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 niagara45
Joined: 8/15/2010
Msg: 373
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Not now, I wouldn't. In the distant future? Who knows? In principal I am opposed to money changing hands for sex, but when I am a little old lady maybe I'll be so super horny I won't care about my beliefs any more.
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 374
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/19/2011 4:20:42 AM

http://www.papau.net/main/agent.asp?id=71&page=1
or
http://www.papau.net/main/agent.asp?id=25&page=1

OMG Could you find a more massively gay group of men?
They average $200 p/h with a minimum of three hours.
Cough up a tip and you can have a gay man hyped up on viagra and goodness knows what else - all for a measly $1000. Oh goodie.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 375
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/19/2011 7:49:34 AM

Cough up a tip and you can have a gay man hyped up on viagra and goodness knows what else - all for a measly $1000. Oh goodie


Haven't checked out those sites, but I gotta think that somewhere in that herd of gay drug-enhanced studs who service women's appetites lurk a few closet hetero aberrations who actually enjoy their work. There is much to be said for delivering someone's fondest wish, or dreamy sex (although some of the "dreams" expressed in this thread by ladies are more aggressive than dreamy erotic, imo, lol).
A former lady friend on mine used to comment, occasionally, when the subject of porn came up, that "they" were all gay. Seems like we let our own suspicious natures ruin our good times, even our dreams.
 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 376
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/19/2011 12:04:28 PM
No. If i ever get that desperate, i would rather be shot.
Who would have to do a thing like that besides 50 or 60 year old divorcees that are realllly ugly and dont bathe?
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 377
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/19/2011 12:52:41 PM
Whyt, check out the men on those sites and then give me a lecture on how straight they are..
 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
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Posted: 1/19/2011 1:30:11 PM
Sweetnessinflorida: No. If i ever get that desperate, i would rather be shot.
Who would have to do a thing like that besides 50 or 60 year old divorcees that are realllly ugly and dont bathe?

Maybe you wouldn't, but there are professional, divorced clean and sexy ladies who are in their 50s and 60s who do go on vacations in places like Mexico and the Carribean who pay for "boy toys." To say that women who won't pay for sex unless they are ugly and don't bathe is so typical of someone who has not seen it first-hand or heard of it from friends.

Places like club resorts around the world such as Club Med and Hedonism is where free sex and pay sex happens all the time for both men and women. Myself I have never been there, but my some of my lady friends and relatives (who are in their 40s and 50s and who I consider are beautiful and do bathe) have been. They have told me of the offers and solicitations by younger "boy toys" and older/middle-aged gigalos. Of course, I never asked if they paid for it or not, but logically if paid sex is being solicited there, it's being bought and paid for by women.

 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 379
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Posted: 1/19/2011 2:34:06 PM

Who would have to do a thing like that besides 50 or 60 year old divorcees that are realllly ugly and dont bathe?

Women who see virtue in being pampered by a guy who will leave and return only when asked and can afford to pay for it. Women pay for massages. The only difference is a massage doesn't cover quite as many square inches of landscape.
 Music13
Joined: 3/19/2007
Msg: 381
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Posted: 1/19/2011 5:04:34 PM
Kitten

Thats ridiculous.....ANY female can get ANY man ??? its more like... No matter who r whatever the reasonyou are. everybody has different tastes. Even the most beautiful women in the world complain all the time they can get tons of guys but for whatever reason, not the ones they really want. my friends might point out someone they think is hot and ill think, are they blind?? so your absolutely wrong here. quite the ego you have there too by the way. :)
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 382
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Posted: 1/20/2011 1:17:01 PM

...ANY female can get ANY man


well I contend that any guy can get a woman ..and in my age category women willing to have sex ..are a dime a dozen also .. cant tell you how many times I have been hit on of late but that always seems to be the case when one is living a monogamous life ....only guys who cant get laid are social introverts or either guys who are shooting themselves in the foot by trying too hard ...
however there well could be other considerations as to whether a man or woman would choose just to pay for sex ..among them being a sourness for commitment..or just not wanting complications of the meeting process .. I have never felt this way but have heard it expressed from both men and women
 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 383
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/20/2011 1:38:41 PM

Maybe you wouldn't, but there are professional, divorced clean and sexy ladies who are in their 50s and 60s who do go on vacations in places like Mexico and the Carribean who pay for "boy toys." To say that women who won't pay for sex unless they are ugly and don't bathe is so typical of someone who has not seen it first-hand or heard of it from friends.



I just cant open my mind, it reeks of desperation and sadness.
They cant just get a real boyfriend or husband, or at least a FWB, or even pull a one night stand if they are that horny?
How can they get turned on knowing the man is only there for $$ rather than being ther beecause he wants and desires her?
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 1/20/2011 5:00:28 PM
The core of any larger city is the place to observer older wealthy women with their boy toys. Why? They can order up whatever appeals to them, rather than dealing with the cranky old farts their own age who, apparently, can't get it up or keep it up.

Its the same for men who hire women.

Lots of people just want to get laid without the agony of emotional involvement. Just read the laments of the people on the forums to see the level of emotional, moral and prejudicial expression that can be completely sidestepped for a few bucks...

In any event, you always pay for sex. Its just the mode of payment that is different when you are dating....
 RubyWaxxx
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 385
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/20/2011 6:11:28 PM
^^Maybe older women like paying for young handsome guys who do what they tell them and then leave. Much like some men who use prostitutes. It's not rocket science why women do this and I don't think it reeks of desperation any more than a man who has paid for sex. Big deal, really.
But the question wasn't what sort of woman pays for sex; the question asked if *you* would pay for it. And my answer is no - not because I think it's immoral or desperate, simply I'd rather do it with someone I know fancies me.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 386
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/20/2011 7:05:01 PM
They cant just get a real boyfriend or husband, or at least a FWB, or even pull a one night stand if they are that horny?

An escort is there to cater to you at your convenience. Which of the above would do things like draw your bath, give you a massage, make your sexual experience all about you, listen to you complain about guys and sympathize with you, and pretty much just pamper you without complaining, then go away? You don't hire an escort if what you want is a bf, husband, fwb or one-night stand.

How can they get turned on knowing the man is only there for $$ rather than being ther beecause he wants and desires her?

Well, he's there for the money for sure. But, that doesn't mean an escort won't find a client desirable and enjoy the tryst as much as any one-night stand goes. My best friend is an escort (female) and she does enjoy seeing some of her clients. To be sure, it's the ones who are at least reasonably attractive, personable and gentlemanly, but nevertheless not every client is a ``let's get it over with'' experience. The pay4play world is not as black and white as it is portrayed on TV shows. If you're reasonably attractive, a male escort is not going to let the fact that you're paying for his time stop him from getting turned on and having a good time with you. It's sex and pampering, not a marriage proposal, so if you have enough disposable income to spoil yourself occassionally when you aren't involved with anyone, why not? I've seen plenty of threads from women who are spending a lot more money every month on a deadbeat boyfriend who won't do anything but watch TV. Which is worse?


Whyt, check out the men on those sites and then give me a lecture on how straight they are.

I'd say a lot of male escorts are either gay or bi. I don't think there enough women willing to hire escorts to provide a good income through straight sex alone.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 387
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/21/2011 5:01:27 AM
Much like some men who use prostitutes


Who uses whom in a sex for hire event?


I'd say a lot of male escorts are either gay or bi. I don't think there enough women willing to hire escorts to provide a good income through straight sex alone.


I'd say that it's just as plausible to posit a heterosexual escort who fills his/her professional time gaps with same-sex sex, but I'm one of those who believes that committing an occasional "homosexual act" does not define sexual identity; after all-

Well, he's there for the money for sure.


Exactly. When money is the escort's motivation, his/her sexual identity has little to do with his assignations.


But, that doesn't mean an escort won't find a client desirable and enjoy the tryst as much as any one-night stand goes.


Pretty much what I was saying in a previous post. Why presuppose, especially on the basis of some website pics alone, that only "gays" are willing to violate their own sexual preferences where money is in the offing? By the same reasoning, to conclude that an escort who does both genders as a professional is bisexual is based more, I think, one the facile but speculative belief that homosexuals/bis are obviously willing to fvck anything, even other species, with or without pecuniary reward.
Hey, who among us only does what he most loves at his "job"?

I occasionally regret that I didn't get a forestry degree to be a ranger (you get to wear that authoritative shirt, with epaulets, the matching hat, and a free 4-wheel vehicle, lol), but I've also thought sometimes that I shoulda tried the porn industry. No cool outfits in that career, but, I've heard they structure their compensation in a way to avoid paying income taxes, probably much like "escorts". Seems they usually bust the more famous madames for tax evasion.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 388
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Posted: 1/21/2011 5:37:49 AM

I occasionally regret that I didn't get a forestry degree to be a ranger (you get to wear that authoritative shirt, with epaulets, the matching hat, and a free 4-wheel vehicle, lol), but I've also thought sometimes that I shoulda tried the porn industry. No cool outfits in that career, but, I've heard they structure their compensation in a way to avoid paying income taxes, probably much like "escorts". Seems they usually bust the more famous madames for tax evasion.

You mean to tell me that if you were a forest ranger and sidelined as an escort, I would have paid you to come with NO large hat, not pretend badge and no khaki colored boxers? Damn!!! My fantasy has now been altered to simple nakedness ~ shame on you!! I thought you'd show up looking like Dudley Do-Right. I would pay for that.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 389
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Posted: 1/21/2011 6:36:07 AM

I'd say that it's just as plausible to posit a heterosexual escort who fills his/her professional time gaps with same-sex sex, but I'm one of those who believes that committing an occasional "homosexual act" does not define sexual identity; after all-

Unlike female escorts, I think there aren't a lot of males who are willing to be gay for pay or at least not for a couple hundred an hour.

I occasionally regret that I didn't get a forestry degree to be a ranger (you get to wear that authoritative shirt, with epaulets, the matching hat, and a free 4-wheel vehicle, lol),

And -- you could have joined the Village People!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 390
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Posted: 1/21/2011 8:05:37 AM
You mean to tell me that if you were a forest ranger and sidelined as an escort, I would have paid you to come with NO large hat, not pretend badge and no khaki colored boxers? Damn!!! My fantasy has now been altered to simple nakedness ~ shame on you!! I thought you'd show up looking like Dudley Do-Right. I would pay for that.


Lol. Well, faint heart never won fair maiden, so sure, for the aggregate of benefits coyly but saucily suggested, I'd be your Dudley (though I'd be loathe to travel in that get-up, lol). But, I'd even accept your "work" on a contingent fee basis! Lol



And -- you could have joined the Village People!


Was just hoping for cachet, not, like, fame, or celebrity status. , and certainly not with that dubious group. Always thought one would need that roped soap, noosed securely around the neck, in the showers with those overly gesticulating boys. (lol, yeah, my own frail prejudices, based solely on visuals, at work here).
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 1/21/2011 9:40:37 AM
I had a girl buy me a burger once. Said she wanted my pickle and did I want to touch her buns. I would have been fine being the meat in her sandwich, but not for the price of a burger.
 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 392
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Posted: 1/21/2011 2:18:38 PM
This sounds like a good niche market for the immigrants that stand outside Home Depot, looking for work.
They should start making signs that say "Are you divorced? Lonely? Horny? Cant get picked up at the bar at last call? Want to be pampered?".
They could make a killing, they would make more than they do putting in cabinets and lifting lumber!
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 393
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Posted: 1/21/2011 4:20:12 PM
Im sure some women pay for it...if there are male escorts it is because thier is a market for it. (lots of the male escorts are there for men tho-men are the primary customers for these agencies)

Id never consider it...time between partners doesnt mean no orgasms...lol...Im very good at helping myself.
 revoskeepnus
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 394
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Posted: 1/21/2011 5:36:27 PM
yes, i would... but I'm poor, so he'd have to be cheap... and the diseases aren't worth it :)
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 1/21/2011 7:22:39 PM
I can get it for free whenever I want. It is *not* difficult for a woman to get laid, even at my age, and the guys available really aren't that bad. They may not be *great* but a lot of them aren't that bad, either. So I don't see the point.

One of my young male friends was out and while his date was in the bathroom, he was solicited by a prostitute. He was offended. "Do I look like a guy who has to pay for sex?" he protested. I would ask the same thing.

As for the poster who questioned if a woman would get turned on by a guy who was there only for the money, not because he desired her - if he were really skilled at what he was doing, of course a woman can get turned on.
 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
Msg: 396
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Posted: 1/21/2011 7:47:43 PM

As for the poster who questioned if a woman would get turned on by a guy who was there only for the money, not because he desired her - if he were really skilled at what he was doing, of course a woman can get turned on.
I could not. There would be too big of a mental block, to know he is only diddling your coochie because you paid him too, and for all you know he is thinking how he cant wait to be done with his "job" and take a scalding hot shower
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 397
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Posted: 1/22/2011 1:59:50 AM

I could not. There would be too big of a mental block, to know he is only diddling your coochie because you paid him too, and for all you know he is thinking how he cant wait to be done with his "job" and take a scalding hot shower

I couldn't get turned on by that either.Just knowing the only reason he was there was because of money would sicken me.Anyway who needs to hire someone to have an orgasm.Doing the deed ourselves if far preferable then having sex with a slutty prostitute who will do it with anyone if paid enough.
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 1/22/2011 9:14:35 AM

I couldn't get turned on by that either. Just knowing the only reason he was there was because of money would sicken me.


Ok, I'll do it for free
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