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 zaphod23
Joined: 7/30/2010
Msg: 116
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Bloke here. Average looks. slim, 49. Wish i was a woman. A one nighter would be great, not even kissed a woman for 2 years. But I dont think you ladies understand how difficult it is for us guys to just go out and get laid, you really DO need to be a 'boy' a 'jack the lad' its true!!
 zaphod23
Joined: 7/30/2010
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Posted: 4/7/2011 7:39:27 AM
Ineresting reply, nicely put!
You must admit though, that if your just an average looking guy like myself and are a litttle shy, then its really hard to find a partner. Yes of course thats what I want, thats what most people want; love, companionship and all that comes with it.
I've been trying on this site for 9 months and got nowhere, I sit in pubs and dont swagger up to ladies and give them corny lines. I would feel a fool! So, more advice please:- how am I going to find LOVE?
Its harder for MEN!! Who's going to chat me up?
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 120
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Posted: 4/12/2011 8:58:38 AM
i think that all depends on the person.

the best thing to do is to learn from your mistakes so your next relationship is a better relationship.

if you realize that your a major reason for being in bad relationhips then maybe you should take some time and look at yourself before entering your next relationship.
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
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Posted: 4/16/2011 9:37:43 AM
journal in a notebook, exercise, go to a support group that applies, take up an active sport that you always wanted to do. Pray and give it to God.
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