT INADEQUATE. WHAT THEY FORGET IS THAT THERE ARE A LOT OF WAYS TO PLEASE A WOMAN SEXUALY. THE RESULT OF A SUCCESSFUL ACT IS THE WOMAN'S ORGASM. WISE UP GUYS. THE SEXUALY LIBERATED WOMAN IS A THING OF JOY, AND IS ACTUALY RARE. IF YOU EVER FIND ONE, ENJOY HER AS YOU WOULD A BEAUTIFUL FLOWER OR BEAUTIFUL JEWEL.
 browneyedstallion
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 76
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 1/17/2007 10:32:49 PM

Feel offended if your girl seemed to have a higher sex drive than you??


My sex drive seems to rub off on all the girls I've been involved with, because they've all had very high sex drives. I certainly wouldn't be offended if someone I was involved with had a higher drive than me, but it would be pretty scary because mine is enormous.
 jg65
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 79
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 8/30/2007 5:34:26 PM
And where are these women , exactly????
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 85
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Posted: 1/18/2011 5:59:57 PM
It's not the AMOUNT of the sex drive that matters, it's how the woman deals with it. I was married to a woman whose drive went wildly up and down over the years, before finally hitting a permanent zero level (followed by the instigation of the pending divorce). The only problem I had when she was on HIGH SEX DRIVE mode, was that she was more often than not, very demanding and almost angry about it. I had the opportunity to see some of the side of the classic woman who complains that the man didn't want to put any romantic effort into it at all, and wanted just self-centered animal coupling. When she was sensual and loving, I could keep up with anything she could muster. But when she was entirely into HERSELF about it, I was offended, and seriously turned off.
I guess the test is, what happens...how does the woman with the high sex drive respond when the guy DOES say no? If she calms herself and waits for him to come around, so that he feels valuable as her mate, it would be wonderful. But if she complains that her "needs aren't being met," and either wants a "serious talk about the relationship," or worse, asks for permission to seek sexual sustenance elsewhere, then it's bye-bye love.
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 88
Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women]
Posted: 1/18/2011 9:41:43 PM
This is a difficult thing for me to find is a man who is sexually compatible with me. After 10 years of being in a marriage where there sex life was pretty non existent and I got tired of begging for any type of sexual contact, I gave up. Next relationship was a selfish minute man with no rebound, next one had almost the sex drive to match mine but even then he would complain occasionally...do we have to have sex everyday? Sigh...Who knew it would be so hard to find? The ever elusive great companion and terrific sexual partner is out there some where.
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 90
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Posted: 1/19/2011 6:13:21 PM

Now for all the guys that say that's a dream (possibly non-realistic dream) and no one can have a higher sex drive than them ... I am thinking that if they found themselves in this situation, they'd be surprised how often they don't want it.


Within my liftime I've never heard of a real live women who had significantly more drive than the man. Not saying they doesn't exist. Most complaints I've heard are after the 6-12 m0nths of marriage the wives say, "I just don't need as much sex as you do".
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 91
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Posted: 1/21/2011 6:40:58 AM
I've had women all over that map. As much as me, more than me, less than me, much less than me.
My wife when we were young was a much more than me variety. As Igor said, it's all about how it's dealt with when you've got to decline. If it had been once a day at it's peak all would've been well; but there were times(pregnant with our daughter for example) when there just seemed there weren't enough hours in the day to keep her satisfied. I mean like 3-4 times a day; I just didn't need that much sex nor did I have the time to devote to it. I had a living to earn. And as Igor experienced, she got downright mean when refused at times. I understand to a point, as the one who wants it more feels controled by the one who wants it less.
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 96
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Posted: 1/23/2011 4:37:23 PM
When I first married the new wife thought I had no idea what was instore for me. She thought she had the fathomless labido. After six months of marriage her ocean of hormones began to go down and she wanted to have sex less often. Her words to me ten years later.

I, sometimes, wonder if women without availablilty to have sex when desired (married) don't use up their pond of hormones and they build up. While men live in an ocean of testosterone. Once they have it available at all times the pond begins to dry up and needs time to refill.
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 99
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Posted: 3/1/2011 8:13:30 AM
Frankly, I've never understood guys who brag about having more than one sex partner at a time. My PERSONAL experience has shown me that ONE woman with a healthy appetite is about all I've ever been able to handle at a time, and I've always been an "everyday" kinda guy...if you know what I mean!
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