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 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
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Some of the most physically unattractive females I know, can walk into any lounge and get a man to have sex with her. It may take all night to find 'one', but as soon as it is known she aint leaving without a penis to play with...she gets one.

Not Quite that easy, but compared to guys, it sure seems that way. I've actually seen it happen -- call it Murphy's Law or whatever, but there is actually some 'game' involved, albeit relatively simple, and not ANY lounge with the same fluidity, and the fugly woman is going to have a sense of taste herself in terms of gravitation if it's not a game show. Difficult? No. Immensely easy? Will be without too much practice and a few bars learned -- along with a lack of taste in men -- yep.

The most important part/roadblock you'll see, when she has the mindset and she's solidly below average Jane and in a bar that's got decent looking people, is that at first, she's not going for the ugliest/quickest/do-it-now like she's on a game show and points are points. Especially when knowing that compared to guys, pound for pound, it's way way easier.

With that said, I could see a (financially well off) woman who's aged, who's experienced hot guys, pay for sex with one as her emotions to throw herself at good looking younger guys in a clean legit bar would be more degrading than to discreetly pay for a clean, legit escort service. She may not like hanging out in lounges/bars at night, she may be turned off by drunken guys' attitudes... and she may feel that instead of throwing her dignity out the window, going to an upscale escort service is at least keeping it on a leash.

Would there ever be a real market for it? No. With the effort an average Joe puts in to get a little something-something from a gal solidly out of his league, Fugly Fran can get such a guy who's solidly above-league over average Joe. Little work if all she's willing to do is give back-alley BJs, but that's not the same.
 KratosSpawn
Joined: 10/24/2010
Msg: 587
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 9/2/2013 9:14:40 PM
There is no need for women to pay for sex unless.....they have hit an age where very few men find the attractive...and their competition with the younger women complicates things more. Even so, there might be just enough people to allow for payment for sex to be avoidable.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 9/3/2013 9:43:01 AM

unless.....they have hit an age where very few men find the attractive


pfffft! There is absolutely no shortage of men wanting to get it with older women!!

And No.....I would never hire a male prostitute.
No need, all a woman has to do is create a profile here and she'll get lots of offers for free sex! LOL
 whippedboi
Joined: 3/12/2013
Msg: 589
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Posted: 9/3/2013 11:52:49 AM
most women may never NEED to pay for it, but a few might want to, in order to get a hotter guy than she could otherwise. I think actually though it may surprise you, not EVERY guy who goes to a prostitute NEEDS to, but maybe wants to ..

for various reasons.. the psychological thrill of doing something naughty. domination.- she may do things considered degrading for mere money, or to get a younger or hotter woman than he could probably pull in normal (non-paid) situations, or just to get it over with quickly or to get things his wife or girlfriend maybe will not do with or for him..perhaps others I have not thought of
 elmuchoburrito
Joined: 8/27/2013
Msg: 590
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Posted: 9/4/2013 6:21:03 AM
cross cultures, cross languages, and it is all different.
Take a look at Japans 'Ladies Host Clubs' where they essentially pay 1000's a weekend for the 'boyfriend' experience - an evening with a guy that laughs at their prattle, dotes on their every word, shakes the money maker, dances, does karaoke and sends them on their way.

because Japanese men - are done with the traditional venue of how they have 'paid' for it in the past -
an entire generation are shunning women / girls / marriage. - labelled as 'Herbivores'
 whippedboi
Joined: 3/12/2013
Msg: 591
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Posted: 9/5/2013 11:39:09 AM
actually plenty of Western, North American or European women DO pay for sex with men, particularly when they travel to much poorer/Third World countries..often it will only be for the short term, for the week or 2 they are there on holidays, vacation or at their all-inclusive resort in the Caribbean, Mexico, or in South Europe perhaps

they will hook up with a local man, often younger and in a sense 'out of their league' measuring by looks or age, but probably much less well off financially

It will usually be dressed up as a 'friendship' not a strict 'prostitution' thing of exchanging cash for a half-hour or hour of sex

but they will spend time together also in non-sexual activities, dining out, dancing, drinking, and also having sex

she will give him "gifts", maybe -- but not necessarily, including cash

it is more of a "gigolo" situation I guess. but in essence yes the woman is paying for sexual favors & attention from a younger, good looking man -I've seen it happen many times

She probably thinks it is 'not so bad' --what happens out of the (home) country doesn't count-

"what happens in Mexico/Dominican Republic/Cuba/Jamaica, etc."., -- stays there
 tonguewiz
Joined: 2/5/2011
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Posted: 9/5/2013 12:19:35 PM
ROFL!! Funny how the old women with messed up faces don't realize that their glory years are behind them. What's even funnier are the blokes they get to date them.
Just because you have some specific narrow window type of ideal that you expect women to live up to, (probably 80-90 lb range, flat chested and boyish 18-20 only), doesn't mean everyone is like that. I would have jumped on Jersey when I was 15 and when I was 25 and when I am 125 and I am pretty picky. She's still got it (no offense, Jersey).

Of course there are also the less discerning types for whom anything with an orifice is good. No woman can walk 100 yards from her front door without passing at least one man who would no matter disgusting she is.
 SuperSaiyanGoku
Joined: 3/18/2013
Msg: 593
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Posted: 9/5/2013 12:47:54 PM
I would have jumped on Jersey when I was 15 and when I was 25 and when I am 125 and I am pretty picky. She's still got it (no offense, Jersey).


Good for you!! Not all men have standards. One man's trash is another man's treasure and some men can't tell the difference. Do you.
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 594
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Posted: 9/5/2013 6:04:32 PM

Women...would you pay for sex with a man?


That’s hilarious!
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 9/6/2013 1:22:44 AM
The reality is, anyone can get laid for free...man or woman.....but if cash is offered, you're not being paid for the sex....you're being paid to keep your mouth shut and leave when it's over.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 9/8/2013 10:35:30 AM

This is why women can go out without sex for long periods of time without a care in the world...


except the credit card bills from burning out expensive vibrators!

:-)
 SuzieQForForums
Joined: 8/5/2013
Msg: 597
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Posted: 9/8/2013 11:42:01 AM


Women can get sex so easy that there really is no need for them pay and IF a woman does pay then you better believe that guy is gonna tick every box on her checklist.

There really isn't enough sex to go around for a lot of guys, hence that why dolls, porn, prostitutes exist for guys. Women, only want to have sex when the man has met an endless list of her criteria or when she mets a guy and her sexual attraction to that man is incredibly high and that happens with 1 in 1000 interactions women have with men.

So all in all. When it comes to sex - Women control the supply of it - 100%. So why should they pay ? It's like Ronald McDonald paying for a big mac.

Although I believe women enjoy sex as much as men. I don't believe they place as much as importance on it as men. This is why women can go out without sex for long periods of time without a care in the world, whereas men, well it's a lot more tricky.


Sorry to tell ya, but you have a lot to learn.
I want sex with men I am attracted to, and I do not have "an endless list of her criteria"
I find myself attracted to far more men than 1/1000.
I consider sex VERY IMPORTANT.
 fedexmale
Joined: 8/24/2013
Msg: 600
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Posted: 9/9/2013 1:23:25 PM
I would not pay to have sex with a man, they are not my type!

Would I pay for sex with a woman? - sure, I believe in marriage!
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 9/9/2013 5:07:06 PM

Stop straw manning.


how about YOU stop being an insulting SOB first?

men like you are the reason we would rather do without than jump on any available penis and places like Good Vibrations and Babeland do such great business.
 Archiver
Joined: 3/10/2013
Msg: 602
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Posted: 9/10/2013 3:41:51 PM
I'm holding out for an anatomically correct android. ;)
 DoubleParked
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 603
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Posted: 9/10/2013 3:50:39 PM
badboys101 wrote
There really isn't enough sex to go around for a lot of guys, hence that why dolls, porn, prostitutes exist for guys


Kind of off topic---I understand the lure of porn and prostitutes for some guys, but do more than a slight percentage of guys really get off with 'dolls'? Seems so sad and creepy.
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 604
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Posted: 9/10/2013 6:31:38 PM
^^^^^^ Dennis Hopper, “River’s Edge.”

Effed up.
 DoubleParked
Joined: 10/22/2008
Msg: 605
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Posted: 9/10/2013 7:08:46 PM
Would it behoove me to view it and thus know that which I wondered about? (Rivers Edge starring D.Hopper?)
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2013 2:54:56 AM

---I understand the lure of porn and prostitutes for some guys, but do more than a slight percentage of guys really get off with 'dolls'? Seems so sad and creepy

How is that any creepier than a woman getting off with an artificial penis?

Oh, and they do make male dolls for women too...
 Archiver
Joined: 3/10/2013
Msg: 607
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Posted: 9/11/2013 9:09:40 AM

How is that any creepier than a woman getting off with an artificial penis?
Oh, and they do make male dolls for women too...


The newer vibrators and dildos are marvelous (as are Fleshlights for the guys), but the dolls are just creepy vinyl.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 608
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Posted: 9/11/2013 9:36:33 AM

The newer vibrators and dildos are marvelous (as are Fleshlights for the guys), but the dolls are just creepy vinyl.

And I'm sure there's some bad vibrators & dildos out there. Does that make them "creepy"? No. I believe you just find dolls creepy in and of themselves. In a documentary I saw about a guy who makes life-like dolls, modern "dolls" are not vinyl and are very expensive and well crafted. But I'm sure you'd still find them creepy regardless! :)

If someone is using a doll, something to hold onto, etc -- why not? How is that any "worse" than one of those saddle contraptions with a moving/vibrating dildo a woman can get riding one of them? A face and limbs attached?
 whippedboi
Joined: 3/12/2013
Msg: 609
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Posted: 9/11/2013 11:14:34 AM

I don't know the % of men who get with sex dolls but the fact that there are companies that produce sex dolls means that there the demand for sex dolls must be high enough to keep them afloat.

It is sad but some men can't get women and get rejected every time they try.


I bet that more vibrators & dildos & other sex toys are sold to women, than dolls are sold to men

why is that not considered 'sad & creepy' ? nothing women do can be considered so?

BTW many women do 'pay' for sex, maybe not with money but with time, love attention, picking up after a lazy SOB, etc.
 grizzelda
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Posted: 9/11/2013 1:28:58 PM

I bet that more vibrators & dildos & other sex toys are sold to women, than dolls are sold to men

why is that not considered 'sad & creepy' ? nothing women do can be considered so?


Probably because a vibrator or a dildo is not trying to represent a person in a relationship, you dont see a dildo dressed up in a tux with a bad haircut sitting in the front room while a woman discusses her day at work. What is creepy is that these are designed to replace people not be just a simple sex toy. If you cant see the difference between a very specific single use toy vs a custom designed doll that is assigned human traits I cant help you...
 whippedboi
Joined: 3/12/2013
Msg: 611
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Posted: 9/11/2013 3:25:43 PM
^^ guessing it's probably largely because you enjoy using those sex toys so see it as 'normal"- other uses are 'weird' to you

as someone mentioned, what about those big vibrator things that women can "ride" as in cowgirl position?
a dildo /vibe is pretty much a replacement for a d!ck is it not? probably many/most women are visualizing being having sex with/being f@cked by a fave Hollywood or rock star, fantasy person, etc., not moaning: " Oh piece of vinyl/plastic, you make me so hot" ?

"what *I* do is perfectly normal, others are weird.."

as George Carlin used to opine:

on the highway, those who drive slower are stupid, those who drive faster are maniacs, only *I* am perfect, at the perfect right speed ;)

amazing how people often justify THEIR behavior as 'normal' and others' as bad, disgusting etc.

the people who drink a pint of whiskey a day consider it 'normal' & point their fingers at people who drink more (a fifth, etc.) - "alkies!" lol ;)

but judging others is a common human preoccupation
 3ffervescent
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Posted: 9/11/2013 5:25:50 PM
When was the last time that you guys saw a vibrator?

They don't look like very much like a penis.
(yes, they still have the somewhat phallic shape, but that is about as close as they get, they come in a myriad of shapes and colours)

My "Droid" as I lovingly call it, looks more like "C3PO" than a penis.
It is gold and shiny, lights up in rhythm with the vibrations, and has beads that rotate and bee/butterfly hybrid thing...

It doesn't look like a "latex corpse".
My "Droid" looks like a hand held sex toy.


There are lots of men's sex toys that I have no issue with at all--
the ones that seem to look like a "corpse", make me think "ick".
(yeah, I have watched the documentaries)


And no, on topic - I would never pay for sex.

Edited to add:

Batteries yes, sex - no...
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