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 My Secret Life
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 26
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She is too vain to cut up a picture of herself, but has no problems trying to tear it up?
That doesn’t make a lot of sense.
 ThunderHawkPA
Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 27
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Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:18:35 PM
That's what I am doing right now. Since October of last year when she first dumped me, I began excercising and cutting out my eating habits. So far, I lost about 50 lbs and dropped 6 pant sizes. I always keep the other revenge in my mind hoping for her new older boyfriend to get an incurable STD. I am doing this not only to improve my self-image, but to show her if/when I walk past her on the street how good I look and how much better I feel.
 canyunflyer
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 28
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Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:46:03 PM
God save us from the pathetic Passive Aggressive types!!! (like the gas tank woman)

They are probably worse than the in your face abusers! More devious and cunning...and, of course...cowardly.

Well, your little prank, and subsequent telling of it (trying to get validation) on here is sure to turn every one of the 'thinking' women on here well OFF to you! You see what revenge gets you???

In return for that brief little High....(yeah revenge will always give ya that), You have set yourself back about a light year...and have dissapated a bunch of your precious personal power.

I really hate to stupe to name calling...I try to avoid it usually, but once in a while it just seems to be called for. I have to believe you are just plain "dumb" too! Thats about the immaturity of your prank, and the way you went on and on about how it was sure to really get her. She probably did like I would do.... casually throw the damn thing away without ever really looking at it!!!

Sometimes revenge is called for. In that case, you just go shoot them! ha!
 DrewBond007
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 29
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:53:21 PM
Do what makes you feel right. Everyone has their own ways of coping.
 madamoisele
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 30
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:55:07 PM
Deliberately inflicting harm (physical or psychological) on another living creature in order to feel a rush of pleasure at another person's pain is --- immature. It also tells us all something about you.
 footloose5
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 31
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:07:44 PM
As for the best revenge, It all comes down to good ol' Karma, and yes, it's real, and if that person has been a do~do head, Karma will do its work for you. Just sit back and watch their life hit bottom.
 pec
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 32
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:09:27 PM
Is there anything worse than revenge?
 Darkhorse7
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 33
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 1:37:23 PM
Way lame.No wonder the chick dumped you.
 pinklipstick
Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 34
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Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:46:05 PM
I'm with Footloose, don't get even, wait for karma. Or, know that revenge MAY hurt her, but, it will/has hurt you. Negative energy, in any form, is bad, bad.
 CuteNPerky2
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 35
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/12/2006 4:48:10 PM
I just want to tell you in my experience the best revenge is moving on and being happy. When a person sees you happy without them they realize alot trust me this is true. Its also unfortunatly a good way to get an ex back they get nuts seeing that you dont miss them lol
 killerdogsmooch
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 36
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/12/2006 5:07:46 PM
One time I was so filled with anger, fear and hurt that I spent months in a state of constant wanting revenge or payback. Oh, the humiliation of being discarded. Finally, I just walked out my front door and went over to her work and right over to her sitting on a park bench while she was eating her lunch. I had bed head, holy t-shirt, torn pants, and really tired eyes. I looked at her and I saw her as who she really was, a sweet innocent little girl who I married. I saw a little sweety all hurting too. I bent down and said, hello and she smiled and I smiled. I sat beside her and I got the chance to apologize for my angry emails. I said I am very sincere and not being arrogant, and I am truly sorry. I stood up, tears gushing down my face for I still loved her so much and I said, "finish your lunch, good bye.", and she said, quietly in tears, "good bye". I never saw her again . It was an amazing thing to end the brooding by just seeing her face. I saw a human being and it stopped my anger.
 4the1
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 37
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 6:02:49 AM
Yes there is...Live well...improve your life...you will attract someone worthy of you... Continue this type of behavior every time a relationship goes south...think of all the wasted time and effort...not to mention cost for a moments satisfaction. Use this energy to improve yourself.
 warmestheart55
Joined: 3/6/2006
Msg: 38
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 6:09:22 AM
well geting on with your life is a better form of revenge, Nerd. Those whom you hate live in your heart rent free. No I didn't dream that up myself but on a personals site. Its very true though. Its better yet to forgive but just keep it in mind when she realises she was wrong in her choices. This goes for guys too. I have seen the ladies hang on like that as well. I have been married twice and both have came to regret their decisions. Only thing they have taught me is to be very careful with my heart and not take it lightly in its giving! Good luck in your search Nerd!!
 pec
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 39
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 7:05:41 AM
Ok 1. Which God is the god of revenge? Usually when people say "god" they mean the god of abraham who "supposedly" is a god of love and would never have anything to do with revenge since that is a flaw of mans mind.. so why would we think that "god will exact his revenge" at all? and

2. Should we really encourage this person to "go on with your life and live happily ever after" with the motivation of it being the best revenge? Man I'd hate to be the one picked for that.. I doubt you can live happily ever after if the original motivation to do so is rooted in causing someone to suffer..

I don't mean to sound like an ass hole but How is it there are so many people who think revenge is a good thing?
 killerdogsmooch
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 40
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 10:06:10 AM

Is there anything better than revenge?
(ans) Not having Revenge.
 pec
Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 41
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 1:35:44 PM
killerdog.. that was a great answer.. even better than my "Is there anything worse than revenge?" answer hehe
 singleguy64
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 42
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/13/2006 5:11:45 PM
Revenge = showing the world how childish and immature you can be.

Says more about you than anything.
 STLSHAMROCKGIRL
Joined: 6/28/2006
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Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/16/2006 7:31:13 PM
Nerd Duck if it made you feel better for some time then way to go. Everyone has to heal in thier own way. Mine was putting peroxide in his sun in bottle. It made him look like ronald mcdonald with orange hair. Even today it gives me saticfaction and a smile. When you want to hurt somebody or damage something step away. Good Luck
 GoldenWings
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 44
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/16/2006 8:41:22 PM
'Better' is to just walk away and be a bigger person than she is (or you perceive her to be). Your ugliness in this little prank just could be the underlying reason she didn't totally connect with you. We all put out vibes and attract the same vibration that we are. Be nice and you'll attract a nice woman. Be nasty and you'll attract a '&itch). It's your choice. Good luck.
 Horror-film-Mark
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 45
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 7/17/2006 6:27:15 AM
im not one for revenge... but yeah , this is kinda funny..
 Sadie415
Joined: 5/15/2006
Msg: 46
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:51:07 PM
I was going to say "Poetic Justice", but that will never happen now. You will be left only with the brief excitement you had while doing these things. Hope things work out better next time for you.
 skruss
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 47
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:59:50 PM
Revenge is lame.. the best revenge is running into her ten years down the road and you've got a hundred grand in the bank, driving a sweet ass ride, living in the hills.. while the guy she dumped you for get married and end up with 5 kids living in the trailer park! Of course, she dumpoed you cause you had no money at the time and were still a student, and the other guy was allready managing the local blockbuster store!!

Kelly
 Cos5815
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 48
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:00:24 PM
"Is there anything better than revenge?"

Of course there is, it's called forgiveness, and getting on with your life.

You wanna build Karma..go for it. It's a free universe, do whatever you want.
 skruss
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 49
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:00:52 PM
Or, break her car window and throw poop on the seat.. BAM MARGERA RULES ASS!!!
 skruss
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 50
Is there anything better than revenge?
Posted: 8/17/2006 8:02:15 PM
and yeah, karma has a way of dealing with things.. what goes around comes around ;)
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