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Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 18
Feeling butterfliesPage 2 of 2    (1, 2)
Yep I too have felt the "online butterflies".

Sometimes upon meeting the person the butterflies continued (sweet) other times, upon meeting the butterflies just thudded to bottom of stomach as there was absolutely nothing to go on in person!
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 19
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 2/4/2009 4:15:58 PM
If I remember correctly, butterflies in the stomach is caused by a release of adreneline into said organ. Sort of "fight or flight" misdirected. Anyway, to feel it before confirming the person is worthy of it...sorry, but that's just another case of being in love with being in love. You've met what seems to be on the surface a perfect fit for you, long before you see all the rough edges and decided whether or not to overlook them. So, you get giddy over what looks good, rather than over what is there.
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 21
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 2/8/2009 9:36:29 AM
Yeah....butterflies when you're online with them....then, meet them and all the butterflies flew away

Was sad moment
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 24
Feeling butterflies
Posted: 3/2/2009 4:49:22 AM
Well, "OHIO2FL" MAY be right...but I'm not sure about having to raise or lower my "standards" meter-reader...for the right one to come along

A good friend told me once that she met a guy on POF, didnt wait very long to go MEET him, so didnt give the online butterflies a chance to settle in her gut...and VOILA...she met him and THEN the butterflies came for a visit....

I find it hard to imagine, but I guess it could happen

Good luck in your future endeavors
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 26
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Feeling butterflies
Posted: 3/2/2009 7:01:57 PM
Happened to me during my first few online relationships. I was just excited to be starting a new relationship, during different times with each women. But sadly none of them ended happily.
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