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 Mojo_LA
Joined: 12/15/2004
Msg: 85
Do nerds actually have girlfriends?Page 10 of 10    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10)
No, nerds do not have girlfriends.

They have harems of gorgeous super models who cater to their every whim and fight over who gets to pleasure him next, but no, I wouldn't call them "girlfriends."
 designingwoman
Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 88
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Posted: 8/2/2006 6:54:40 PM
This nerdette does not have a boyfriend, at this writing. I am a nerdette of sorts because I love Star Trek and am an **Old School** Gamer. I like the classic games that are played in arcades. Games are meant to be 25 cents per play! Plunk those quarters
 crazycat0131
Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 89
Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 8/3/2006 3:39:22 AM
your asking the wrong girls,

there are a lot of us out there that like guys like you, me being one of them.

I want a guy that is nice, intellegent and who would treat me well.

btw I am a lvl 52 hunter in WOW myself.
 PirateJohn09
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 96
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Posted: 4/12/2009 7:35:19 PM

And, for the love of meatballs, stop playing WoW.

Them's fightin' woids!

Actually, there's nothing at all wrong with being a "nerd." Heck, I often say to people that I'm a nerd and proud of it. I really am. I have a master's degree, am a professional scientist, am a member of Mensa. You get the picture.

It's just a matter of being true to yourself and liking yourself exactly the way you are. There's no shortage of women who are actually attracted to nerdy guys, ya know.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 98
Do nerds actually have girlfriends?
Posted: 4/13/2009 6:22:54 AM
OP mediamake is right; I can't count how many profiles say ,"I'm a nerd looking for a nerd". totally cool nowadays;

I think the internet has created a lot of nerds; very smart people that are socially lacking in a lot of confidence and savvy. Many hide behind computer screens and text messages instead of getting out their and living.

Just be yourself and get out there and meet people; so many want Mr. or Miss right to come out of their computer screen or knock on their door with a pizza saying,"where have you been all my life".

It's amazing; I dont know how people had sex, met, got married and had children without texting and the internet; lol; of course I'm being extremely sarcastic.

Get out of the house and meet people; it's really not hard if you try.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 119
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Posted: 5/28/2009 10:27:42 AM
Went out with 8 girls since what?

Dude, if you are a Nerd, learn math.

And math is about numbers, probability, outcome.

Do you understand this sh it? Or you are going to hide under your own insecurities and fear or rejection.

Go out there and learn to get rejected. Go contact 100 women, all with totally different messages.

Go even hit on a girl with the most ridiculous of lines and see what happens. Get it out of your system and you will realize that you limiting yourself, it's all in your head.
 Oneitis
Joined: 5/24/2009
Msg: 120
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Posted: 5/28/2009 9:45:34 PM
Nerdy girls are so attractive!! Drooool.............

oh and yeah, these so called "Nerds" who claim they have girlfriends.... there isn't a solid way to find out unless you know them or meet them in person. But the idea isn't totally false either... I've seen many guys who look or seem.. "nerdy" yet have very beautiful girlfriends. I for one am jealous of them, hahah....
 ççç™
Joined: 4/21/2009
Msg: 123
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Posted: 5/29/2009 4:21:58 AM
HAHAHAHAH ....

Nerds don't have sht! They come here and post "nice guy" threads, that's all they got. Jeeez!
Bill gates...well not every nerd becomes Bill gates, nor becomes successful. Most get stuck in 9/5 jobs forever and usually have serious social problems.

Nerds have gfs ..... oh pleassseee...pfft !
All they have is the virtual porn and vaseline.... bah!

 Vincent_1984
Joined: 11/14/2005
Msg: 124
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Posted: 5/29/2009 8:33:15 AM
Some nerds do, most don't. No matter what you may have heard, the women who are are willing to even consider investing in a nerd are still in the minority. Never mind all the studies that show that nerds are actually physically active, generally smarter, less violent, more caring, make better lovers and better fathers because there are still way too many negative social stereotypes working against nerds for them to even matter.


Video games still aren't recognized as respectable medium or a legitimate form of entertainment by mainstream media, fiction is considered weak escapism by the those with no imagination and intellectuality is often demonized to adhere for the lowest common denominators. The average girl was raised under these effects and is now very much set in her ways. They have different priorities and will avoid all things nerd like the plague without even thinking twice about it.
 SMaggs
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 157
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Posted: 8/14/2009 4:10:31 PM
I use WPA2 Personal with AES, and MAC filtering on my wireless. I still reach 10 Mb down /800 up. I have 2 computers hooked up via wireless, and 1 iPod Touch.
 SMaggs
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 158
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Posted: 8/14/2009 4:41:07 PM
I'm Irish American, my parents are both Irish. I speak some Gaelic, my great grandfather was a Seachai back in Ireland. That's Gaelic for storyteller. This was in the days before tape recorders in the 1930s and 1940s. He's famous over there, the county council made a stone carving of him I have yet to see in person, so I'm the 3rd generation of that.
 SMaggs
Joined: 3/9/2009
Msg: 159
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Posted: 8/14/2009 4:44:01 PM
I tend to read a lot, so much so that I memorized my NYPL library card number. I'm currently reading The Forgotten Man, it's interesting so far.
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Posted: 8/14/2009 11:09:34 PM

I use WPA2 Personal with AES, and MAC filtering on my wireless. I still reach 10 Mb down /800 up. I have 2 computers hooked up via wireless, and 1 iPod Touch.


I must be a nerd, cause I understand this stuff. My one regret is that my current wireless router doesn't do WPA2.

For 20 years I've built my own computers, I've programmed using DIP switches, built my own model rokets (35-40 years ago), and have shelves filled with C++, PERL, and JAVA books. I've studied, read, and written in Russian, use to be able to bore you to tears about the Krebs-Citric acid cycle, did my thesis on bio-electric-photometric sensors, and believe solder is a programming language (inside joke).

I have 4 functional computers around my house (only use three currently) and my main box has 2.4 TB of memory available internally and another couple externally. Each computer has 2 or 3 different operating systems. I remember, fondly, spending all nighters playing early versions of Civ, Wolfenstein 3D (mein leben), and Doom.

I am currently in mid stride wiring my house for Gigabit ethernet using Cat 5 and Cat 6 cable and putting in enough quad shielded RJ6 coax for a closed circuit network. Oh yeah, fun times.

I thought pocket protectors were an article of clothing.

My favorite genre is Sci-Fi. I have over a 1000 sci-fi paperbacks, somewhere around half are read. Favorite authors are Tim Zahn, Niven, Perry, and others.

I've earned my nerd bona fides.

Oh, yeah, and I did have girl friends.

TK
{did I mention I wore horn rim bi-focals in HS and at university - til I discovered aviators}
 dbguy79
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 162
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Posted: 8/15/2009 2:17:44 PM
You seem to think being a nerd is a good thing. Listing IQ and academic accomplishment. Being a nerd means you have poor social skills and not many friends.

And yea, people with bad social skills and not many friends can still get girlfriends. They usually dress up like Spock and go to star trek conventions together.
 Mike6882
Joined: 11/13/2009
Msg: 171
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Posted: 2/3/2010 1:50:07 AM
Nerds do fine as long as they are confident nerds. I've seen some confident average looking nerds with smoking hot girlfriends.
 curlygrl
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 187
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Posted: 11/23/2010 4:46:48 PM
I live with a nerd. So what's that make me- sensitive. Ummm

No.

Makes me the nerds girlfriend.

I'm still "pain in the ass - tell everyone to fcck off" me.

I'm far from sensitive or laid back.

I just happen to love a guy who has a replica of the starship enterprise
In our china cabinet.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 189
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Posted: 11/23/2010 8:15:31 PM
Yeah yeah yeah, and at the end of the day nerds come last anyway no matter what the women post here.

Anybody who calls himself "nerd" is just someone who decided one day that since he sucks with women, barely has any friends and likes to collect stamps, that's he's smarter than everybody else and therefore labels himself "nerd" as an excuse. As for IQ tests, I believe that a lot of people feed off of that for the rest of their lives and seriously think that the mind is so simple that any test in the world would measure intelligence as if given by God himself on a stone tablet.
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