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 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 673
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volcanoking,
Why not take a leaf out of Trustinkarma's book? She puts sexy pics on her profile and she gets plenty of younger ones after her and she has kids at home and works a lot. Not afraid to see men half her age for fun.

You would not really want to pay for sex, knowing that the guy is only there because he is being paid and nothing more. It is fun to fantasise about but that is about all. So keep your money and treat yourself to something to cheer you up.
 Perspektiv
Joined: 1/22/2015
Msg: 674
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/27/2015 4:00:00 PM
I think a woman paying for sex from a male, is the desperation equivalent of a broke male robbing a bank.

On a level, where even drug addicts would look at you with disgust in their faces.
 nocrapzone
Joined: 1/10/2015
Msg: 675
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/27/2015 4:02:07 PM
^^

so, you do not consider it at least a little pathetic when a man pays for sex from a woman,.

as I believe happens thousands of times per day..?

a broke male robbing a bank makes more sense than a wealthy one doing so?
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 676
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/27/2015 4:56:11 PM

so, you do not consider it at least a little pathetic when a man pays for sex from a woman,.

It is at least a little pathetic almost all the time, BUT it is comparing apples & oranges when it comes to men & women -- it's not an equal situation, by itself.

Why is it so pathetic if a woman pays a man for sex, from a guy's point of view? Because guys are thinking "Geez... if you just put 1/20th the effort WE have to put in to have sex with someone, you'd be having sex. There's no need to pay for a male hooker!"

If us guys magically appeared in bizzaro-world, an alternate universe, where the dating/mating roles were reversed, the last thing we'd be doing is ordering a hooker. It'd be like Disney World for a while. So yeah, we'd turn around and see a guy trying to look up the Very Few female hookers in existence (because of switch in landscape) as folks who are, well, kinda pathetic. "Don't you see how easy this is now?! Screw, the concept of 72 virgins! This is WAY better! This is Heaven!" ;)
 ginghamgal
Joined: 1/14/2015
Msg: 678
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/28/2015 6:27:43 PM

Maybe not every man that I liked would be interested in me. But if I just wanted sex, I'm sure I can find some attractive men that would agree to it.


Agreed.
 BLonde^j^AngeL
Joined: 1/2/2015
Msg: 679
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/29/2015 6:54:29 PM
If something happened to my S.O., yes--A younger hot 6 pack ab guy who better do me the way I like.

After seeing all the whining on the forums by The Walking (wanting) Head, I figure what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
 mike11091
Joined: 8/25/2013
Msg: 680
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/29/2015 7:30:37 PM

Women are far different from men and most(not all) would need an emotional connection with the man they are having relations with.


Myth.


I've personally met more non-committal women than I have men.

Women have the same urges that men do. The difference is that women mature faster than men (generally) and they justify their actions differently than men, but it all boils down to fancy excuses for the same thing: it's an urge. I just think women are better at suppressing it.

OT:
I'm actually pretty surprised that this thread leaned the way that it did. I'm not happy to admit it, but I've been paid for sex in the past. I've had offers from older women for financial compensation in exchange for companionship as well, though, I'm pretty sure "companionship" meant sex.

I'm not a terribly emotional person, but I've found that my own emotions tend to get in the way of potentially great sexual relationships. I've heard more often than I can count on my fingers that I have become too attached. That's surprising, to me, because most of LTR's have ended due to my emotional unavailability.

So...color me shocked.
 toxictears1979
Joined: 1/24/2015
Msg: 681
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/29/2015 9:28:23 PM
No cause I was never ask to pay and I sure wouldn't lol:modhammer:
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 682
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/31/2015 1:31:57 PM

Women are far different from men and most(not all) would need an emotional connection with the man they are having relations with.

I also agree that it's an inaccurate, overblown statement that enters the realm of 'myth'. In reality, life isn't so Mars/Venus. It's more like Big City / Suburbs. Much closer than one would think. But due to society's pressures & expectations, more people role-play as if that's them, when it's not so much.

If that were the case, there's be little if any one-night stands in existence... and little if any 1st-or-2nd-date bangs. I would instead say that for women, at least a feeling of comfort & some level of trust is had, while others may extend it further out into an emotional connection, and much fewer others extend it out to a Relationship forming.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 683
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/31/2015 2:17:19 PM
Men paying for sex with a woman is very different to a woman paying a man. Men see it as a release, often prefer it to getting emotionally involved, just want to get their rocks off or cant find an attractive enough woman in real life who wants it without a whole song and dance going on. At least with a prossie, they are guaranteed of some action for their money.

Very few women are so repulsive they cant get some guy to accommodate them. We are very different in being male and female. I have seen a programme from Europe where middle aged women are sought after and paid for sex acts for instance.
 mike11091
Joined: 8/25/2013
Msg: 684
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 1/31/2015 2:42:42 PM

Very few women are so repulsive they cant get some guy to accommodate them. We are very different in being male and female. I have seen a programme from Europe where middle aged women are sought after and paid for sex acts for instance.


That's, of course, assuming only repulsive men pay for sex.
 geekgrrrl
Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 685
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Posted: 1/31/2015 5:25:08 PM
Never have, never will! lol
 _Iconoclast_
Joined: 12/3/2010
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Posted: 2/2/2015 10:49:14 AM
Oh trust me I've paid dearly. Just not with money.

That thought is slightly ridiculous.
I've got a big social circle, most musicians do.
We just all paw at each other. No one goes unloved.
 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 687
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Posted: 5/8/2015 6:49:46 AM
why do that when they will pay me, doesn't make sense ;p
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 5/8/2015 8:58:21 AM

Women...would you pay for sex with a man?

eeww

why do that when they will pay me, doesn't make sense ;p

eeww
 bobbertsmithert1
Joined: 5/3/2015
Msg: 689
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 5/8/2015 10:11:10 AM
Why would they pay you? Are guys really that dumb?
 Aprilikeswhiteroses
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 690
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 5/8/2015 1:22:50 PM
This is a silly question, Since the beginning of era, many men pay for sex and older women 65+ with money and single also do it.
I don't think women younger than 65 do that.
 Eternityboreme
Joined: 3/18/2015
Msg: 691
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Posted: 5/8/2015 3:22:10 PM
There are low-hanging fruit who'll **** you for free and won't expect a $2 cup of coffee.
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 692
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Posted: 5/8/2015 6:58:37 PM
Oh the "low hanging fruit" jibber jabber again. Hehe.

A problem with lots of the self-proclaimed high-hanging fruit is that they don't realize that they're going for the low-hanging fruit themselves. The kinds of things that they require for someone to obtain them as so-called high-hanging fruit mean that they'll only take the low-hanging fruit themselves, because on their end it's the lazy and easy way out - they require work and gestures from the other person, but don't put out any of this effort themselves. They've convinced themselves that for them to do very much is to make themselves low-hanging fruit, which of course it doesn't, in order to feel ok with doing things in this weird unbalanced manner.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 5/9/2015 2:17:46 AM
I think that some "cougars" do actually pay for sex with the younger guy, one way or the other. Not only repulsive men pay for sex, it can be any average joe who just wants to get his rocks off, may not be getting it at home or prefers to hand over money and have no emotional input. But as far as a woman actually paying a male escort or prostitute for sex, it would rarely happen.
 Aprilikeswhiteroses
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 694
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 5/9/2015 10:55:48 AM

I think that some "cougars" do actually pay for sex with the younger guy


ahh yes, I forgot about these type of women, and they are from age 40 +
I have read that These women pay for almost EVERYTHING starting from the first meet.
Yeah, that's paying for sex.
IMO, these kind of women are teaching this young men to be a PARASITE in life....Not good.!!



There are low-hanging fruit


LOL @ that expression.!!
I think that the Fruit Trees are going to get mad at you by making comparisons with their fruits that are in the lowest branches, because they think that not because their lower fruits are easy to reach, are of lower quality than the fruits that are found in their highest branches...:-)
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 5/9/2015 3:07:33 PM
I've had to pay the mortgage while someone" found themselves", so guess I already have.

It really dulls the sexual appetite though.
 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 696
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Posted: 5/10/2015 5:16:19 AM

why do that when they will pay me, doesn't make sense ;p

eeww


Wat, it's true. Doesn't mean I'd do it though
 drinkthesunwithmyface
Joined: 3/27/2012
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Posted: 5/10/2015 10:39:26 AM
^ I don't know if you in particular are like this...but my reaction is really to this - sometimes there are those imbalances between the genders in certain respects. These disparities between what each gender can do or get away with are mostly behavioral-prerogative; I mean that people simply choose to be one way or the other, but there isn't any law of the universe which makes them be one way or the other. What I pay attention to is whether or not a woman (or man if I were a woman) caters to these disparities and takes advantage of them, being a certain way simply because she can, because she can get away with it due to the current pendulum-swing of the social norm, instead of trying to live a way for different reasons which aren't treating the relations between the genders as a matter of power or as power-plays. When a woman makes certain statements similar to this...it often strikes me as her reveling in the fact, romanticizing it, proud of it. Even if a woman believes that she doesn't try to be like this, the very act of owning up to these facts a certain way, stating that she can do such-and-such if she wanted to because she's a woman, indicates that her thinking could still be subconsciously tweeked in this way and affects how she goes about things in real world practice. And I try to stay away from those women, as well as not befriend fellow males who're like this.
 Siennarh
Joined: 5/1/2015
Msg: 698
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Posted: 5/17/2015 6:17:40 AM
The thing is with being payed for sex/sexual stuff, it's complicated because well, in both ways either of them has the power there. It just depends. He may pay her, so it would seem like she has the power in that aspect, BUT, at the same time she would have to 'work' for the money, so in that aspect he has the power.

That's the issue with it. Like for example I could go into it thinking *hehe this is great, doing something like this and getting paid!* but only to find out I'd get treated like a sex toy of sorts and a disposable one at that. So it's basically like, you get what you pay for and you pay for what you get and the one working for it, is basically just offering services and seen like a product.

I'm aware of the power plays. They can be both good and bad for both genders. Just depends on your experiences and beliefs.

I've considered it honestly, I've had people offer me a lot on here and elsewhere but I don't appeal to the idea of being someones entertainment/or toy. I kind of had a taste in what it would be like before. When I was younger, I went into this webcam site, just a chat site but still. There was like 70 men and 1 woman - which was me lol. Basically all of them trying to get me to take my clothes off and do stupid sh_t to entertain them. God no. What would seem like situations in which women are playing their power turns out quite differently in reality.

The only time I may consider doing it is if I could do exactly what I want and/or being a dom.
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