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 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 95
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....ok, ok I've thought about it, and thought about it and thought about it....sigh
 AnnudderVoice
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 99
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/10/2006 6:58:20 AM

Makes me know that men are all talk when it comes to sex.
Must be the men you know.

If they're talking, they're not playing hard enough.

So to speak.

Annudder
 blondblueyed
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 103
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:48:25 AM
I have never thought that women don't want, think or like sex as much as men, we just don't want, think or like it with EVERY man.
 Lynlin1957
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 106
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/11/2006 2:33:48 PM
Amen Cheryl!!!!!
 Lynlin1957
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 107
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/11/2006 2:40:11 PM

Hey anal-boy...REAL-DEAL...can we use our strap-ons on you?


Oh Lordy Shell, I'm so glad I wasn't eating or drinking anything when I read that, I'd still be cleaning my monitor and keyboard. As it is, I almost fell out of my chair.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 108
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/11/2006 2:54:45 PM
Miss Cheryl,

No mincing of words there. I like your style. Tie him to the bed post lol



...maeflowers
 blondblueyed
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 115
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/12/2006 4:11:22 PM
I don't discriminate, I personally feel that men who jump from bed to bed are just as much lacking in common sense as the women that do it. The problem that I have found from quite a few men is that they feel it is perfectly fine for men to behave this way. Somehow it just adds to their prowess or they are just collecting knowledge and skills to use when they find their "wife" or just simply they are single with no one to answer to so they will do as they please. These same men though think that women who do it are "sluts" or "nymphos" even though that is exactly the women they want. Well, for an hour or two, but they don't want to marry one. People of both sexes have the right to do what they want with their own bodies, it is when you start infringing that upon unsuspecting parties that it starts getting out of hand. Hopefully, these people that are jumping from one bed to another are using condoms, but I doubt seriously that many of them do.

It is pretty simple really, you have people that care about another's past and people who don't just as you have people who are particular about their own health and body and some who don't care.

Just because many of us are able to control ourselves doesn't mean we don't want sex just as often as men. I am sure that many of the women here have been in relationships just as I have when as long as we were somewhere at the top end of our man's priority list we couldn't keep our hands off him. Once we become second, third or fourth fiddle to some other "hobby" or put on the back burner we start losing desire for him. When foreplay goes from kisses, nibbles and caresses to "are you asleep yet?" we kind of lose that spark for him, not sex.


I would also say that as we have gotten older we are not impressed by the same things we were when we were younger, a girl of 16 thinks she is in love because the guy has a cool haircut and picks her up in something other than a bicycle. By 40 we really don't care if you have hair anymore but we would like someone that can carry on a conversation and treats us nicely, respectfully or romantically in the car, restaurant, front step, living room, kitchen and the bedroom.
 Lynlin1957
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 116
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/12/2006 4:32:38 PM
The answer, plain and simple, is; YES, we are just as horny as the next person. However, I've noticed from reading the posts that most of the women, like me, control their "urges" instead of letting the "urges" control them. Sex, just for the sake of sex, may be what our hormones are telling us, but our minds and emotions want and need more. So, if one just wants sex, why go hunting, there's always BOB.
 blondblueyed
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 117
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/12/2006 4:35:40 PM


Too funny, Lyn, my gal pals and I were discussing BOB just the other night.
 Awesomeone54
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 118
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Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:58:01 PM
I was lucky enough to be married to a man who I shared a fun and active sex life with. I guess I was even luckier than I knew. It seems like at this age, women want, need, think about sex all the time, same as men do.....but we require it more often. I am old fashioned and so it stinks to have a high sex drive..........and the last man I was involved with was always grabbing, making passes, talking about it , etc...but when push came to shove...once a month whether we needed it or not was enough...when I would have been more than willing to be a good sport and participate every day if he wanted..lol...but then I am such an unselfish person....lol....glad to hear its not just me!!! And its killing me!!! lol.....
 Lynlin1957
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 123
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/13/2006 9:18:40 PM

Lynlin - don't say "urges" OK - ooops I feel it now .... here it comes


Sorry Horselady, perhaps I should have said "power surges" instead????
 DJMac
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 125
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Posted: 6/14/2006 9:18:36 AM
all the reasons I have always been attracted to older women, any older women looking for a younger guy to take care of them hit me up
 greeneyedblonde and CSI
Joined: 6/3/2005
Msg: 127
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 6/14/2006 1:44:39 PM
Your not alone hun..

I think about it 24/7..7 days a week... 365 days a year..of course would be nice to have a partner for all that sex that I crave..but alas..not so...

definitely, as a few have mentioned...buy yourself a toy or two..helps out ..lol..
 Awesomeone54
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 133
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Posted: 6/16/2006 1:15:01 PM
Nice to know I am not the only one!! I don't know about dating younger...I know that during the first argument, out of habit...I would send him to his room...alone...lol..or ground him! But the timing was perfect....Viagra (and other such meds) came out just as we got to the age where we hoped we hadn't waited too long to meet someone...takes pressure off..lol...different kind of biological clock now!! Go Viagra!!!!!
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 136
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Posted: 7/12/2006 7:00:45 PM
~constantly~ 'in the mind'. . . (mine, anyway)
 mazek11
Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 137
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 7/12/2006 9:47:41 PM
o yes yes yes i say also to you .hun where you live
 mazek11
Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 138
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 7/12/2006 9:49:29 PM
hun i bealive i can geave you great sadisfeksn ,sory for spell
 mazek11
Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 139
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 7/12/2006 9:52:51 PM
debbie my emaginesn raning for you
 Hawkdream
Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 140
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Posted: 7/13/2006 4:17:29 PM
Personally, I would not mind having it every night, or every morning, for that matter, if it was with someone I was in an exclusive, committed relationship with, preferably married to, so I didn't have to have a guilty conscience. When I fantasize, it is about someone I know intimately and am in love with, not some faceless stranger, although I haven't tried fantasizing about Johnny Depp or Daniel Day Lewis, yet.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 141
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 7/13/2006 10:33:26 PM
Oh yes, I've been know to think about sex a time or two, or three or four.......unfortunately
thats all I seem to do is fantasize....sigh



...maeflowers
 spudmama
Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 148
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 7/14/2006 11:02:01 PM

I would not mind having it every night, or every morning


oh not in the morning! all i wanna do in the morning is stagger off to the bathroom, let the dog out, light up a cigarrett and try not to burn the house down in my befuddled state. i could not do it justice at all then, might not even notice it was happening!
 AprilRaine
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 152
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 9/8/2006 7:35:59 PM
It's on my mind DAILY !!! Just wish I was getting some.
 eye4light
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 156
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 9/14/2006 11:35:18 PM
Hey, how I find a woman in her forties who likes sex too?

...luck of the draw, I guess.
 Hawkdream
Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 160
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Posted: 10/9/2006 4:30:03 PM
Oh, heck, spudmama, it just keeps getting better and better as long as the man's worth a hoot. I can't imagine not noticing something as good as ...uh...I wouldn't mind it in the morning at all. Or noon, either, for that matter.
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