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 Pingshooter
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I couldn't get turned on by that either. Just knowing the only reason he was there was because of money would sicken me.


Ok, I'll do it for free
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 1/23/2011 8:19:37 AM
I think it's fabulous that some women here know they would never be able to do this knowing a man is only there for the money, but since this is a big world with lots of different types of people, they need to acknowledge that there ARE women who don't care about this, and it doesn't make them desperate, or in need of anything - just of a different mindset. Projecting can be a bad habit - and thinking something is wrong with those who don't do things like you are is a bit egotistical (and I've done this myself at times, so I'm no exception).
 EmailTomNow
Joined: 1/18/2011
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Posted: 1/23/2011 9:42:37 AM
back in the 70's it was not unusual for women to ask me out for a dinner and sex. they knew i had no problem with that and word got around. almost always they were unattractive or fat but for a short time i enjoyed the experiences that occured.
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
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Posted: 1/23/2011 9:49:13 AM
they need to acknowledge that there ARE women who don't care about this,

I in no way advocated that others should do as I do.I was offering only my opinion.If other women don't care that the man is there for the money only then go for it,have fun and be safe.

I guess you kind of missed the part where I said I,meaning me huh?
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 1/23/2011 10:28:00 AM
^^^^Nope, not in the first sentence I didn't. The next two or three, I must have. However, I was really addressing about 12 other posts, so I wasn't singling you out - if I was, believe me, I'd have quoted or addressed you directly. I also included myself in the post, so no one would think I was on a high horse. Did you miss that?
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 1/23/2011 3:40:25 PM


As for the poster who questioned if a woman would get turned on by a guy who was there only for the money, not because he desired her - if he were really skilled at what he was doing, of course a woman can get turned on.

I could not. There would be too big of a mental block, to know he is only diddling your coochie because you paid him too, and for all you know he is thinking how he cant wait to be done with his "job" and take a scalding hot shower


If he were really good at what he did, you'd never have a clue that he was thinking about getting it over with and taking a shower. Part of what makes people good at what they do is that they are into it and they are into being good at it.

I've never paid anyone and can't imagine I would. However, I *have* messed around with guys I barely knew. If they are good, I can get very, very turned on and pretty darned quickly. I'm not saying anyone else *should* but just that it's quite possible if you are able to relax and be in the moment.


Ok, I'll do it for free


See what I mean? It's easy to get if for free.
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
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Posted: 1/23/2011 4:17:50 PM

See what I mean? It's easy to get if for free.
^^^

I don't agree with people who put it down to desperation when someone pays. It may mean that you think you're going to have a particularly interesting experience.
Also, one shouldn't always assume that a man who's paid does it only for the money. Sometimes they're offered money as an additional incentive.
They're not completely averse to doing it, might even be tempted, and money seals the deal.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 1/23/2011 10:06:48 PM

They're not completely averse to doing it, might even be tempted, and money seals the deal.


Pretty much how I ended up married, but she was the tempted one, and money def'ly sealed the deal. lol
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
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Posted: 1/24/2011 2:57:48 AM

I don't agree with people who put it down to desperation when someone pays. It may mean that you think you're going to have a particularly interesting experience.

Not only would I have to be desperate but I would have to be completely off my rocker.Notice I said I.As in ME.I speak for no one but myself and how Iwould react in this situation.I in no way advocate that others should do as I do ,or that others who do this are evil or immoral.


Also, one shouldn't always assume that a man who's paid does it only for the money. Sometimes they're offered money as an additional incentive.

I supposed that's a lie that people tell themselves to bring comfort and peace of mind.Meh! Whatever.Do as you please.If rich men can tell themselves this lie and believe that their young hotties are with them because they love them for them,then I suppose women can start doing the same thing.Hey it's 2011 and women are equal.Why shouldn't we start being equal in this area?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 1/24/2011 4:10:10 AM
See what I mean? It's easy to get if for free.

Yeah, but like a lot of things, you often get what you pay for. When you pay, you are catered to.

Sometimes they're offered money as an additional incentive.

Money is always the incentive, but just like any other job, you have clients/customers whose company you enjoy and those you'd rather not deal with. I imagine that a male escort would look forward to seeing some clients and dreading others. On the other hand, a male escort can't really hide not being turned on, so I would guess that it wouldn't be difficult for a woman to tell how easily she aroused him.

If rich men can tell themselves this lie and believe that their young hotties are with them because they love them for them,

Guys that see escorts don't believe that. With an escort, both parties know the terms up front. However, what would you think if an escort saw one of her clients off-the-clock and she picked up the tab for an expensive lunch/dinner? Would you still think money was the only thing?
 AlphonseO
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Posted: 1/24/2011 7:12:38 AM
I just heard about this woman.

Last week, I checked into the Four Seasons in Palm Beach and was a bit lonely. I thought, "I'll call one of those men you see advertised in phone books for escorts and sensual massage."

I looked through the phone book, found a full page ad for a guy calling himself Tony Tender-a very handsome man with assorted physical skills flexing in the picture. He had all the right muscles in all the right places,
thick wavy hair, long powerful legs, dazzling smile, six pack abs and I felt quite certain I could bounce off his sixpence a well oiled bum .... you get the picture. I figured, what the heck, I'll give him a call.

"Hello, ma'am, how may I help you?" . . . Oh my, he sounded sooo sexy!

Afraid I would lose my nerve if I hesitated I rushed right in, "Hi, I hear you give a great massage, I'd like you to come to my room and give me one.
No, wait, I should be straight with you .I'm in town all alone and what I really want is sex. I want it hard, I want it hot, and I want it now. Bring implements, toys, rubber, leather, whips, everything you've got in your
bag of tricks. We'll go hot and heavy all night tie me up, cover me in chocolate syrup and whipped cream, anything and everything baby.

Now how does that sound?

" He says, "Oh my God ... that sounds absolutely fantastic, but you need to press 9 for an outside line."

 FavouriteDreamsOfYou
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Posted: 1/28/2011 2:47:57 AM
I'd pay for a night with Johnny Depp.
 WobblyAngelWings4Now
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Posted: 1/28/2011 9:51:53 AM

I'd pay for a night with Johnny Depp.


I'd do everything I could to outbid you...
 ImContent2BMe
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Posted: 2/1/2011 3:51:23 PM
Only if there was a money back guarantee
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 2/12/2011 4:42:35 AM

Only if there was a money back guarantee


Lol. That's pushing the sex-for-purchase concept to the max. Sounds like the miserly way that banks loan money to us to buy houses, i.e., only if the government agencies will guarantee the loan.

One sagacious lady pofer from the left coast occasionally says (in these threads): the value of anything is the amount of your life you're willing to invest in it.
Maybe the better question, OP, is: how much are you willing to invest (to buy equity, not make a loan to be rep;aid) to have sex with another human?
 vlh
Joined: 12/11/2009
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Posted: 2/14/2011 9:52:09 AM
I would for Nacho Vidal, lol.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 2/14/2011 11:18:28 AM
When I logged into my account this morning, along with the regular messages there were no less than 4 or 5 other messages, asking me if I "wanted to have fun with them." The youngest one was all of 30, and the oldest was 45. There wasn't ONE out of that four or five I'd even do for practice, much less because I wanted to.

And that was just today's tally - although the day ain't nearly over.

Why ANY woman would pay for something that's constantly being offered up every hour on the hour is just beyond me.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 2/14/2011 12:04:50 PM
There wasn't ONE out of that four or five I'd even do for practice, much less because I wanted to.

And that was just today's tally - although the day ain't nearly over.

Why ANY woman would pay for something that's constantly being offered up every hour on the hour is just beyond me.

Because, as you just said yourself, there wasn't one in those four or five you'd even do for practice. If you got a hundred offers every day, but none of them interested you, you might as well have none at all. If a woman has enough money to pay for someone to go away afteward, why wouldn't she pay for it?
 xlr8ingmargo
Joined: 1/4/2011
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Posted: 2/14/2011 12:44:10 PM
Well when you pay for it you can order it up just the way ya want it~
have them listen to all demands and be a willing servant then leave.
Key word being leave.

The idea of it still sounds like fun to place an order for kicks but Im way too much of a minimalist to pay up. Id rather buy Christmas for a needly family in the community, or groceries for the local food bank. Someday I might when Im retired sipping Grey Goose martinis on vacation someplace~ the though is nice.
 Consigliori
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Posted: 2/14/2011 2:35:01 PM
My wife pays me. She calls it allowance - but whatever.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
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Posted: 2/14/2011 3:40:34 PM
Many women out there really DO pay for sex, they just do not admit it or realize it.

They do NOT, almost never would have a straight sexual transaction with a gigilo...a male prostitute/stripper.


How they actually DO pay for it, is by getting a guy (who is truly not that into them) and he'll screw her brains out and then she's buying him clothes, loaning him her car and her credit card.

She is ""helping"" him with his rent and bills when occasionally he needs it.


The guy cheats on her right and left and she even knows it, sees it- BUT....she will continue to get her sexual needs met by him while paying for him and giving him money as he needs....

Happens all the time.

These women can fool themselves into believing the guy really likes/loves them- but he does not...
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 2/14/2011 5:22:20 PM

My wife pays me. She calls it allowance




Last time anybody endowed me with an allowance (it was weekly), I invested heavily in the latest Marvel comic issue. I even attended a Stan Lee speaking event in college. That was weird. lol

Everybody invests in sex, even before it happens, and then, of course, there are consequences, ongoing maintenance costs.
Hey, it's pretty much worth however much you put into it, most times.
 FortyFine44122
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Posted: 2/14/2011 5:31:23 PM

These women can fool themselves into believing the guy really likes/loves them- but he does not...
soo, do you think that when men pay to whores they fool themselves that tese women love them?
or you think that men are smarter that that?
 kayliecat
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Posted: 2/14/2011 6:48:10 PM
Pfft! I haven't bought squat for a guy so he'll hook up with me...No clothes, no rent payments, no meals...hell no!

I'm not saying no woman ever has...but geez it's NOT that common!

The day I need to give money to a guy to keep him around to service me....well, now. That would be a very sad day indeed! If it ever arrives, I better dam* well be about 80 years old!

Yeah, um, it's really not hard to get male attention when we want it. Just walk into a bar any night of the week...
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
Msg: 425
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Posted: 2/14/2011 10:23:59 PM

Yeah, um, it's really not hard to get male attention when we want it. Just walk into a bar any night of the week...


Yeah, but you don't want any kind of attention. If the male doesn't appeal to you, you won't want it.

Women don't get just anyone they want.

Sometimes they have to pay (figuratively or literally) to get what they want.

You may not be like that but there definitely are women who do it.
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