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 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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meowkatt2012: A sex toy tester wouldn't be bad but writing review would be. Writing essays. Etc is my worst thing.


You could always do YouTube reviews....no writing....all verbal.
 SpittyKitty
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 557
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Posted: 8/18/2012 3:25:36 PM
Naw....I wouldn't want to pay 20 bucks for it.
I feel bad when I have to "pay" for my date in "regular" situations.

Heck! I want them to pay for me! (like a girlfriend NOT a prostitute;so watch it!)
I am just built that way.
I want to get it for free.
 justlookingvt
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 558
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Posted: 8/18/2012 4:01:08 PM
This thread makes me wonder if, on most occasions, women got everything they paid for. LOL

(just in case, I'm not suggesting women should start paying for sex... theoretically, the best things in life are free... of course, that's theoretical)
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 559
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Posted: 8/19/2012 1:22:24 AM
Abelian:
(1) As the saying goes, you're not paying for sex, you're paying for them to leave;
If you go to their house, you can leave whenever you please- no money necessary.

(2) If you're paying, you can have expectations;
Why would I need to pay to have expectations? Either I have them or I don't. I would personally rather take my chances in the free world at not having them met than of paying for some kind of guarantee (which would still be a risk anyway).

He's ``the guy'' that most woman write their profiles to attract, but complain about never meeting.
And if I had to pay for his time and attention, I'd feel like more of a whore than him.

In case it isn't obvious, I'm going to go with a hell no.
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 560
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Posted: 8/19/2012 8:40:28 AM
No, I would not. I have certain moral and ethical standards that prevent me from breaking the law, or associating with those that would. Except for certain parts of Nevada, prostitution is illegal in the United states, and is punishable by law.

If I were that desperate for sex (which I am assuredly not), I would prefer to go to the local singles bar that caters to the forty and up crowd, and pick up a man for the night----rather than engaging in an illegal activity that could get me arrested, along with the male prostitute.
 Indysweetpea2001_
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 561
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Posted: 8/19/2012 8:54:54 AM
Why is there a need to pay for sex when we have POF???? lol
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 562
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Posted: 8/19/2012 11:01:45 AM

I'm just saying it definitely wouldn't be for me. There's a certain ICK factor to it for ME.

Bingo. That's why. It's not about "I don't NEED to do that, I can have sex anywhere", being the common response. It's the "ick" factor. A reason why most guys don't go for female escorts.

But then again, a lot of people out there have an "ick" factor about using an online website to meet someone for dating. It's about image, for better or for worse.
 Love.Notes
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 563
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Posted: 8/19/2012 11:21:02 AM
Pay a man for sex? I don't think there is but one women in here that will pay any man for sex! Ever!
 zachinmo
Joined: 5/31/2012
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Posted: 8/19/2012 11:34:42 AM
I find it funny women say they wouldnt pay for sex when there are so many men that live off women lol think about it if your man doesnt work you pay for his cloths food give him a free place to stay you are paying for sex I have plenty of friends that have been down on their luck and have lowered their standards for a place to stay on get on their feet
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 565
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Posted: 8/19/2012 1:24:25 PM

Bingo. That's why. It's not about "I don't NEED to do that, I can have sex anywhere", being the common response. It's the "ick" factor. A reason why most guys don't go for female escorts.

But then again, a lot of people out there have an "ick" factor about using an online website to meet someone for dating. It's about image, for better or for worse.


There's a definite correlation between image and ego---which I think are both huge factors in self-perception. Even if I lived in an area where prostitution was legal, my ego wouldn't allow me to pay for sex. I want a man who has sex with me because I turn him on---not because I'm paying to do so.
 cautiousluv
Joined: 10/4/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2012 5:08:22 PM

abelian: I think you're kidding yourself. I wouldn't sleep with you now, nevermind old and fat, just because you asked and I'm certainly not the best looking guy in the world. First, I have to find a woman attractive enough to sleep with and I have to like her.


So basically your saying she's not attractive enough to you for you to sleep with? I think your kidding yourself if you don't think she get's offers for sex all the time and probably always has for as long as she can remember. Almost guarantee it.


abelian" Actually, in my case, I've generally had to be willing to date a woman with some sort of relationship intent, because women always seem to want that after sex and even if I could deal with casual sex, I value my own ethics.

So? The only women you have sex with are the women that are open to a relationship because that's what most women want anyway? As I said before, I absolutely think men and women ARE wired differently however, if you really want sex without a relationship there ARE women (besides escorts) that are open to that type of arrangement.

And I guess you are saying for you it's more ethical to sleep with an escort than it is to sleep with a woman who wants a relationship even if you didn't? Or is it more ethical for you to sleep with an escort because they are better looking than your average POF woman? If that's the case I'm not insulting you for that.......we are all different, and have different needs.


abelian: I've turned down trysts I'm sure you can't imagine any guy turning down, so there are guys who will
turn down sex or a free offer from a random person I don't know.

Of course there are men who will turn down sex.....I never said ALL men?? And you said you'd rather pay for it than take a free offer from a random person?? You say that as if you KNOW the escort (you might know her NOW.....but there was a time where you didn't know her either. Only what other people or the escort herself told you about herself. No matter how much of a GFE she gives you......she is/was still a RANDOM hooker.


abelian: The only way the playing field would be level would be for men and women to think the same way about sex. While you and probably most women would like that to mean men adopted thinking similar to yours, that isn't realistic, for several reasons.


Nice try but that is COMPLETELY false. I do NOT wish that men adopted thinking similar to women. I actually think it would be nice if men and women "met in the middle" somewhere.....but only if it was done naturally and that's never going to happen because like I said, I believe men and women ARE wired differently.


abelian: (1) Men don't have to adopt a different way of thinking because sex is readily available and only becoming more available. It's no longer possible to use sex as a means of attracting a quality partner, because today, the most desirable men can always get laid. Men don't have to change their thinking now and that will be even more true in the furure.


That kind of sounds like one of those "threats" men throw out there. If you won't/don't have sex with me.....there are plenty of women that are readily available to "give it to me" (and hooker's and foreign women are included in that mix) and my answer to that is if I'm not interested in having sex with you it's because I don't feel a connection and I don't feel like the two of us have enough in common therefore I could care less how many other women are available for you to have sex with. I say have fun and enjoy all that readily available sex.


albelian: (2) You're holding sex out to be the most valuable thing you have to offer, while simultaneously trying to convince men to want you for more than sex. That's just misguided thinking.

Whoa. I have NO IDEA where THIS is coming from?? I personally don't think sex is the most valuable thing I have to offer? Where in the world would you get a crazy idea like THAT?? Just because perhaps a women doesn't want to have sex with someone until she get's to know him? See? This is a perfect example of how men and women can be wired differently.


abelian: If a woman makes it very clear clear that getting to the point of having sex with her is an ordeal, while getting into a relationship with her is fairly easy, then she's telling me that the most valuable thing she's offering me is sex, in which case, I can easily turn that down.

A woman not having sex with a guy on the first or second or even third date does NOT mean having sex with her is an ordeal?? THAT is just crazy thinking on your part. And just because she's OPEN to a relationship or even knows for sure she WANT'S a relationship....that doesn't mean it's fairly easy for just ANYONE to have a relationship with her? Again. CRAZY thinking on your part.


abelian: The entire attraction to paying for sex over trying to hookup is none of the mind games are involved.


I agree that mind games are the WORSE, however, if you choose wisely you can generally avoid games.


abelian: In one of your previous posts, you mentioned dating a guy who turned out to be too small to satisfy you. Now, that was free sex and it was apparently with someone who wanted more than sex, but it apparently wasn't woth it, so obviously, getting something unknown for free doesn't mean you'll be getting what you want.


You must have missed the post where I said he was actually the first guy to ever make me "squirt"....even before I really even knew what the whole "squirting" thing was about. So THAT stands out in my mind WAYYY before his small penis (all 3 inches of it). So I would say that "unknown" (although I got to know him before we actually had sex) was well worth it. And I knew we were having sex with each other because we were attracted to each other and genuinely liked each others company (we weren't there because either one of us were paying the other)


abelian: Personally, I think it has very little to do with wiring.

See....I completely disagree. I'll take myself as an example. Even thought being in a "relationship" was not my objective I still didn't/don't want to just go out and have random sex with just anyone. I still prefer to have some sort of "relationship" with the guy...even if it's a casual one but it still has to be the kind of relationship where we respect each other.....enjoy each others company....see each other often.....do things together...are there for each other to a degree. It's just not the kind of "relationship" where I'm planning on moving in with him any time soon. And I'm not even saying that women don't have ONS or "hook-ups".....I would be willing to bet that most women have (even if it was an accident like when they just got divorced and went out of town to their little cousins wedding and accidentally slept with the best man) lol BUT I still think that they prefer to have some sort of connection with the guy whereas the guy could care less......maybe I'm wrong, but I doubt it. LOL
 billingsmason
Joined: 2/3/2012
Msg: 567
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Posted: 8/20/2012 5:26:18 PM
^^^^^^^^^^
WOW....
 southdakotian
Joined: 2/1/2012
Msg: 568
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Posted: 8/20/2012 6:22:52 PM
No way would i pay a man for sex. C;mon ladies ! Men think with the wrong head anyway, so that's all they have on their minds! Intimate encounter..lol right!
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 569
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Posted: 8/20/2012 9:36:15 PM
Back:
What do you mean OR when you got fat?

Looks like you're already there.
I'm curious why you felt this nasty comment was necessary?

Jealous that it's so easy for some to get what is plenty difficult for others to get?

A bit ironic when you think about it. Those who can get it easily don't seem to value it as highly as those who constantly pant after it.. I wonder if there's a positive correlation there? Lol..
 justlookingvt
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 570
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Posted: 8/21/2012 12:28:49 AM
^^
One thing is for sure, those who value it would never pay for it. Ironically, paying for it takes all the value it can have away from it.

There are some things whose value comes from the fact they are given.
 bigcalm
Joined: 3/14/2012
Msg: 571
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Posted: 8/21/2012 1:36:44 AM
Sex is her hook, challenge is mines.
 carol164
Joined: 5/17/2012
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Posted: 9/15/2012 8:24:17 PM
I would like to ask those women who say they can have sex easily for free how they do that. I'm 43 and only have sex with one guy in my life, a married man who wanted some extra fun. I was 30 and didn't want to die a virgin, so of course I accepted his offer. Never got laid again. I've been thinking about paying a manwhore, as I want to have at least another "experience" (in fact I would like to have many experiences as I'm ALWAYS horny, LOL) but in my country some of them are also kidnappers and I'm afraid to get into trouble (and worse of all, my family be aware of it!). So I would appreciate if some of you successful girls would get me some tips on how to convice a man into having sex with me - I have quite a beautiful face (foreigners say I'm exotic) but my body isn't perfect, unfortunately. Thanks.
 Full_of_Grace67
Joined: 11/15/2011
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Posted: 9/16/2012 7:55:43 AM
Women who say they can get laid anytime they like, answer me this: what kind of men are they and is the sex really that good? ie married, ugly? Can some of you attract really hot men with whom you would have incredibly mind blowing sex? Because those are the only men I want to have sex with if I am not in a relationship....If not, I'd rather go without

Sex for the sake of sex sure, but if the guy doesn't arouse you then what's the point??



I don't think there is but one women in here that will pay any man for sex! Ever!

WRONG!
If I had the money to f*ck any of the guys from the movie "Magic Mike" you can bet your sweet ass I would and would brag about it too, lol
 tangerine2000
Joined: 9/8/2012
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Posted: 9/19/2012 2:41:51 AM
1. No way
2. It is just not me .. but perhaps girls that enjoy being the master might consider this...
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 575
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Posted: 9/19/2012 10:54:39 AM
Maybe if it was Ian Somerhalder or Julian McMahon, but no.
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 9/19/2012 12:29:20 PM

Because those are the only men I want to have sex with if I am not in a relationship....If not, I'd rather go without

This is one of the things most men fail to understand...
Most men will take bad sex over no sex...
Most women will choose no sex over bad sex...
 jay3are
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 577
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Posted: 4/24/2013 3:36:11 AM
who would pay for me aha
 jay3are
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 578
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Posted: 4/24/2013 3:43:18 AM
who here would have sex wiith me ?
 Itsabigbadworldbaby
Joined: 4/18/2013
Msg: 579
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Posted: 4/24/2013 10:21:44 AM
In a word, no. That is prostitution basically. It's against my religion.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 4/24/2013 6:14:33 PM
Noo, I am a full true blooded woman , I don't pay a man to have sex with me,he pay me to have sex with me,whether the deal is being a legal wife/common law wife/ prostitute/ whore....
How can I shop at Walmart to buy "Summers Eve" if I don't get paid ?
I can't let it stink and smell like a dead fish can I ????


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