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 pet_tech
Joined: 9/24/2007
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Take note men: Women have bigger egos than you.

A quick way to devastate any woman is to get her all wet and randy then put your pants on and leave.
 wildpassion
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 278
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:11:29 AM
hell no ..... guys give it up for free. thay will fu** a snake if someone would hold it for them.
 Toronto Chick
Joined: 10/17/2007
Msg: 279
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:14:01 AM
Nope...why? because there's no reason for me to pay...if I want to get laid then I will get laid...it's not hard...lol
 BadMonkeyFinger
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 280
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:22:50 AM

lmao, way to easy to get it for free, why pay? J/k nope, waste of money



a bit off topic -

this comment helps to justify my point in another thread about why women who sleep around are considered 'sluts' whereas men who sleep around are 'studs'.

It's 'easy' for any chick to 'get some for free', but not so much so for men. Seeing as it's so easy, they should be discriminating with whom they let into their body, given that they have 'everyone' to choose from.

Thanks for your support. lol

back on topic now... sorry about the seeming non-sequitor.
 BadMonkeyFinger
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 281
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Posted: 10/29/2007 11:25:52 AM
geeeezus... i just noticed how MANY of you (mostly women) are making statements that support my comments. Cool.
 brentos
Joined: 1/6/2005
Msg: 282
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Posted: 10/29/2007 12:42:40 PM
I've been given cab fare afterwards :)





...wait, is that a good thing?
 GreatAttitude
Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 283
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Posted: 10/29/2007 4:37:17 PM
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 WaywardWynde
Joined: 5/19/2007
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Posted: 10/30/2007 3:48:28 PM
I have not yet read the entire thread up to this point, so may be crossing the paths crossed by others prior and/or the thread may have changed direction.

With that caveat.

Women can, and do, pay for sex with men. That is pay for sex with a man or men with full knowledge and aforethought. We're not talking here of some scam agent bleeding a mark of her rent money, but rather full concurance on the part of the women.

A friend of mine, who is a therapist of several decades standing treating (or attempting to treat) such men. She tells me the man involved is ALWAYS **at least** 15 younger than the woman, and may be 30 years or more younger. (Note, she treats the high end of the market, men who might be taking in upwards of half a mil a year or more.) A strange (to me) statistic is that roughly 40% of the women (who pay in that high end market) were once working prostitutes themselves. Most of the women feel they are "trying to save" the young man "from the life".

The men working that trade, she says, have serious issues. They tend to be substance abusers, with alcohol "the numbing agent of choice" because drug use is not acceptable to the women involved. Alcohol abuse, rather than old age, is the most common reason such men leave the business.

I asked her if, as I assumed, exceptional physical beauty and a buffed out body were reason for success of those who hit the high end of the trade. My friend said even though the guys often were quite attractive, that was not the determining factor. Charm was. Smooth, unctious charm. Incredible charm that could be turned on or off at will to suit whatever intended purpose. Charm that could be, and often was, turned on to attempt to influence a therapist (she, a very bright lady, said she REALLY had to watch for it, for the charm was so natural in appearance it could affect judgement). My friend see treated some truly lothesome looking guys who very thoroughly serviced the high end of the market, men who were well more than 100 pounds overweight, and with less than plain faces.

The marks, as a rule, were older women with unpleasant personalities and high net value assets. They had the money and they were going to pay for what they didn't have when they were younger, that is a man who so truly cares for the human they are.

I was told that at the lower end of the economic market, the men looking for money from women learned to effectively hunt for "broken wings" or else they were forced to get jobs like the rest of us got.

At the bottom economic levels, street drugs are often "the numbing agent of choice".

.... As a young man, I was given a fine leather coat by a woman I had some reservations about. I didn't want to take it, but most certainly could use a winter coat. The woman said it was no problem for her, she liked me, and not to worry at all. It turned out there was plenty to worry about. I should have gone cold.

Women (s0me) buy what they otherwise can't get.
 Joe_Banks
Joined: 7/1/2007
Msg: 285
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Posted: 10/30/2007 4:00:45 PM
It's true, if a woman just wants to get laid, it's not hard to find any guy to sleep with her. I'm sure Joe Blow will give her 5 minutes of wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

However, if a woman really wants pleasure, and from a man who knows what he is doing, I think there are some women who would pay for that.

A man who will wine you, dine you, give you a massage, make you feel like a queen for the evening. His only desire is to please you...and no thought for his own selfish pleasure. From the moment he picks you up until the moment he silently slips out the back door, his one focus is to make your evening a special one. I'm not talking about just sex, or getting laid...I'm talking about bringing you pleasure in numerous ways.

I definitely believe a woman would pay to feel that way for one evening of self-indulgent joy.

Laugh all you want...but you know you would.
 Charlie Shift
Joined: 12/5/2006
Msg: 286
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Posted: 10/30/2007 4:17:46 PM
No, and I can get pretty desperate, but I don't think I'd ever pay for it. Simply b/c I don't want anyone who doesn't want me. I don't think I'd respond anyway if I thought he didn't feel anything for me. So, my answer is no, I won't pay for sex with a man.
 Pfm1011
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 287
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Posted: 10/30/2007 6:30:24 PM
Its very common for executive woman to pay for it. Go to any 5 star hotel in any city and there is always a bar with gigilos. Executive women want the job done and done right by a young 20 year old and they want him out of there when he is done

There used to be a bar near yonge and bloor that a couple of my friends used to frequent when they were around 20 to 25, It was a standard cougar bar except it was all rich execs who always "tipped"

If you are a successful executive or the wife of a millionaire . Husband is busy or old and you want your oil changed..you arent going to a bar to pick up someone..who A may have a disease..B May be lousy in the sak , C may have to spend hours putting up with idiots just to get a piece.
 xxfoxyredxx
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 288
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Posted: 10/30/2007 6:38:34 PM
Definetely not!
I cant see ever feelin need to pay for it!
Go out get bladdered , get laid thats how it works no?
Long as ya not too fussy but if ya pissed anyway men start to look like brad pitt anyhow lol x
Just leave strait after of u may wake up with christopher biggins!
 ecaepydal
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 289
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Posted: 10/30/2007 6:47:18 PM
No, never, not ever. Why would I? I'm a girl.
 livvy h
Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 290
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Posted: 10/31/2007 10:54:16 PM
Im sure there are some women who would and do, but for me umm..HELL NO !! why? cause Ive never needed to and sex is better with a connection there..I cant have an emotional connection with someone I just paid to have sex with. If I have to pay someone to have sex with me then they obviously dont want me and arent attracted to me, and that would make me feel awful, I love the feeling I get when a guy wants me...I think my money would be better spent expanding my toy collection..ty
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 11/1/2007 6:54:16 AM

Its very common for executive woman to pay for it. Go to any 5 star hotel in any city and there is always a bar with gigilos. Executive women want the job done and done right by a young 20 year old and they want him out of there when he is done


I've actually seen this in action.The guys were always 18 to 21,all of the ones I saw and met were Hispanic,extremely good looking and well dressed.The women were all between 45 to 70, wealthy and bored.There was more than sex, a lot more.These guys were their "trophies" and escorted them to country clubs and dinners and such and they were paid hundreds of dollars for their efforts.
 DarlingDeviant.
Joined: 2/10/2006
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Posted: 11/1/2007 10:24:47 AM
hahaha pay? you said PAY for sex with a man... *chuckles* that's cute & funny.. Hell no. I'm a woman. I could get it every day of the week by a different guy If i so choose.. of course I don't choose that.. it's not safe.. but I certainly would never have to pay for it... & I'm just an average looking woman.

Even the most unattractive women can get a man.. Like someone else said.. supply & demand..

I think if a woman did want to pay for sex it would be more of a control issue. That she wants you to know she's using you & paying for you like a piece of meat. That you're not getting what you want but that she is the one taking what she wants from you & gets to tell you to leave after.. simple.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 293
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Posted: 11/1/2007 10:54:56 AM
jokes on you ladies:
haircut/style, hair removal/wax, gym/spa, nails, pedicure, new outfits, shoes, accessories, makeup ($$$$$$$$)
ladies -not directly, however, your definately paying for sex
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 11/1/2007 12:47:59 PM
That's the stupidest question I've ever seen in these forums so far...
 SlyKnight
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 295
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Posted: 11/1/2007 1:24:27 PM
So many saying 'NO', but virtually no thought to who or how much...

If I were to ask 100 young single girls if they'd pay £1 to have sex with Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt, I'm pretty damn sure I'd get a LOT of 'YES!' responses. Yet if I were to ask them 'would you pay for sex?', they'll just say 'no way, I can get it for free!'

You can't get those two for free you know.

Isn't it simply a question of price & value? I mean seriously, if you'll pay £10, £20, £50 and upwards for a vibrator why wouldn't you pay for great sex too? It's supposed to be better than a vibrator after all.
 2 girls short of a 3some
Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 296
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Posted: 11/2/2007 1:14:27 AM
so woman wont pay a man for sex

moral of the story

stop giving it away for free guys -- then just then perhapes after a while they might pay

either that or become lesbians
 issy154
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 297
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:41:47 PM
Dunno.....if it was gonna be with my fav. celeb, then hell yes lol.
 oldsoul
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 298
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:50:15 PM
No...

 nocalsingledad
Joined: 11/27/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:54:48 PM
Hookers aren't paid for sex ... really. They are paid to go away after sex.
 mr. dynomite
Joined: 9/11/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:55:38 PM

A quick way to devastate any woman is to get her all wet and randy then put your pants on and leave.





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