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 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 113
People who post pictures of them in their bed..Page 6 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)

WOW! April of "06" well then..... let's just see how long we can keep it going then since we've gotten this far. LOL! and I totally understand, the whole picture thing, but what my real concern on here is that almost EVERY man becomes super man, and thinks nothing of going sexual on you right off the bat even if you don't have a "sexy", lying on the bed, photo. So, how can we stop that from happening? any ideas???
Thanks, Carebear


Send them a picture of Grandma in a thong!!
 cassandrat2001
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 115
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People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 9/10/2008 1:13:37 PM
i personally would not post pics like that but i think 2 each their own. the thing that bugs me is when u see women & all their pics are like half naked, wearing mini-skirts, low cut shirts showing cleavage, go-go boots, laying on a bed or whatever & then they get on the forums & complain about all these guys msging them talking to them like they just want sex. or they put in their profile that they are so tired of guys emailing them looking for a fling or whatever. i think if that is the way u present urself u should expect that some people might assume some things about u.
 Sweet J-me Baby
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 116
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 9/10/2008 1:36:53 PM
HMMMMMM, I have a pic of me on my bed, but not in it....nobody from here is going to see me in my bed... have a pic of me in a mini-skirt, one with me in a low-cut shirt, and one of me in boots.....I get very few men message me looking for sex....I happen to think I present myself just fine, thank you very much!

There's a big difference between portraying yourself as being sensual, but classy and being trashy. I think most intelligent men can tell the difference!
 Sweet J-me Baby
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 117
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 9/10/2008 1:52:00 PM

Whewwwwwww I'm so glad I decided to go with the pool table shot instead of the desparate on the bed shot .....haha ,,,seriously


Good call, buffy! Green is definitely your colour!
 Ronnie Depp
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 120
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 9/11/2008 3:48:08 PM
I don't disagree, but at least they're not giving that sour looking, puckered face like most everyone else does.

Am I the only person who finds this irritating?

Especially the people who are doing it in every picture.
Wow, you can pucker. Awesome. Now kiss my butt.


 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 121
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 9/11/2008 4:36:56 PM

I don't disagree, but at least they're not giving that sour looking, puckered face like most everyone else does.

Am I the only person who finds this irritating?

Especially the people who are doing it in every picture.
Wow, you can pucker. Awesome. Now kiss my butt.


But lifeworthkeeping that's their "come sexy" look!

It is there attempt at saying "MMMmm baby" while possibly trying to fight of a bad case of gas maybe?!?!
 Ronnie Depp
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 9/11/2008 4:56:39 PM

But lifeworthkeeping that's their "come sexy" look!

It is there attempt at saying "MMMmm baby" while possibly trying to fight of a bad case of gas maybe?!?!




haha

I figured it out, though.
It's just practice for their upcoming role in the new Sour Skittles commercials.
 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 123
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Posted: 9/11/2008 5:08:27 PM

haha

I figured it out, though.
It's just practice for their upcoming role in the new Sour Skittles commercials.



.


It must be a huge audition and Sour Skittles must be making a killin cause that look is rampant!


Thanks for the laugh! .
 Ronnie Depp
Joined: 9/5/2008
Msg: 124
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Posted: 9/11/2008 5:12:51 PM

It must be a huge audition and Sour Skittles must be making a killin cause that look is rampant!
Thanks for the laugh! .



No problem
 ron62449
Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 132
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:28:32 PM
I used to feel like the poster on this, but I've slowly changed my mind. There are some
pictures on here of women laying on the bed or sitting and they are modestly clothed. I've also seen some in lingerie, again modestly. Now if they are in sexy bras and panties in bed, or one certain woman with legs spread out wearing an almost nothing swimsuit or ones the have
plenty of cleavage showing are another standing with her blouse open and showing off her
bra, with a comeon message on it is what I feel is obscene.

Ron
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 134
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 10/18/2011 12:17:25 PM
true online dating is marketing an advertising..an we all have to try an have an inviting angle,, but men do this as well ive seen alot of from the head to the stomach an thier laying down in bed shirt an no shirt.. or so many only wearing towels..had 1 guy who just emailed me upside down pic of him shirtless laying down in bed..so it's everywhere.
 kailania
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 135
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 10/22/2011 5:55:53 PM
i personally would not put a bed photo. but to those who do....it does not mean they are going to let a guy right into their beds. omgosh.
some women have more social class than others. i have 4 daughters. one of them does not know how to dress right or put on makeup the right way. the other 3 are more subtle about it all. it doesnt make my other daughter trashy or more promiscuous.
she just must "see" herself differently because we have tried to tell her gently about her makeup. she is getting better at it finally.

what about the guys who waste my time when i cant even see them through their sunglasses or baseball caps.?
or put up one or two photos of themselves and then show off their cars or motorcycles?

there are plenty of older and also much younger girls on here showing too much IMO>
that may lead a man to fantasy island but it is not reality.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 136
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Posted: 10/23/2011 3:35:18 PM
go figure the shirtless guy in bed who had emailed come to find out wasn't even single he admited to having a girlfriend of 2yrs an 3 kids....said he was quote looking around even though his ad stated him single an looking for a relationship.hope he gets caught up.

anyhowwwwww


i'd say ya prob for some guys it gets mixed into the porn fantasy how many times has a movie started where the woman is on the bed an the guy walks into the room an is like mmm wow..an then bang bang bang the action begins..have to remeber to separate reality from fantasy online..
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 137
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 10/23/2011 11:35:07 PM
online dating is marketing an advertising..an we all have to try an have an inviting angle
OMG! Why does this brings images of 3d model with detailed specifications and trial offer. Kind that you can rotate.
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 138
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Posted: 10/23/2011 11:59:28 PM
I think it's a bit gross, actually.
I mean, could you be any more obvious? There was one poster here who used to rant on about givin' it up too soon coz he won't respect you in the morning. Her thing was "make him work for it" blah blah. And her profile pic had her lying suggestively on her bed with a glass of wine..mixed messages or what??
I prefer shots that are more naturally sexy. I like to see a smiling face - not laughing hysterically, but a friendly interesting look. I like to see their eyes and I'm interested in how they dress. (I'm talking about men.)
The bed thing is like you've got nothing else to sell.
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 139
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Posted: 10/24/2011 12:04:37 AM
Better than the couch potato pic...
Great for picking out sheets...
Depends if it's queen or king...

Not in the best taste but not for me to judge.
Seen worse on here years past, much more cleaned up!
 Blue-Eyes-Shine
Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 140
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Posted: 11/1/2011 11:27:08 AM
I recently saw "Snooky" on a talk show saying she wears 2 very padded bras at the same time to make it look like she has big breasts. She's afraid to have the implant surgery done. (I learn something new everyday.)
 wackadoodledoo
Joined: 4/14/2011
Msg: 141
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Posted: 11/1/2011 1:06:24 PM
Men and women alike, use poor taste and poor judgment in public, why would it be any different on a dating site?? Because they can!!!
 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 142
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Posted: 11/21/2011 9:10:47 PM
yup, I agree with you completely
 TedJMill
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 143
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Posted: 11/22/2011 8:01:37 AM
I could post a picture of me in my bed; it would show all the books and CDs and DVDs and DVD player that cover the other half of the bed.
 mdgs
Joined: 11/17/2011
Msg: 144
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Posted: 11/24/2011 10:39:05 PM
Well this site is about people looking for what they want.

If I am serious I am going to make sure I present myself a certain way. No bed or cleavage pics. In the same manner I don't respond to anybody who doesn't have a shirt on in his profile pics.

Its lame that some women complain about guys being sleazy but yet they have sleazy pictures up.....
 cutiecaliente
Joined: 9/27/2010
Msg: 145
People who post pictures of them in their bed..
Posted: 11/25/2011 3:50:15 AM
when you are posting pictures...
you are sending messages...
if you are posting yourself in bed... what do you think you are saying?

people will think you want sex...or not taken serious
 Lolita_LeBron
Joined: 1/12/2011
Msg: 146
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Posted: 11/25/2011 7:06:13 AM
Well, if they want to take bedroom pics, that is their business. Profiles are what they are--- profiles--- and if they want to post their cleavage shots do it, it is at their expense and no one elses. I do agree that people shouldn't complain when they receive nasty messages because of them. You do get out of it what you put into them. The only ones that have a real problem are the ones who wear casual clothing and receive messages from someone choking his chicken, as he is typing with the other hand and then presses SEND.
 picmenc
Joined: 5/17/2008
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Posted: 11/25/2011 7:27:48 AM
Just cause a woman posts pics of her cleavage, doesn't mean she is looking for pervs. I enjoy seeing cleavage. Doesen't make me think less of the woman.
After all, women showing cleavage in daily life is the norm anymore.
Char
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 148
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Posted: 11/25/2011 7:09:25 PM
picmenc

Just cause a woman posts pics of her cleavage, doesn't mean she is looking for pervs. I enjoy seeing cleavage. Doesen't make me think less of the woman.
After all, women showing cleavage in daily life is the norm anymore.
Char



go on an tell the truth!!




some women have no choice its the way they where built if they have cleavage or big bottoms or whatever it maybe doesnt matter what they wear covered up or not still as a previous posters have said some "ricky retardo" will come by an make some comments..

an then there are the obvious pics of women flaunting what they have an not being ashamed or embarrased of it..

an then you have they ya they maybe advertsing sexually but dam even then they still have a limit of no an no thanks im not a free hooker for sale..

SO WHAT EVERY WOMAN world wide is to dress down completly covered an be ashamed ..

isnt this when some men are suppose to have a lil sense an not word vomit but atleast act like they have more home training an try not to act like a first time virgin being around or seeing women an think if you see or touch it its yours..cant put all the blame on women
arent men suppose to have some kind of social skills an tact for when it comes to approaching a woman I know not all do but some out here still can multitask brain from penis. right?
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