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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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No thank you ,my sex libido is very private....... I don't spill coffee or milk just to shine.
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
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Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/6/2008 8:07:18 AM
Unfortunately, that is the only place it is these days....in my mind! Arrggghhhh! Sometimes life seems a tad bit unfair now doesn't it?
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 381
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/6/2008 6:55:09 PM

Wow! A shared hobby............!!! I never thought of it that way but that's great



....I have never thought of it as a hobby either, but hey.... I never thought I'd be on the internet either trying to get a date.


...maeflowers
 jham123
Joined: 5/29/2010
Msg: 383
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/13/2012 1:37:44 PM
Dude, who are you talking to? No one has posted in this thread since 2008 until you resurrected it from beyond the grave.
 Whisky_River
Joined: 9/12/2010
Msg: 384
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/13/2012 3:24:45 PM
Lol..That's too funny!! Thats "sex" in the mind after 60....jk.
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 385
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/13/2012 3:49:50 PM
In an emotionally & physically satisfying relationship, I'd be thinking about it ALOT, I'd want to be doing it ALOT. When both of those things are lacking, I'm mildly depressed about it. I try not to think about it. My BS meter & tolerance 4 BS has gone down so low, that it is not easy 4 me to get into new relationships like I did in the past. I want to like the man connected to the penis...and the mouth...and the hands...and the fingers...
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 386
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/13/2012 3:52:11 PM
I think about it, desire it, need it and want it now than ever before... And, like the op, I don't want it with just any ol' body... and, again, like the op, I've got to have it all the time... Wait. Nope. That's not quite right. I'll customize the sentence for me: I would like to have it all the time.
 missmermaid4u
Joined: 6/23/2012
Msg: 387
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/13/2012 6:14:04 PM
Of course ppl think about romance, both men and women do, it’s all about the attraction, and how we feel about our self..And falling for someone.
Some ppl believe in making love, and some ppl think there is no difference btwn sex and making love..
What is relevant is that no matter what ~we cannot deny our sexual self and the expression of love..it’s all too beautiful to pass up..
I think when we communicate we sending all kinds of signals to one another~ this is the exciting part of chemistry, and it just gets bttr~ doesn’t it?
 ManinUniform65
Joined: 4/22/2012
Msg: 388
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/14/2012 5:35:58 AM
Ok, all you horny ladies where the hell have you been in the last year??
I am horny all the time too, but in the end I want more than that....I want a companion in life!!
 authenticoutlook
Joined: 8/10/2012
Msg: 389
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/14/2012 5:42:40 AM
I agree... with an emotional and secure relationship the sex is always best with the one I love. What I have found though at this age is the sex is the best it's ever been. Oh sure, I had great sex when I was younger, but the sensation now is phenomenal and a the mental enjoyment is just sheer pleasure. It's not about sex now though, it's about true intimacy and bonding. It goes beyond the physical into the mental state.
 softshoe100
Joined: 8/3/2011
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Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/14/2012 6:49:58 AM
Never have known what's in the mind of a woman but do know that women close to my age still enjoy sex and are a lot better at it now then when they were younger. Thank goodness for that. Opps most be the sex.lol
 thebholder2
Joined: 12/14/2010
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Posted: 8/14/2012 8:01:38 AM
and what is wrong with being BOB?? HECK I am now doomed!!!! LOL
 Janet_Always
Joined: 6/20/2012
Msg: 392
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/14/2012 11:02:41 AM
My sex life is more active now than ever before, and I'm over 50... so there's still hope for the over 40 for sure.

You just need the right inspiration.
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 393
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/14/2012 2:54:04 PM
You just need the right inspiration
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AND THE RIGHT MAN!
 Oleguylookin
Joined: 8/4/2012
Msg: 394
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/15/2012 10:27:53 AM
Rap as a 55yo male you would not believe how many times I have heard gals say how they crave sex in one breath just to come back the next with time,place, my kids are here, I worked too late,you go to work too early...I could go on but hope you catch my drift. {AND} this has nothing to do with age. Been hearing this song and dance for well over 25 years. The standard "I love sex but the setting has to be perfect" Few if any of us live in a perfect world...... And what is so bad about "older" folks going parking and such. Women over 40?????? SEx may be in their minds but it seldom gose to the rest of them!
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 395
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/16/2012 5:53:50 PM

And what is so bad about "older" folks going parking and such. Women over 40?????? SEx may be in their minds but it seldom gose to the rest of them!

Nothing wrong with that at all, I've been involved with some great women in my time including a terrific lady who had a great imagination and sense of spontaneity. We did it in the car many times, fooled around in the dark at the movies, on Balmoral Beach at midnight, overlooking the water at Brooklyn in the sun at midday. My partner now has the same sense of fun and adventure and we are both over 50!

So long as you are active, embrace life and don't take yourself too seriously there's no limit to the amount of fun you can have!
 Kilwa911
Joined: 8/13/2012
Msg: 396
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/17/2012 6:08:55 AM
I am 52 am horny all the time but learn to masturbate to solve the horny issue
 Papawphil
Joined: 2/10/2012
Msg: 397
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/17/2012 6:56:05 AM
Hey Bull they do exist. I'm a 64 yr old man and am recently widowed after 46 yrs. I joined this site just to make friends and maybe find a new partner.My first three encounters were disastrous, However the fourth was sent from heaven, A 58 yr old divorcee who had been alone for 18 yrs. and was about to give up on ever finding a true friend. Chance brought us together and 6 mo. later we are still going strong. She is very open and honest about life and YES SEX is very important to her and she isn't shy about asking for what she wants, and I am very accommadating as well. Now I don't want you to get the wrong idea we share many, many interests, sex being one of them. My advice to you is to hang in there she's out there you just need a little luck in finding her. And when you do HANG ON FOR THE RIDE OF YOUR LIFE
 hawkeye4977
Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 398
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/18/2012 1:49:55 PM
well sweety iam close to 60 and still ass wanten [sex] as if i were 35 need it bad and no ice plz its got to be hot and wet a male [ white] and looking
 Kathyew
Joined: 5/14/2012
Msg: 399
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/18/2012 2:00:01 PM
I'm 56 yrs old and love sex. I stay horny too. I'd like to get it more than once a day.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/18/2012 2:04:22 PM
Let me think back now.........in my teens, I thought about sex about every 10 seconds, moved to 20 seconds in my 20's and 30's, and then about once a minute in my 40's and 50's.......go figure

The key for me is not just thinking about it, but actually enjoying another enough to want to do it often and that depends on the both of you, your health, attitude, and desire for not only the act, but each other.

I am sure that many of you out there, like me, have experienced those that were good in bed, showed it often, and wanted it returned just as much. And, I am sure that there are many out there, like me, who cared about some, loved a few, and yet, their sex drive and desire far differed from yours, or waned over time, no matter how hard you tried to keep it fresh, enjoyable, and often. The end result for me at least, is that I need an active willing partner that wants me as much as I do them, shows it in every way possible, desires it in every way possible, and works as hard at pleasing me as I do her.

Once you have that equal in and out of bed, all the rest just falls into place and it does not need to mean marriage, or living together, but rather......a meeting of the minds, body, and soul that is just right for the two of you.......OK!! I am thinking about sex again, so still within that one minute range.....;)

cd
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 401
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/18/2012 2:26:37 PM
I enjoy it tremendously, but there hasn't been anyone with whom I wish to indulge with lately. As a friend posted on facebook lately, my vagina has an on and off switch that works according to what comes out of your mouth. Some can be purtily packaged, but once they open their mouth...that is another story.
 Zoe_
Joined: 7/5/2012
Msg: 402
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/19/2012 7:01:13 PM
shell, we're all the same if our libidos and mindset are healthy; & i'm in my 60's...throw in a lot of imagination, erotica, fredericks of hollywood corsets and underwear and we're always good to go.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 403
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/19/2012 8:27:50 PM

Nothing wrong with that at all, I've been involved with some great women in my time including a terrific lady who had a great imagination and sense of spontaneity. We did it in the car many times, fooled around in the dark at the movies, on Balmoral Beach at midnight, overlooking the water at Brooklyn in the sun at midday. My partner now has the same sense of fun and adventure and we are both over 50!


Now that's just showing of...lol


So long as you are active, embrace life and don't take yourself too seriously there's no limit to the amount of fun you can have!


One BIG problem....gonna need a partner in crime...hehe

...mae
 kimberwick
Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 404
Sex in the woman mind after 40.
Posted: 8/20/2012 12:19:31 PM
Yes...I do like sex all the time but I also don't want to have it with multiple men...just the one I with and hopefully will be the one I want to be with for life. I guess some men can't handle that...believe it or not but of course that's not the only thing important to me or what I look for in someone...but it helps....lol.
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