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 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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yeah, still h o t and s i z z l i n g and more than anything else, very nicely t u n e d
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 11/2/2006 12:56:32 PM
Yes, darlin, like a fine wine...a fine wine....

clear & refined ... well preserved & with the right temperature to s i p ... and let l i n g e r on your tongue, dipping counts too ... or for these more audacious ... to GULP down

Just careful careful ... not to get too

 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 175
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Posted: 11/2/2006 4:29:50 PM
....As strange as this is going to sound....I fantazie far more about kissing than the "act" itself. Its all about the kissing for me....some hot and heavy kissing will definitely bring on
some hot and heavy....well you know.



...maeflowers
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 176
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Posted: 11/2/2006 4:51:09 PM
...But think of the fun on the way down.....I wanted to point out in this thread thats its also about what leads up to the sex thats important...sometimes more memorable.


...maeflowers
 AnnudderVoice
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 177
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Posted: 11/2/2006 7:32:22 PM
'Er...it's not so much the roses as the petals.

But I agree, exploring is fun.

Annudder
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 11/2/2006 11:04:54 PM
^^^^ and these petals are very responsive indeed if the source of TLC is paying attention
 peiromantic
Joined: 10/9/2005
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Posted: 11/3/2006 4:29:20 AM
ahhhh - maeflowers, I couldn't agree more!!

lovemaking begins with romance!! which is better when it lasts all day and into the night. Making plans for the evening, cooking a nice meal together while touching and squeezing (and of course kissing ) - and all the time both minds anticipating the fun and frolic to come

it's nice to see someone brought up kissing - I thought it was a dying art !!

PEIRomantic
 songmn001
Joined: 2/10/2006
Msg: 180
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Posted: 11/3/2006 7:11:52 PM
Mz. Maeflowers... you are too funny... love reading your stuff... Definately agree... kissing is an artform often rushed thru and as a wise man once point out, the art of kissing not only encompasses intensity, variation and duration but also placement !!

and... true sexyness is having a well hung mind !!
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 190
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Posted: 11/24/2006 9:45:35 PM
...somedays its on my mind too much...It always starts out so innocently too...I might be talking to someone of the opposite sex when out of nowhere I will focus on his lips and think to myself...hmmm...I wonder what it would be like to kiss him, then one thought leads to another and before you know it, I'm undressing him....all in my mind of course haha. I give my head a shake, re-focus..."now what were you saying?"



...maeflowers
 Tigress
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 197
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Posted: 12/31/2006 10:15:38 AM
Think about it often. Want it a lot. But the relationship has to feel right.

If I just got with somebody for sex, I'd feel cheap!
 CrackedHalo
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 198
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Posted: 12/31/2006 11:59:47 AM
Ummmmmmm yes.............I hit my "prime" at about 30 ish......I kinda thought it would be gone by now but ohhhhhhhhhh hell no, it just keeps getting worse! I really wouldn't be complaining if I wasn't single though! Oh and Happy New Year to you all!!
 texasbaby
Joined: 7/21/2005
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Posted: 1/17/2007 9:44:56 AM
Sadly, I must admit,,, most of the sex I have,,, is ONLY in my mind!

tb
 Wish4
Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 206
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Posted: 2/17/2007 2:51:07 AM
omg, Judy, aren't those carhart overalls the best. I don't know why, but they do it.
 Hawkdream
Joined: 11/27/2005
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Posted: 2/18/2007 5:18:40 PM
Personally, chemistry is important, yes, but respect and trust that comes with a relationship that's been built over some time are more important. I have not found many men in these groups who seem willing to invest the time to build something that would make sex with them interesting or attractive.
 Faithnhim
Joined: 12/22/2006
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Posted: 2/18/2007 5:35:52 PM
Interesting thread....

I was in a long term relationship for 3 years that ended in June06....we had sex 4x per week and it was not enough for me. I've always been highly sexual...it can bring the greatest feelings and connections one could ever imagine! My partner used to tell me "you are like a man with your sexual needs"....he had a problem keeping up with my needs.....

I don't do casual sex....it's not satisfying to me....I enjoy sex with one man and the relationship that goes with it....

I think my 40s have brought the best in me sexually....there are so many things one can do and experience and explore with....just amazing! *heavy sigh*

I look forward to my next partner and just pray he enjoys it as much as I do....one thing about it...I won't settle for anything less than what I need....many men on this site don't take the time with women here....they might be pleasantly surprised if they stopped looking for "Barbie" and started looking for "real" women!!! We are special !!!!!
 Faithnhim
Joined: 12/22/2006
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Posted: 2/19/2007 8:20:54 PM
Woodstar... That was great!!! Witty...so witty and !

I'm with ya on waiting....they have to know how to care for me before, during and afterwards! No settling for anything less.....
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 215
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Posted: 2/24/2007 10:52:52 PM
Welp - I have nothing to add - just wanted to read about gals and sex .......... carry on.
 NapJoe
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 225
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Posted: 3/4/2007 9:16:45 AM
BOB has lots of fun. So do the men and the ladies. Oh, we're not quite up to BOB yet. But we're up there. Ladies seeking love. Romance. Sex. If you're looking for it guess what you'll find it. Though going slow may not serve. Penpals. Don't really find much or anything.

Being online there's lots of competition. And in the age group everything is best for the men. The odds are in our favor.

you wrote OMG--here I thought I was nuts because my sex drive has been in overdrive the past few years--and no one to share it with! so I then discovered toys and films. Then just before divorce, he came home with a STD! Sad to say, I have had more sex with BOB than in 23 yrs of marriage with a man.
 CrackedHalo
Joined: 11/7/2005
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Posted: 3/4/2007 12:28:14 PM
I agree with Miz.....Lots and lots and all the time....but, would be much better sharing all of this passion and excitement with somebody!
 Tarika
Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 233
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Posted: 3/14/2007 10:35:04 PM
Ummmm, why wouldn't it be on a women's mind after 40...huh?????
 livelovelaugh
Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 236
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Posted: 3/23/2007 5:48:37 PM
Absolutely . All the time. One reason I think is that making love gets better as you get older. More confidence ,less selfconciousness...oh and the fact that men are usually better, more attentive lovers as they age. Thats gotta have something to do with it lol
 oldbutfine
Joined: 12/20/2005
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Posted: 4/2/2007 1:32:28 PM
Hmmmmmmmmmmm, must be me. I'm way over 40 and still very active. Just doesn't seem to be too many women out there at my age or even younger that feel the same. Age is just a number. Lots of women around here, but I guess very very picky.
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