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 galnextdoor2004
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 15
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Lasting too long? If the guy is porn star huge, and you're not used to it . . .longer than 30 mins is not fun .. . but with muscle relaxation techniques and a little sensitive attention and caring given to the gal . . .all should be cool . . .. in my own humble experience . . ;-)
 MeowDude
Joined: 4/14/2006
Msg: 17
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:33:46 PM
yes I last a very long time and many complain that their box is being worn down
 sweetwildchild
Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 18
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 5/22/2006 9:54:16 PM
There is no such thing as TOO LONG for me at least. I've never been able to find one to last long enough. When you start to get raw after 30 minutes of solid vaginal penetration just open the KY. The last guy I had sex with said MOST women wanted to do it no longer than 20-30 minutes. I said, THAT'S JUST AN APPETIZER.
 Staryorku
Joined: 5/22/2006
Msg: 19
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 5/23/2006 6:41:25 AM
that sounds horrid selfish women annoy me my last relationship my gf cumed ration was 2-1 and i was always lagging cause after a few months n sex every other day it gets loosy and well shit girls need 2 stop acting so stuck up n get down 2 the oral switch it off u know cause they sure as hell exspect it from us ... when they cum they pull u closer... when u cum i get a foot in my face n told 2 get that shit the hell away from her... WTF
 Ldygmr
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 22
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/8/2006 8:45:28 PM
Absofrackinglutely.
Men who spend twenty minutes or more just pounding away like they have some kind of vendetta to settle are LAME. That is TOO long for such vanilla affairs.

Now.... An hour with someone creative, attentive and playful.... oh my word.
 ManitobaGrrl
Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 25
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/16/2006 12:50:34 PM
Yes, if you are very very lucky
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 26
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/18/2006 3:14:07 AM
Hm... if tuning is done with TLC and to every single little detail ... how come that one party could be miles ahead of the other? In my books it could be either p l o d d i n g or lovely
t r o t t i n g. No one is left behind. Question is to get really really h o t to be able to
t r o t.
 element1
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 27
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/22/2006 4:54:08 PM
Women want good Quility Sex not the guts to be rammed out Be flexable
 randy54156
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 28
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 6/22/2006 7:51:23 PM
Personally; I like to take my time. Give her afew orgasms before I indulge myself.
I really don't know what she has to complain about in the first place?
All the woman has to do is lay there. The man is the one doing all the work.
 gorrillaz
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/28/2007 3:08:59 PM

Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?




if he's still there when she says "i do"


funny shit

lol depends on the chik i lasted longer thn this one chik and she jst jumped off whn she cummed and left me hanging
 doors1999
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 30
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 7/29/2007 9:42:56 PM
I have found that woman have no idea what they want.If they have a lover that is quick they complain yet if they have a man that can hold as long as he wants they want the opposite
As for me I do not think a woman has ever complained I am too quick if anything they know that they have had a real man when I am done
 gigigrongbell
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 31
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 7/29/2007 11:27:29 PM
what a fascinating and misleading thread
yes a man can last too long:
.. if he doesnt know what he's doing.
.. if I have to be at work in 30 mins and he cant get off.
.. if he has been using the same position for 40 mins
.. if I have lost interest.
but all the reasons are psychological before they are physical.
If a guy knows how to effectively use his mind/ my mind. If he knows how to blow my circuits again and again then I dont care if he can last for 12 hours. 10 is my record. ... lol ...
If a man just silently thrusts away from almost any position with no preamble, no mental stimulation .. and no imagination .. then 30 mins can be way too long. If on the other hand he can f*** my brain .. he can have my body for a long long time .. If he can play my emotions like a violin .. and send my brain on trips of adventure at the same time. wow.

The other side of this conversation is "why" can't he come in a reasonable time? Does he have psychological issues? Has he masturbated himself heavily over the years and now at age 45 he cant get off on regular sex? Is he getting off on the power as opposed to the sex? Is he one of those talented few who can orgasm without ejaculation and does this so habitually that he cant let go when the time comes. If he knows enough to keep me coming and coming, these causes are less of an issue .. but if he is less talented in the technical and mental skills of good love making then you might want to teach him. He might be in possession of a very good talent .. that needs some sex ed. 460 homework. Maybe hes a closet sub or gay. Most likely he needs you to show him what you like. Work on his mind and show him how to work on yours.

Come on girls lets teach him sane sex!!
 Hippiedude22
Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 32
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:53:32 PM
Correction Whiskey****is when a guy is too drunk to get it up....So I hear.....nevermind....
 Hippiedude22
Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/2/2007 4:59:17 PM
I hate to toot my own horn but more often then not I've been the one left hanging.After a few hours either orifice gets pretty sore.(I've had a blowjob last 2 hrs!)I thank that due to me being a compulsive masturbator.My own personal sessions last a minimum of 30-40 minutes.Sometimes even my****gets raw or my arm gives out...
It's a pleasant curse.
 Hippiedude22
Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 8/4/2007 9:39:42 PM
Enjoyslife, It's my understanding that the "average"penis size is 6-7".
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 35
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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 1/28/2011 5:30:00 PM
Is two or three hours too long? Most women just don't want to have sex, they just want the orgasm. They can watch a dumb movies for hours but only want quickie sex for the climax and to keep a man around to do things for them.
 sexyisback!
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 36
Is there such a thing as a man BRAGGING TOO MUCH?
Posted: 2/2/2011 7:41:35 AM
sigh, yet another trolling thread started by a guy with a 'left-handed' complaint or problem, actually BRAGGING in the disguise of a 'problem.

\'is it possible my humongous c0ck is just too big for some women\\\\/'

\'is it possible my legendary \superman / long-lasting capacity could ever bet oo much|\/

??

questions dying for answers, I suppose.
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 2/2/2011 7:23:10 PM
Back to the original posting. Yes it can be a problem for both when the woman only likes it for a short time. They are not sexually compatible.
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