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 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 346
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Nope. I wouldnt be able to get turned in knowing he wasnt in my bed because he desired me.
*Shudders* If i ever got that desperate i would just call it a wrap. Yuck.
 FortyFine44122
Joined: 9/3/2010
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Posted: 1/16/2011 7:39:52 PM
1. How much?

2. Does it worth?
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
Msg: 348
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Posted: 1/16/2011 7:46:16 PM
I know there don't seem to be too many women here who say they'd pay a man for sex, but I know for a fact there are women who would. When they find a guy really attractive but can't get him for some reason, they'd pay.

I personally totally hate the idea of paying for sex. A woman would have to be terribly tempting for me to want to pay.
But generally I wouldn't.
 kayliecat
Joined: 12/8/2007
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Posted: 1/16/2011 8:19:48 PM

I know there don't seem to be too many women here who say they'd pay a man for sex, but I know for a fact there are women who would. When they find a guy really attractive but can't get him for some reason, they'd pay.


Some? I'm sure some would... but not very many.

I just don't think women think like that. Men, yes. Men would be more likely to say "dam* she's so hot I"d pay good money to fvck her". But women??? I think we'd pay only as a last resort, to get the orgasms or emotional connection that we need...not because he is hot or built...and that's IF we'd pay at all, because most would not pay at all.

I DO think women really appreciate having sex with a good looking or built guy...but don't think it would motivate us to put money out for sex.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/16/2011 8:31:45 PM
Cook him dinner.......yes
Give him money.......nope!
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
Msg: 351
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Posted: 1/16/2011 8:52:54 PM
kayliecat, I understand it's not the same - basically - but there are women who'd pay to sleep with some men they find hot.
And they're attractive women themselves. If they're really hot for someone, they'll pay.
If they can't seduce him, they'll pay.
They probably are more 'liberated' and horny than the average. I've known some who don't usually go out with just anyone but were all hot about some guy and willing to pay if that could get him in bed.
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 352
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/16/2011 9:07:07 PM
No.


If no...why?

Why pay for something that is free?Also why would I want someone who is with me only for the money? No amount of good acting would make up for the fact that they are not there because they love you.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 353
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/17/2011 5:20:07 AM
well I'm not a woman ...but in essence I think women paying for sex with a guy is not all that uncommon... in my long and sorted life ..I have had several women friends of various types ..mainly the FWB type ..who saw to my wants and needs ... it has never been a business transaction type thingy ..but many times I left the so called date with monetary and other types of gifts .as well as many times these women have insisted on footing the bill for the date ..IE dinner and the room as well as gas money for the date ...being the cad that I use to be there was one girl who I would go by and see/have sex with ..in order to get money for the finance of another date with another woman that same night ..and she knew about what I was doing ..and it was fine with her..so she said

and then there was Paulette ..who financed my dates with her daughter Darlene with the understanding that I saved a bit of my self for her...oh the dream situations I have walked away from in my life ..can you say Idiot
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 354
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Posted: 1/17/2011 7:22:07 AM
kayliecat, I understand it's not the same - basically - but there are women who'd pay to sleep with some men they find hot.
And they're attractive women themselves. If they're really hot for someone, they'll pay.
If they can't seduce him, they'll pay.

While I might consider paying for a no hassle type thing from an agency - there's no way I'd offer money in a situation where a guy I thought was hot didn't have mutual attraction to get laid. That's a different thing then male prostitution. In that case, I'd simply move on.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 355
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Posted: 1/17/2011 7:52:39 AM

While I might consider paying for a no hassle type thing from an agency - there's no way I'd offer money in a situation where a guy I thought was hot didn't have mutual attraction to get laid. That's a different thing then male prostitution. In that case, I'd simply move on.

I agree. There's a huge difference in paying for a service vs. paying some dude to have pity sex with me simply because I find him irresistible and he finds me nothing at all. Nah, if I were going to pay for an intimate encounter, he'd be hot and a professional and there would be no discussion after that, except maybe to make another appointment for a later date.
 kayliecat
Joined: 12/8/2007
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Posted: 1/17/2011 9:27:31 AM

If they can't seduce him, they'll pay.


I think you are reading too many penthouse fantasy articles... I've NEVER heard a a female say this. Again, this is a much more male POV than a female one.

If I can't seduce my first choice, then he's not worth it anyway.

Besides, HOT guys who want to have sex are VERY easy to find...a dime a dozen. They might not all be good in bed of course...but plenty of good looking guys are good in bed. THere's NO need to pay a guy that we can't seduce.

And yeah, it's a pride thing...geez...
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 358
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Posted: 1/17/2011 9:53:09 AM

I've NEVER heard a a female say this. Again, this is a much more male POV than a female one.


It's usually a mistake to put a male or female tag on any trait, tendency, or appetitie. Maybe, because they train us to be "providers", we are more willing to provide for ourselves, occasionally.


Besides, HOT guys who want to have sex are VERY easy to find...a dime a dozen. They might not all be good in bed of course.


Hmmmm, so a guy, good lookin' AND good in bed, might be worth somethin'? Find a need a fill it, said one famous US entrepreneur. Maybe give away a free sample, just one, then start putting a price on the service. I bet that's how that ole DeerDog did it, although I've seen his profile, and I gotta figure he's long on talent.
 kayliecat
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Posted: 1/17/2011 10:03:38 AM


Hmmmm, so a guy, good lookin' AND good in bed, might be worth somethin'? Find a need a fill it, said one famous US entrepreneur. Maybe give away a free sample, just one, then start putting a price on the service. I bet that's how that ole DeerDog did it, although I've seen his profile, and I gotta figure he's long on talent.


Yeah, he's worth somethin'...but not MONEY. Maybe, perhaps, dating? LOL A relationship? :) An FWB even?

Same with a good looking woman who is good in bed... Doesn't mean you should PAY her, it means you should DATE her!!
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 361
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Posted: 1/17/2011 12:09:06 PM
Seriously, guys, I knew a man who charged for his services - and he was gay.
He shared an apartment with a friend of mine - this was about 20 years ago. He'd have sex with anyone for money - that's what prostitutes dooooo. And he did he get it up, if he was gay? With the help of a few drugs.
Double whammy - you have to pay for sex and it's with a gay guy. Terrific.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 1/17/2011 12:34:15 PM

I knew a man who charged for his services - and he was gay.
He shared an apartment with a friend of mine - this was about 20 years ago. He'd have sex with anyone for money - that's what prostitutes dooooo. And he did he get it up, if he was gay? With the help of a few drugs.
Double whammy - you have to pay for sex and it's with a gay guy. Terrific.


No thanks..I will pass on being a gay prostitute..just not my cup of tea.

Now..I will auction myself off to the highest FEMALE bidder..let's start at..ohhhh..$1.00?
 Pixy Dust
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Posted: 1/17/2011 4:35:44 PM
Nope wouldn't pay a man for sex. MsMicki mentioned dinner yes, we do that anyway... rolling eyes, but not if they aren't attracted...hasn't been a consideration even... haven't spoken to a single woman friend who would pay either...

I am curious as to how many women pay for escorts... I think the attraction would be to show up at a public event with Mr Hot Guy more so then wanting sex from him.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 1/17/2011 4:58:15 PM
Now... I will auction myself off to the highest FEMALE bidder.. let's start at.. ohhhh..$1.00?


I am a bidder and I touch my nose bidding for a penny,it is not that I want to have sex with you for my hard earned penny ,but your sweet innocent look is so adorable...
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 365
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Posted: 1/17/2011 5:24:54 PM

I am curious as to how many women pay for escorts... I think the attraction would be to show up at a public event with Mr Hot Guy more so then wanting sex from him.


A fer real escort?!!! Lol. I read years ago that when a woman enters a room, all eyes are upon her- when a man enters, all eyes are on the woman on his arm, and use her to evaluate him.
Sooooo, that conventional wisdom works in reverse as well?
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
Msg: 366
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Posted: 1/17/2011 5:28:56 PM
I think you are reading too many penthouse fantasy articles... I've NEVER heard a a female say this. Again, this is a much more male POV than a female one.


Some women get really hot over a guy and just want to shag him, they'll pay if they have to.

Among others I knew a woman who got all hot over a guy on POF, she was willing to even help pay for his trip to meet him. She just wanted to do him.
It turned out it was a fake picture, but the celebrity in the photo was so good-looking..
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 1/17/2011 7:08:28 PM
dont hurt me Vannili..or leave marks..k..
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 368
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Posted: 1/18/2011 8:26:49 AM

Hmmmm, so a guy, good lookin' AND good in bed, might be worth somethin'? Find a need a fill it, said one famous US entrepreneur. Maybe give away a free sample, just one, then start putting a price on the service. I bet that's how that ole DeerDog did it, although I've seen his profile, and I gotta figure he's long on talent.



Yeah, he's worth somethin'...but not MONEY. Maybe, perhaps, dating? LOL A relationship? :) An FWB even?


Whyt and Kaley ..my friends ...memories of days gone by ... I think I am worth much more now than the days gone by ..I have learned much ..mainly by doing everything wrong..my life has been chock full of misdeeds and good fortune as well as mis-fortune .. ..the only thing missing is regrets ..I regret nothing .. every road I have traveled has brought me to where I am today... a person who can say ..I like me ..I don't like everything I have done ..but I like what it has made me ..I enjoy reminiscing of days gone by ..always hoping that someone can gain perspective from my past and avoid the pain of making mistakes themselves ..No that's not going to happen ..well maybe

I have always heard that there are 3 kind of people in this world
1 the people that can learn from reading books
2 the people that can learn from others teaching them
3 the people that have to pee on the electric fence for themselves


I was always in the last category..I always had to do everything the hard way ..In school I was voted the most likely to do time ...well by the grace of whatever higher powers might be either they were wrong or I was lucky ..or in the words of Forrest Gump "maybe it could both at the same time "

I never said I was ever worth being paid for sex or any thing at any time in my life ..looking back I really don't know what the many people who have given or invested in me ,saw in me ..most times I let them down ..most times I took and never repaid ..If they knew me now ..If I could still repay or even say thank you .. old men spend a lot of time thinking about the word ...IF
 damassteel
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Posted: 1/18/2011 12:28:54 PM
Half of the plot to the movie "Midnight Cowboy" was based on the premise that there are women out there who'll pay for it.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 370
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Posted: 1/18/2011 2:15:43 PM
Will he cook dinner for me, wash the dishes, sweep the floor, take out the trash, and walk the dogs? What about leave, never come back or call?
If thats the case I'll put in a special order for a Brad pitt/young Clint Eastwood combo with a large errrmmm sausage.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 371
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Posted: 1/18/2011 2:24:34 PM

Will he cook dinner for me, wash the dishes, sweep the floor, take out the trash, and walk the dogs?

I'm sure one would if you pay the hourly rate for an outcall. You might even be able to get a multi-hour discount.

What about leave, never come back or call?

You've apparently never heard the saying that you don't pay escorts for sex. You pay them to leave afterward.

Here, try this one:

http://www.papau.net/main/agent.asp?id=71&page=1
or
http://www.papau.net/main/agent.asp?id=25&page=1

I'm sure you can ask discreetly about the sausage.
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 1/4/2011
Msg: 372
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Posted: 1/18/2011 3:31:07 PM
Hahahahahaha... thats a hoot ^^^ you get a cold one doll~
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