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 smileee4u
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 151
I'm not attracted to women my age.Page 7 of 18    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18)
Nicole, Salma, and Rachael Ray? What other magazines and TV portrayals are you judgeing women by.... no wonder you are having difficulty finding a "real woman". You are gauging your standards in "unreality". If you could really see Rachael in person, you would see a pear-shaped person, small on the top, who is short. The cameras try to get angles that look okay, but look a little closer, and you will see the illusion of it all.... not to mention all those other magazine you view, where the models are "airbrushed". You are getting yourself boxed into the superficiality of photograpy and TV. You are totally visual. That's your problem. You should get a Giant Screen and spend all the time you want with all the stars you want, and enjoy Friday and Saturday night AT THE MOVIES with your favorite women.... but don't expect to be real with feeling the soft tissue melt into your hard body. It will all be in your mind, in your fantascies, in your imagination. You can dream up the perfect woman that is "your age". You need to get out in a group or club or church activity and stay away from TV and magazines, so you can get a grip on reality.
 The_Fat_Bandit
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 152
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 6/1/2008 5:51:44 AM
When did I become the OP? The OP is the gimp....he has no profile. And as a matter of fact I do consider myself an up and coming celebrity. One of my best colleagues always refers me to be "The Rockstar", he said to me, "With that personality, your incite, the wacky hair and that earing, your the rockstar, people love being around you, you'll find some 18 year old woman and have 10 kids together." An comparing myself to actors and musicians isn't silly I've been both, and my bass is still under my bed. Heck I'm already a bit of a celebrity around town now, people come up to me and say, "Your that guy that paints those great paintings", or I've had to sign prints of my work for people, or people want to met the guy that painted those picture, etc, etc. Just wait at the uproar I'll cause in the art world over the next few years.

I ain't anti-norm, I'm just old fashioned and have morals values which most of society, and especially, younger men around here don't have. I come from the old school. If my dad was alive today he would be 98, and my mother would have turned 80 in two weeks. My parents grew in the 30s and 40s, through the Great Depression, my dad was a baptist farmer and farm mechanic. My mother was a Ukrainian Catholic factory worker, who's father came to Canada around 1903. I have their values and morals. I used to go to the farm as a child, my uncle owned it as he was the youngest, and they didn't have running water til 1983. Outhouse and well.

Why do these younger women like me? Simple. I talk to them, I respect them, I treat them as equals, we have similar goals, and most important I know what I want out of life. These other young guys just want to party and sleep around, but it seems these younger women I met want more out of a relationship...they are thinking of settling down. One 22 year old university student was so mad one night at men, I asked why she was so upset? She said, "Why can't I just meet a guy that's isn't going to cheat on me, or get drunk every night, and we can just get on with life!!!" They want what I willing to offer them. Perhaps some of you get so upset cause I got more to offer these women than the boys you raised?

So please quit referring to me as the OP. And it would be nice if you go back and pick on him for awhile.
 Athena38.
Joined: 5/20/2008
Msg: 153
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 6/1/2008 6:11:30 AM
'Marxist' priciples LOL, yea that did GREAT things for Russia didn't it?? Christ.
 CherylCake
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 154
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 6/1/2008 6:21:23 AM
AND...you're too old to become a big rockstar, live in hilltop boxes, driving 15 cars. All the older Rockstars were fameous pretty early on . True talent usually gets discovered right away. So why is that bass under the bed? Hmmmm? How long has it been there? Hmmmmm?
Btw/ peeps in their 50's are all horrible, ugly, fat, & wrinkly...yes? Oh, and have no style, coolness, or class. I guess I should just roll up ina big ball & die. My My!
 The_Fat_Bandit
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 155
Enough already
Posted: 6/1/2008 7:57:48 AM
Sorry I'm such an egotistical ass...but how am I supposed to come across when all people do is pick on others that are different. And all the great painters, etc, were egotistical asses anyways, Rembrandt, Bernini, David, Carravaggio, etc. I'm not an ***hole...but being ridiculed by people on POF sure makes you a little angry. When people are not nice and supportive, you have the right to not be nice back.

Sorry but my seemly arrogance is more pride than anything else. After never feeling you weren't much since highschool, I just feel a real sense of pride that I can do something that is fulfilling and people appreciate my talents. And likewise in relationships, I didn't much of myself or measure to women's expectations as being Mr. Hot or Mr. Greatcareer. I've always had a good loving personality, caring, and kindness towards people, but not much more than may be "A Pot To Piss In" as my mother used to put. A poor working class kid finally has the chance to a successful member of the community, instead of some guy with a two bit job.

So yes I've been angry...but hell let me have the experiences the rest of you have had already in your lives...and like me fulfill my dreams of being a good father and husband to some young woman...like I have been hoping I could be since I was nine years old.

And as for Marxism...well I've met a lot of people that have moved here from countries in Soviet Bloc, young and old, that have told me it was better under communism, including those that worked at that famous shipyard in Poland.

I said 12 years ago that we are headed for another great depression....and the way things are going it looks like I might be right, or left in that matters. LOL.

So much for Capitalism and the US winning the Cold War.
 The_Fat_Bandit
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 156
Enough already
Posted: 6/1/2008 8:35:35 AM
And as for women in their 30s....I have never been interested in them...cause I see only a few years of having children together with women in their 30s...I told you I'm old school...get married young have kids for 15 to 20 years...I figure I have about 6 to 8 children to look forward in having. I'm your typical rightwing Christian guy....with the moral standards and family values but not the religion...I'm a pagan. But perhaps Italian or Irish woman...seems in Catholic Italy and Ireland, witches and witchcraft went hand in hand with many Christians there...something about crystals, and spells, and fortune telling. My Italian Catholic friend's wife goes regularly to a fortune teller, something about old traditions from Sicily.
 The_Fat_Bandit
Joined: 3/19/2008
Msg: 157
poor you
Posted: 6/2/2008 10:39:27 AM
Sorry...in researching the word arrogant, I found it to be "One who has a false sense of superiority." Since I am superior to many people therefore I'm not arrogant. Yes I have made a couple of poor choices in my, two to be exact that perhaps I would have chosen differently.

However the real reason I'm angry that you wouldn't lay off it and let me having those experiences I'm been looking for is because of the abuse, and putdowns that I have had to endure since I was five years old. Most of my troubles have come from a real sense of insecurity about myself, my appearance, and my career choices, and people who have continually preyed on those insecurities, like when I woman you love to death and would do anything for, turns and says, "No one can love me as much as you do, but I can never love you back cause you don't have a flat enough stomach and don't make enough money. I want a lawyer or doctor that looks like the leadsinger in Warrant." So you go home feeling that it doesn't matter how much you care about someone or treat them well unless you look like a GQ model and have the BMW to go with it you ain't much.

I that was just one of probably a million evil things people have said about me for about 40 years. Physical abuse will leave a mark that will heal in a few weeks, mental abuse lasts a lifetime. And for the past 17 years or so I've always felt I didn't measure to women's standards.

So after all the years of struggling with these feeling and struggling to fit in, I found something I'm pretty good at and I have my pride back. I still struggle with my appearance...but I'm finding that some women don't worry so much about appearance but worry about other things. So I've arrived..or perhaps returned because in school I was the straight A student...and was proud of that and help others that didn't have my abilities.

So I'm saying layoff...cause the BS I've been through no one deserves...maybe it's time I had some joy in my life.

And heck what is it with painters and women...Piccasso had like one wife and half a dozen mistresses throughout his life and at 65 and 67 he had children with one of them. And there is a whole list of painters who had all sorts of women, and many young women always with them.
 CherylCake
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 158
poor you
Posted: 6/2/2008 11:25:59 AM
Picasso, you ain't...and you have to be rich first to live his lifestyle. And the good fortune to be recognized as a great artist sometime before they died. Not all artists get the recognition they think they deserve. It's about the love of the journey of the craft. Not the final result, anyway. Is it fulfilling to YOU. Not anyone else. If others love it, so much the better. Make your own joy, and quit depending on others to give you approval.
Now about your self-esteem issues...can you say,"Overcompensation?" Blue eyes is correct when she said not to blow your own horn. If you're THAT good, someone else will, so let them do it. Looks much more classy.
clue: True power is humble.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 159
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 7/19/2016 10:01:47 AM
Msg 23

"Your gonna LOVE turning 50."



I know right ?
This guy was complaining about women around the age of 38 ????

Geez, I wonder how he feels NOW ?
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 160
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 7/19/2016 11:04:12 AM
Probably in a basement, feeling himself. Where did Gimpy live? I'm told out in LA everyone hides their age.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 161
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 7/19/2016 9:57:24 PM
I don't think people are meant to be with people they didn't get together with when they were young - middle aged people trying to find life mates are trying to fight evolution.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 162
and they might feel the same about us
Posted: 7/20/2016 6:40:39 AM
biologically speaking, you may be correct. But, I think its logically OK. nothing wrong I see with a middle aged person seeking out the proper "oatmeal to eat for breakfast every day". Maybe being older and mature, helps with making a mature decision about what's really important in a partner? But then, i'm not looking to have children, so a childless relationship doesn't seem abnormal to me, even tho yes, it is fighting evolution of the species.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 163
and they might feel the same about us
Posted: 7/20/2016 7:46:03 AM
"I don't think people are meant to be with people they didn't get together with when they were young...

How young is young? At what age do you go from young to old? If the purpose of a relationship is strictly to breed, then there is an age limit. But that doesn't explain why some couples do the "until death do us part" bit, long after their breeding days are over, during the second half of their lives.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 164
and they might feel the same about us
Posted: 7/20/2016 10:57:22 AM
^ How young do you like 'em?

Of course there are women who do a stellar job of fighting this natural process by spending an inordinate amount of time, energy, and money looking younger after their peak breeding years. (All men really seem to have to do to fight the natural order of things is take Viagra.)
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 165
its a great way to prop up that gut
Posted: 7/20/2016 11:54:35 AM
"all men really seem to have to do to fight the natural order of things is take Viagra"

>>>why do you think we insist on getting paid more and pay less for razors? Its our subtle plot to keep dominion.
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
Msg: 166
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Posted: 7/20/2016 2:08:27 PM

All men really seem to have to do to fight the natural order of things is take Viagra.


AND if you are married and die of Melanoma Skin Cancer your wife can join the Viagra class action law suit and collect benefits after your death.

Win Win !!
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 167
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I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 7/23/2016 11:28:47 AM

I'm 38 and it's hard finding women my age who I find attractive.

Well, this was posted 10 years ago -- I wonder how your luck is running at 48 instead. :)

It's not that I have something against women my age because I think Nicole Kidman, Salma Hayek, Rachel Ray are all really beautiful and they're my age, (give or take a year,) but it's difficult finding someone who has it going when you get to my age. Am I just being too picky or what?

Yeah. Of course Rachel Ray isn't great looking (average but famous) -- so on that level, you're not. But Nicole Kidman & Salma Hayek? Yeah. Far too picky. 38 isn't bad for online dating whatsoever. Average age outside of Tinder, on places like POF & Match -- are great for the mid to upper 30s. It's just when you hit 40 it starts to decline. There are many women over 35 who are good looking. There's just a higher % who let themselves slide -- as with guys -- over time. But if you keep yourself in good shape and whatnot over time -- you'll get that better pick of the litter.

You can't expect the world to revolve around you -- thinking you're still 25 and not keeping yourself in 25 year old shape when you could get cute girls, and expect to get the gals 35+ who Are in good shape.
 ThunderMan84
Joined: 5/5/2016
Msg: 168
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 7/24/2016 8:38:09 AM
LMAO You just summoned the butt-hurt cave people in this forum...
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 169
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 7/25/2016 7:28:23 AM
So find someone your own age who looks young.
 GWSmith
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 170
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 8/21/2016 6:20:14 PM
If your bar is Nicole Kidman, Salma Hayek, or Rachel Ray than the problem is you. You expect more than reality will provide.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 171
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Posted: 8/21/2016 6:49:59 PM

If your bar is Nicole Kidman, Salma Hayek, or Rachel Ray than the problem is you. You expect more than reality will provide.

The first two, yes. Rachel Ray? She's not model looking at all. If she wasn't famous she'd be everything from "cute" to "ehhh" in the minds of mall-watchers.
 InnerGorilla2
Joined: 8/1/2016
Msg: 172
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 8/22/2016 3:01:14 PM


If your bar is Nicole Kidman


I just saw Nicole Kidman in a British movie where she marries a WWII guy with huge demons about being torture by the Japanese in what became that other movie over the river Kuwait. She was remarkably plain looking and not hot at all. That is why I believe that most slightly above average women and look super hot with simply some cosmetic changes, a change of clothes, but more importantly a sexy attitude. I believe there's a hot woman inside every woman. And while there are times that women want to be seen as equal individuals there are others where they want to be sensuous creatures capable of driving men man.
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 173
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 8/22/2016 3:27:13 PM
I agree Mr. IG. I believe there is a Rhiannon inside every woman. :)

Did you know?

Rhiannon rings like a bell through the night and
Wouldn't you love to love her?

Takes to the sky like a bird in flight and
Who will be her lover?

All your life you've never seen
A woman taken by the wind

Would you stay if she promised you heaven?
Will you ever win?

She is like a cat in the dark and then
She is the darkness
She rules her life like a fine skylark and when
The sky is starless.....


But......wouldn't you love to love her? ;) ;)


Here's to wishing everyone discovers their Rhiannon. :D
 ChrisArtXL
Joined: 3/13/2016
Msg: 174
I'm not attracted to women my age.
Posted: 8/24/2016 9:18:23 AM
I've seen plenty of women in their 30s who look great. They work out, having muscle tone helps. But hey, go for younger ones if you can.
 BBEisBack
Joined: 9/16/2015
Msg: 175
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Posted: 8/26/2016 2:48:28 PM
Well baby, there you stand
With your little head, down in your hand
Oh, my God, you can't believe it's happening again
Your baby's gone, and you're all alone
And it looks like the end

And you're back out on the street
And you're tryin' to remember
How do you start it over
You don't know if you can
You don't care much for a stranger's touch
But you can't hold your man

You never thought you'd be alone
This far down the line
And I know what's been on your mind
You're afraid it's all been wasted time
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