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 madamoisele
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 26
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Deliberately inflicting harm (physical or psychological) on another living creature in order to feel a rush of pleasure at another person's pain is --- immature. It also tells us all something about you.
 footloose5
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 27
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:07:44 PM
As for the best revenge, It all comes down to good ol' Karma, and yes, it's real, and if that person has been a do~do head, Karma will do its work for you. Just sit back and watch their life hit bottom.
 pec
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 28
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:09:27 PM
Is there anything worse than revenge?
 Darkhorse7
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 29
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:37:23 PM
Way lame.No wonder the chick dumped you.
 CuteNPerky2
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 31
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/12/2006 4:48:10 PM
I just want to tell you in my experience the best revenge is moving on and being happy. When a person sees you happy without them they realize alot trust me this is true. Its also unfortunatly a good way to get an ex back they get nuts seeing that you dont miss them lol
 killerdogsmooch
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 32
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:07:46 PM
One time I was so filled with anger, fear and hurt that I spent months in a state of constant wanting revenge or payback. Oh, the humiliation of being discarded. Finally, I just walked out my front door and went over to her work and right over to her sitting on a park bench while she was eating her lunch. I had bed head, holy t-shirt, torn pants, and really tired eyes. I looked at her and I saw her as who she really was, a sweet innocent little girl who I married. I saw a little sweety all hurting too. I bent down and said, hello and she smiled and I smiled. I sat beside her and I got the chance to apologize for my angry emails. I said I am very sincere and not being arrogant, and I am truly sorry. I stood up, tears gushing down my face for I still loved her so much and I said, "finish your lunch, good bye.", and she said, quietly in tears, "good bye". I never saw her again . It was an amazing thing to end the brooding by just seeing her face. I saw a human being and it stopped my anger.
 4the1
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 33
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 6:02:49 AM
Yes there is...Live well...improve your life...you will attract someone worthy of you... Continue this type of behavior every time a relationship goes south...think of all the wasted time and effort...not to mention cost for a moments satisfaction. Use this energy to improve yourself.
 warmestheart55
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 34
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 6:09:22 AM
well geting on with your life is a better form of revenge, Nerd. Those whom you hate live in your heart rent free. No I didn't dream that up myself but on a personals site. Its very true though. Its better yet to forgive but just keep it in mind when she realises she was wrong in her choices. This goes for guys too. I have seen the ladies hang on like that as well. I have been married twice and both have came to regret their decisions. Only thing they have taught me is to be very careful with my heart and not take it lightly in its giving! Good luck in your search Nerd!!
 pec
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 35
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 7:05:41 AM
Ok 1. Which God is the god of revenge? Usually when people say "god" they mean the god of abraham who "supposedly" is a god of love and would never have anything to do with revenge since that is a flaw of mans mind.. so why would we think that "god will exact his revenge" at all? and

2. Should we really encourage this person to "go on with your life and live happily ever after" with the motivation of it being the best revenge? Man I'd hate to be the one picked for that.. I doubt you can live happily ever after if the original motivation to do so is rooted in causing someone to suffer..

I don't mean to sound like an ass hole but How is it there are so many people who think revenge is a good thing?
 killerdogsmooch
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 36
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 10:06:10 AM

Is there anything better than revenge?
(ans) Not having Revenge.
 pec
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 37
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 1:35:44 PM
killerdog.. that was a great answer.. even better than my "Is there anything worse than revenge?" answer hehe
 singleguy64
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 38
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 5:11:45 PM
Revenge = showing the world how childish and immature you can be.

Says more about you than anything.
 GoldenWings
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 39
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/16/2006 8:41:22 PM
'Better' is to just walk away and be a bigger person than she is (or you perceive her to be). Your ugliness in this little prank just could be the underlying reason she didn't totally connect with you. We all put out vibes and attract the same vibration that we are. Be nice and you'll attract a nice woman. Be nasty and you'll attract a '&itch). It's your choice. Good luck.
 Horror-film-Mark
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 40
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/17/2006 6:27:15 AM
im not one for revenge... but yeah , this is kinda funny..
 Sadie415
Joined: 5/15/2006
Msg: 41
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:51:07 PM
I was going to say "Poetic Justice", but that will never happen now. You will be left only with the brief excitement you had while doing these things. Hope things work out better next time for you.
 skruss
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 42
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:59:50 PM
Revenge is lame.. the best revenge is running into her ten years down the road and you've got a hundred grand in the bank, driving a sweet ass ride, living in the hills.. while the guy she dumped you for get married and end up with 5 kids living in the trailer park! Of course, she dumpoed you cause you had no money at the time and were still a student, and the other guy was allready managing the local blockbuster store!!

Kelly
 Cos5815
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 43
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:00:24 PM
"Is there anything better than revenge?"

Of course there is, it's called forgiveness, and getting on with your life.

You wanna build Karma..go for it. It's a free universe, do whatever you want.
 skruss
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 44
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:00:52 PM
Or, break her car window and throw poop on the seat.. BAM MARGERA RULES ASS!!!
 skruss
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 45
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:02:15 PM
and yeah, karma has a way of dealing with things.. what goes around comes around ;)
 shinxy
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 46
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:04:02 PM
I walked in to Frisch's one night in a skirt for a night on the town and my ex was sitting there with his new bimbo after our divorce. I had lost about 50 lbs...

Talk about a look...God's revenge is better.
 Wullis
Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 47
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Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:32:34 PM
Living a long and happy life with someone who really care about you would be theultimate revenge.
 OpheliaBonMot
Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 48
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 10:28:51 PM
Putting a lot of energy into fueling your anger and desire for revenge only keeps you trapped in your unhappiness.

I agree with those who said moving on and being more forgiving would be a better form of "revenge".
 niceguy123456789
Joined: 7/7/2006
Msg: 49
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 10:44:54 PM
If you play the revenge game, you'd better dig two graves!
 A MUZEing..
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 50
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/18/2006 5:13:01 PM
okay Nerd Duck: I'm usually no fan of revenge (unless it's the be nice to them because they can't out-nice you), but your idea is very original and what's more, it's harmless!

I like to think of your deed as psychological judo. You aren't attacking her: you are merely giving her something she can't destroy without also taking herself down with it. As retaliation goes, yours is probably the cleverest and most benign I've ever heard.

You don't sound hateful or bitter, either. You sound mischievous and fun. What a brilliant way to get your point across without being vicious. Congrats.
 dsl4340
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 51
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/19/2006 1:52:57 PM
Revenge is SWEET!!!!
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