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 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 519
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Uh NO
Why...like I really need to pay for sex!!
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 520
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Posted: 2/1/2012 7:14:26 PM
No. The kind of men that really turn me on would not be an escort...so I doubt I would even be turned on enough to have sex with a escort.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 521
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 2/1/2012 7:16:55 PM
No. I don't NEED to pay a man for sex.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 522
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 2/2/2012 12:06:03 AM
Why...

For the same reasons men do : (1) Because you can; and (2) Because there's no such thing as free sex, and with an escort, at least you know what it's going to cost up front and the price will only involve money.

like I really need to pay for sex!!

Just about everyone could say the same thing if they are willing to have sex on someone else's terms and they are willing to spend time and effort finding someone who is at least do-able in their eyes. With an escort, it's at your convenience, it's all about you, you can pick someone you find very do-able and there's no trainwreck waiting to happen. If I just wanted sex, I'd much rather pay for it. It's cheaper in the long run.

No. I don't NEED to pay a man for sex.

Few people ``need'' to pay (cash) for sex. Most of those who do pay for sex do it because they would rather pay for it in cash.
 cashleys
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 524
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 2/2/2012 1:47:40 AM
Thought has crossed my mind. The interesting thing would be that you could for usually the first time be selfish and not worry about it being all about him. Most women usually are wondering how they look, if the guy is going to call them the next day or worry if it is just a one time thing with them, guys can have sex and it mean nothing more, most women have emotional attachment to sex. So, if you paid a guy, you wouldn't be thinking about all that and maybe just lose yourself in him pleasing you? I think that is why so many men hire women, the kind of woman they hire depends on the amount of money they have.
So, would be interesting thing to try but never have, maybe just a fantasy?
 fixerx25
Joined: 7/18/2012
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Posted: 8/16/2012 12:14:56 PM
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?

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Its not that woman don't want to pay but they are to darn Cheap. I have woman who paid for my drinks, dinner or someother way to have sex with me and I am average good looking.When man is good in bed and good lover, woman will pay to get his company

Since society is not geared up to that tradition, woman tend to shy away.How woman will approach a man for dating or for sex, or ask for sex even they are burning inside...Never.....It is always the man who Initiate... Cause it is not lady like in our double standard society.

There are woman who pays for sex but it is not cool to admit that. How do you think all the male escort service make their living.
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 526
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 8/16/2012 12:33:01 PM
If it was julian Mcmahon..yes..but no haha
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 8/16/2012 12:53:35 PM

How do you think all the male escort service make their living.

By servicing other men.



If it was julian Mcmahon..yes..but no haha

Uh hummm.....HE'S the MAIN reason I loved the "Tip/Tuck" series so much!!!
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 528
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Posted: 8/16/2012 5:39:00 PM
Why pay for something I can get for free pretty much whenever I want?

I once decided at 7 p.m. that I really wanted to get laid and by 9 p.m. I had a guy passing through town on business who ended up doing a really respectable job. Not only that, but he bought me tea and dessert.

It is not difficult for a woman to get laid and not only that, but laid decently if you know how to go about it. There are a lot more men looking to get laid than women. If you don't believe that, read Craig's List and notice the number of female prostitutes compared to male prostitutes. The latter mostly do men, anyway. So, it's a numbers game. We have a huge advantage.

Lots of guys who are looking to get laid are morons but many are not. They include your high school history teacher, prestigious university professors, young dudes who think older women are hot, artists and musicians who are sensual and sensitive lovers but can't keep a relationship going for more than a few hours (which is fine for a hook-up) because they're flaky, guys who travel for work and never stay in one place for long. Some of them are pretty darned interesting and not bad as lovers, especially considering the very little amount of time invested in getting to know them. Like less than an hour.

I've never met a gigolo and the only "kept man" I ever knew was kind of pathetic. No, I'm doing fine with the freebies. I've given it up for now but I know where and how to find them if I decide to do that again.
 shy2anne
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 529
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Posted: 8/16/2012 5:47:56 PM
the best things in life are free.
no, that's not my answer
i wouldn't want to cheapen sex by paying to enjoy it.
hopefully it's about sharing sex with someone you care about.
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 530
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Posted: 8/16/2012 6:57:29 PM

I once decided at 7 p.m. that I really wanted to get laid and by 9 p.m. I had a guy passing through town on business who ended up doing a really respectable job. Not only that, but he bought me tea and dessert.

Shame I never found myself in your orbit Arwen! Like your attitude.
 aileelizabeth
Joined: 9/5/2011
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Posted: 8/16/2012 8:03:09 PM
Simple answer. No
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
Msg: 532
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Posted: 8/16/2012 9:54:52 PM
^^^ I can't EVEN imagine what the male escort would be like. For some reason I can't see him looking/being like Dermot Mulroney's character in "The Wedding Date"......for some reason the word "gay as a mo-fo" comes to mind (OK...I know that was more than one word).

If I was ever so hard up for sex where I felt like I needed it right then and there....I'm like 100% sure I could find a REAL...relatively attractive man to give me what I needed before the night was over..... and not have to resort to some gigolo that pimps his dyk out for money. YUK.
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 8/17/2012 11:34:01 AM

abelian: More than likely, you couldn't get an appoinment without advance notice unless you were a regular, (and escorts do turn clients down, so it's not even a sure thing). You aren't going to just call up an escort and be able to see one.

Wouldn't matter.......I don't need to know any of the "escort" rules because I'm 100% I'm not interested in the least.


abelian: Sure, but you have no idea what the random stranger you're picking will do. He could be a psychopath (Ted Bundy coms to mind) or a stalker or who knows?

Actually there are men that I currently talk to (on and off POF) that I'm attracted to but have never "been there" with them for various reasons....I would choose one of them before a complete stranger OR I would choose someone I have dated in the past if I just absolutely HAD to have it. But if that were the case, I'd just rather masturbate.....seriously it's pretty close to the same thing as having sex with someone you don't have any feeling for. JMO


abelian: I think your objection is more an ego thing than a logical conclusion.

I actually DO see the logic in someone choosing to hire an escort. I'm just saying it definitely wouldn't be for me. There's a certain ICK factor to it for ME.
 ZombiezRock
Joined: 8/7/2012
Msg: 535
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Posted: 8/17/2012 6:11:02 PM
Bwahahahahahahaha, no why would I pay for something I can easily get for free...... Men are the easiest things on the planet to get into bed, and it wont matter when I age, or got fat , men are stilllllll easy as shyt... bwahahahahahahahahah
there will never be a need for this!!!
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 8/17/2012 7:42:28 PM
^^^^ This is SOOO.....SOOOO....SOOOO true. It would be nice if men wouldn't just automatically f*ck anything with 2 legs (oh....heck...who am I kidding, they would screw a woman with NO legs). I think there are probably a small percentage of men that aren't this way......but the majority? Yep.....complete man whores.
 justlookingvt
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 537
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 8/17/2012 8:03:27 PM
never mind.
 _Full_of_Awesome_
Joined: 6/26/2012
Msg: 538
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 8/17/2012 8:40:10 PM
In a way, women *always* pay for having sex with a man.

Just sayin'. :-)
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 539
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 8/17/2012 10:02:36 PM
No woman need pay for sex. She can also get free dinners and drinks on the promise of giving it. Too many men willing to give it away for free and actually desperate to do just that and not always fussy, who with.

Men often have to pay for sex, one way and another and expect it . A woman would want an hot young escort for a dinner companion perhaps or to travel with, but never just pure sex.
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 540
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Posted: 8/18/2012 2:59:17 AM
Yeah...the whole notion of women paying men for sex is just silly. Nice fantasy for the guys....but, alas guys, aint gonna happen. We need them a whole lot more than they need us when it comes to sex.
 drewcornwall
Joined: 5/31/2010
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Posted: 8/18/2012 6:51:15 AM
girls that have battery operated boyfriends, not cheap nowadays, you seen the prices of them things?


Agreed with quite alot here, should be and always free!
 contrie
Joined: 4/20/2011
Msg: 544
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Posted: 8/18/2012 6:54:23 AM
ok we just have free sex.
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 8/18/2012 10:58:51 AM

Full_of_Awesome: In a way, women *always* pay for having sex with a man.

Maybe? But I thought it was the men who always say they have to pay for it one way or the other?

I really wish men and women were on more of an even playing field when it comes to sex. For men, it seems like "variety is the spice of life" and "the more the merrier"...and for many women, it's still sex = relationship or at least "wanting" or "thinking" they are in a relationship. Of course it isn't this way for every man and woman.....but for the most part, I think this is true and unfortunately I think this is just the way we are wired. It would be nice if men and women were "wired" the same way IMO.


MakeUTingle: We need them a whole lot more than they need us when it comes to sex.

Yea but we need men a whole lot more when it comes to other things so maybe it all even's out!


drewcornwall: girls that have battery operated boyfriends, not cheap nowadays, you seen the prices of them things?

YES, and your right...sex toy's are no longer cheap. They are making them very high tech these day's and I think when it comes to sex toy's the old adage holds true; you get what you pay for. And btw, most of the newer sex toys no longer use batteries so we aren't' going to be able to call them BOB anymore. Maybe ROB? - Rechargeable Operated Boyfriend? lol I have seriously considered being a sex toy "reviewer". The company gives you a new toy to try in exchange for your review. Sounds like a win - win situation (unless the toy sucked and I had to write a bad review)
 ZombiezRock
Joined: 8/7/2012
Msg: 546
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Posted: 8/18/2012 12:11:41 PM
The sad thing here is that girls only need "bob" because they cant find a guy who can satisfy em.... personally I dont need "bob" there for, that is an expense I don't have.

and I don't pay for sex in anyway, i don't have to buy meals, i don't have to pay for a movie , the only expense I may have is a tiny tiny tiny percentage of a phone bill to text or contact said guy...... when I say free, I mean free. And it isnt that I would have to make a guy pay for any of that either... we all know if you say hey " lets skip the bs and have sex" 95% of men would do it.... I have not tried out this theory but there is no need ive watched it work, time and time again and i know men.

I wouldnt even have to pretend Im someone Im not, I happen to be awesome so hey......... i'll never be lonely or sexless.... life is good.....


Muahahahahahahahahaha
 A_Rare_Treasure
Joined: 7/24/2012
Msg: 547
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Posted: 8/18/2012 12:22:04 PM
Well, I shouldn't have to ... however I did in the past .... when I was married and late spouse lost his job ... Yeah, I was a sucker .. supported him for 12 years ... so yes, I did pay for sex .... actually wayyyyyyyyy overpaid ... and when a lawyer came after me for spousal support ... I said "wait -- hold on, I already paid for him" ... it's a long story however in the end, I didn't pay any more.

Later when I was dating one fella that thought serious ... he was only serious when I offered to pay for things for him ...
and when I realized his pattern and decided that enough was enough, I stopped offering to buy stuff when we went shopping.

... ahem .. he suggested browsing which in actuality was him pointing stuff he said he really needed and didn't have the money for right now hoping I would offer to buy it for him. If I didn't offer, then he would ask to borrow money and pay me back when he got paid ... lol ... that rarely happened. There wasn't much sex and when I stopped offering, there was none and when I said "no" to borrowing ... he was gone. Seriously overpaid on this too however at least there was no lawyer coming after me for support because we never lived together.

Will I ever pay for sex with a man ever again? With money or buying stuff for him -- HELL NO!!
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