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 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 91
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i would have to say your profile pics should reflect who you are and what you like to do

A saying comes to my mind : a hungry one is dreaming about food
I think it applies to bed scene, OP is mentioning in his opening post
 ricajohns87
Joined: 6/5/2008
Msg: 92
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Posted: 8/28/2008 12:56:43 AM
this is for Mthomjmark. Someone is trying to get hold of you. Please check your inbox. :)
 thatgirl_next_door
Joined: 10/22/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 8/29/2008 8:29:10 PM
I don't see how a woman taking a picture in her bed (or showing cleavage) is any different than a dude taking his picture with his car. We all have preferences about how we'd like to see people represent themselves... but here's the catch - someone else's picture isn't about YOU. It is about how THEY want you to see them. Are we really going to get into a pissing contest over it? I don't like pics of guys with their car, with their ex, throwing stupid hand signs, or showing them downing alcohol... BUT those pics show me a lot about the person in them! I've got all different pics of me that I feel represent different aspects of my personality... take it or leave it.
 Gaelyn
Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 97
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Posted: 8/30/2008 12:16:59 PM
wow, you've been rejected quite a bit on online dating sites haven't you... you have my sympathy.
 ________
Joined: 12/24/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 8/30/2008 12:38:55 PM
I doubt very much if the room of a home a photo is taken would make or break things for many - so what this is about is how revealing the photos are and the eroticism of the poses. Obviously if a photo is revealing it is more likely to be taken in the bedroom than at the mall. (unless it's being posted on Public-Exhibitionists-R-Us.... )
 stopstarin
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 106
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Posted: 9/7/2008 10:17:42 PM
there is a huge difference to having a pic where you happen to be on a bed........as apposed to the posed lingerie pics

the latter is just..............

CREEPY

*shudders

I agree people are allowed to represent themselves the way they want. But I also have no choice of the thumbnail pics that are there when checking mail, or have viewed me etc. So I DO have to see them and have no choice.........

post a normal everyday pic and save the "money" pics for those interested!

people's views of what's sexy varies........

but to me.........THAT isn't it!

Seriously!
 stopstarin
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 108
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Posted: 9/7/2008 10:36:55 PM
^^^^ I'm chummin' the waters...........

DA NA DA NA DA NA NA NA NA

 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 111
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Posted: 9/8/2008 5:38:10 PM
OH for Christ sakes people! this debate began in April! Isn't there anything better to do with ourselves!!!! I feel stupid that I read it, and I am ACTUALLY responding. But, who cares what others want for themselves, we are all here to find someone WE like, not someone everyone else thinks we need. If I was here for that I would have married the guy my parents picked for me. LOL!
Lets find some other stimulating stuff to talk about.
Carebear
Let's hope this is over by Christmas!!


1carebear - April of 2006!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So that means almost 2 1/2 years!!!!

Gotta say though, it's definitely not just women that do this and it's something that just doesn't float my boat at all.
 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 113
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Posted: 9/9/2008 8:49:43 PM

WOW! April of "06" well then..... let's just see how long we can keep it going then since we've gotten this far. LOL! and I totally understand, the whole picture thing, but what my real concern on here is that almost EVERY man becomes super man, and thinks nothing of going sexual on you right off the bat even if you don't have a "sexy", lying on the bed, photo. So, how can we stop that from happening? any ideas???
Thanks, Carebear


Send them a picture of Grandma in a thong!!
 cassandrat2001
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 115
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Posted: 9/10/2008 1:13:37 PM
i personally would not post pics like that but i think 2 each their own. the thing that bugs me is when u see women & all their pics are like half naked, wearing mini-skirts, low cut shirts showing cleavage, go-go boots, laying on a bed or whatever & then they get on the forums & complain about all these guys msging them talking to them like they just want sex. or they put in their profile that they are so tired of guys emailing them looking for a fling or whatever. i think if that is the way u present urself u should expect that some people might assume some things about u.
 Sweet J-me Baby
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 9/10/2008 1:36:53 PM
HMMMMMM, I have a pic of me on my bed, but not in it....nobody from here is going to see me in my bed... have a pic of me in a mini-skirt, one with me in a low-cut shirt, and one of me in boots.....I get very few men message me looking for sex....I happen to think I present myself just fine, thank you very much!

There's a big difference between portraying yourself as being sensual, but classy and being trashy. I think most intelligent men can tell the difference!
 Sweet J-me Baby
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 117
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Posted: 9/10/2008 1:52:00 PM

Whewwwwwww I'm so glad I decided to go with the pool table shot instead of the desparate on the bed shot .....haha ,,,seriously


Good call, buffy! Green is definitely your colour!
 Ronnie Depp
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 120
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Posted: 9/11/2008 3:48:08 PM
I don't disagree, but at least they're not giving that sour looking, puckered face like most everyone else does.

Am I the only person who finds this irritating?

Especially the people who are doing it in every picture.
Wow, you can pucker. Awesome. Now kiss my butt.


 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 121
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Posted: 9/11/2008 4:36:56 PM

I don't disagree, but at least they're not giving that sour looking, puckered face like most everyone else does.

Am I the only person who finds this irritating?

Especially the people who are doing it in every picture.
Wow, you can pucker. Awesome. Now kiss my butt.


But lifeworthkeeping that's their "come sexy" look!

It is there attempt at saying "MMMmm baby" while possibly trying to fight of a bad case of gas maybe?!?!
 Ronnie Depp
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 9/11/2008 4:56:39 PM

But lifeworthkeeping that's their "come sexy" look!

It is there attempt at saying "MMMmm baby" while possibly trying to fight of a bad case of gas maybe?!?!




haha

I figured it out, though.
It's just practice for their upcoming role in the new Sour Skittles commercials.
 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 123
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Posted: 9/11/2008 5:08:27 PM

haha

I figured it out, though.
It's just practice for their upcoming role in the new Sour Skittles commercials.



.


It must be a huge audition and Sour Skittles must be making a killin cause that look is rampant!


Thanks for the laugh! .
 Ronnie Depp
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 124
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Posted: 9/11/2008 5:12:51 PM

It must be a huge audition and Sour Skittles must be making a killin cause that look is rampant!
Thanks for the laugh! .



No problem
 ron62449
Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 132
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Posted: 12/31/2008 1:28:32 PM
I used to feel like the poster on this, but I've slowly changed my mind. There are some
pictures on here of women laying on the bed or sitting and they are modestly clothed. I've also seen some in lingerie, again modestly. Now if they are in sexy bras and panties in bed, or one certain woman with legs spread out wearing an almost nothing swimsuit or ones the have
plenty of cleavage showing are another standing with her blouse open and showing off her
bra, with a comeon message on it is what I feel is obscene.

Ron
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 134
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Posted: 10/18/2011 12:17:25 PM
true online dating is marketing an advertising..an we all have to try an have an inviting angle,, but men do this as well ive seen alot of from the head to the stomach an thier laying down in bed shirt an no shirt.. or so many only wearing towels..had 1 guy who just emailed me upside down pic of him shirtless laying down in bed..so it's everywhere.
 kailania
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 135
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Posted: 10/22/2011 5:55:53 PM
i personally would not put a bed photo. but to those who do....it does not mean they are going to let a guy right into their beds. omgosh.
some women have more social class than others. i have 4 daughters. one of them does not know how to dress right or put on makeup the right way. the other 3 are more subtle about it all. it doesnt make my other daughter trashy or more promiscuous.
she just must "see" herself differently because we have tried to tell her gently about her makeup. she is getting better at it finally.

what about the guys who waste my time when i cant even see them through their sunglasses or baseball caps.?
or put up one or two photos of themselves and then show off their cars or motorcycles?

there are plenty of older and also much younger girls on here showing too much IMO>
that may lead a man to fantasy island but it is not reality.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 136
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:35:18 PM
go figure the shirtless guy in bed who had emailed come to find out wasn't even single he admited to having a girlfriend of 2yrs an 3 kids....said he was quote looking around even though his ad stated him single an looking for a relationship.hope he gets caught up.

anyhowwwwww


i'd say ya prob for some guys it gets mixed into the porn fantasy how many times has a movie started where the woman is on the bed an the guy walks into the room an is like mmm wow..an then bang bang bang the action begins..have to remeber to separate reality from fantasy online..
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 137
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Posted: 10/23/2011 11:35:07 PM
online dating is marketing an advertising..an we all have to try an have an inviting angle
OMG! Why does this brings images of 3d model with detailed specifications and trial offer. Kind that you can rotate.
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 138
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Posted: 10/23/2011 11:59:28 PM
I think it's a bit gross, actually.
I mean, could you be any more obvious? There was one poster here who used to rant on about givin' it up too soon coz he won't respect you in the morning. Her thing was "make him work for it" blah blah. And her profile pic had her lying suggestively on her bed with a glass of wine..mixed messages or what??
I prefer shots that are more naturally sexy. I like to see a smiling face - not laughing hysterically, but a friendly interesting look. I like to see their eyes and I'm interested in how they dress. (I'm talking about men.)
The bed thing is like you've got nothing else to sell.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 139
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Posted: 10/24/2011 12:04:37 AM
Better than the couch potato pic...
Great for picking out sheets...
Depends if it's queen or king...

Not in the best taste but not for me to judge.
Seen worse on here years past, much more cleaned up!
 Blue-Eyes-Shine
Joined: 11/26/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2011 11:27:08 AM
I recently saw "Snooky" on a talk show saying she wears 2 very padded bras at the same time to make it look like she has big breasts. She's afraid to have the implant surgery done. (I learn something new everyday.)
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