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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Now... I will auction myself off to the highest FEMALE bidder.. let's start at.. ohhhh..$1.00?


I am a bidder and I touch my nose bidding for a penny,it is not that I want to have sex with you for my hard earned penny ,but your sweet innocent look is so adorable...
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 365
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Posted: 1/17/2011 5:24:54 PM

I am curious as to how many women pay for escorts... I think the attraction would be to show up at a public event with Mr Hot Guy more so then wanting sex from him.


A fer real escort?!!! Lol. I read years ago that when a woman enters a room, all eyes are upon her- when a man enters, all eyes are on the woman on his arm, and use her to evaluate him.
Sooooo, that conventional wisdom works in reverse as well?
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 1/17/2011 7:08:28 PM
dont hurt me Vannili..or leave marks..k..
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 368
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Posted: 1/18/2011 8:26:49 AM

Hmmmm, so a guy, good lookin' AND good in bed, might be worth somethin'? Find a need a fill it, said one famous US entrepreneur. Maybe give away a free sample, just one, then start putting a price on the service. I bet that's how that ole DeerDog did it, although I've seen his profile, and I gotta figure he's long on talent.



Yeah, he's worth somethin'...but not MONEY. Maybe, perhaps, dating? LOL A relationship? :) An FWB even?


Whyt and Kaley ..my friends ...memories of days gone by ... I think I am worth much more now than the days gone by ..I have learned much ..mainly by doing everything wrong..my life has been chock full of misdeeds and good fortune as well as mis-fortune .. ..the only thing missing is regrets ..I regret nothing .. every road I have traveled has brought me to where I am today... a person who can say ..I like me ..I don't like everything I have done ..but I like what it has made me ..I enjoy reminiscing of days gone by ..always hoping that someone can gain perspective from my past and avoid the pain of making mistakes themselves ..No that's not going to happen ..well maybe

I have always heard that there are 3 kind of people in this world
1 the people that can learn from reading books
2 the people that can learn from others teaching them
3 the people that have to pee on the electric fence for themselves


I was always in the last category..I always had to do everything the hard way ..In school I was voted the most likely to do time ...well by the grace of whatever higher powers might be either they were wrong or I was lucky ..or in the words of Forrest Gump "maybe it could both at the same time "

I never said I was ever worth being paid for sex or any thing at any time in my life ..looking back I really don't know what the many people who have given or invested in me ,saw in me ..most times I let them down ..most times I took and never repaid ..If they knew me now ..If I could still repay or even say thank you .. old men spend a lot of time thinking about the word ...IF
 damassteel
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Posted: 1/18/2011 12:28:54 PM
Half of the plot to the movie "Midnight Cowboy" was based on the premise that there are women out there who'll pay for it.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 1/18/2011 2:24:34 PM

Will he cook dinner for me, wash the dishes, sweep the floor, take out the trash, and walk the dogs?

I'm sure one would if you pay the hourly rate for an outcall. You might even be able to get a multi-hour discount.

What about leave, never come back or call?

You've apparently never heard the saying that you don't pay escorts for sex. You pay them to leave afterward.

Here, try this one:

http://www.papau.net/main/agent.asp?id=71&page=1
or
http://www.papau.net/main/agent.asp?id=25&page=1

I'm sure you can ask discreetly about the sausage.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 1/19/2011 7:49:34 AM

Cough up a tip and you can have a gay man hyped up on viagra and goodness knows what else - all for a measly $1000. Oh goodie


Haven't checked out those sites, but I gotta think that somewhere in that herd of gay drug-enhanced studs who service women's appetites lurk a few closet hetero aberrations who actually enjoy their work. There is much to be said for delivering someone's fondest wish, or dreamy sex (although some of the "dreams" expressed in this thread by ladies are more aggressive than dreamy erotic, imo, lol).
A former lady friend on mine used to comment, occasionally, when the subject of porn came up, that "they" were all gay. Seems like we let our own suspicious natures ruin our good times, even our dreams.
 dondea
Joined: 12/10/2007
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Posted: 1/19/2011 1:30:11 PM
Sweetnessinflorida: No. If i ever get that desperate, i would rather be shot.
Who would have to do a thing like that besides 50 or 60 year old divorcees that are realllly ugly and dont bathe?

Maybe you wouldn't, but there are professional, divorced clean and sexy ladies who are in their 50s and 60s who do go on vacations in places like Mexico and the Carribean who pay for "boy toys." To say that women who won't pay for sex unless they are ugly and don't bathe is so typical of someone who has not seen it first-hand or heard of it from friends.

Places like club resorts around the world such as Club Med and Hedonism is where free sex and pay sex happens all the time for both men and women. Myself I have never been there, but my some of my lady friends and relatives (who are in their 40s and 50s and who I consider are beautiful and do bathe) have been. They have told me of the offers and solicitations by younger "boy toys" and older/middle-aged gigalos. Of course, I never asked if they paid for it or not, but logically if paid sex is being solicited there, it's being bought and paid for by women.

 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 1/19/2011 2:34:06 PM

Who would have to do a thing like that besides 50 or 60 year old divorcees that are realllly ugly and dont bathe?

Women who see virtue in being pampered by a guy who will leave and return only when asked and can afford to pay for it. Women pay for massages. The only difference is a massage doesn't cover quite as many square inches of landscape.
 Music13
Joined: 3/19/2007
Msg: 381
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Posted: 1/19/2011 5:04:34 PM
Kitten

Thats ridiculous.....ANY female can get ANY man ??? its more like... No matter who r whatever the reasonyou are. everybody has different tastes. Even the most beautiful women in the world complain all the time they can get tons of guys but for whatever reason, not the ones they really want. my friends might point out someone they think is hot and ill think, are they blind?? so your absolutely wrong here. quite the ego you have there too by the way. :)
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 382
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Posted: 1/20/2011 1:17:01 PM

...ANY female can get ANY man


well I contend that any guy can get a woman ..and in my age category women willing to have sex ..are a dime a dozen also .. cant tell you how many times I have been hit on of late but that always seems to be the case when one is living a monogamous life ....only guys who cant get laid are social introverts or either guys who are shooting themselves in the foot by trying too hard ...
however there well could be other considerations as to whether a man or woman would choose just to pay for sex ..among them being a sourness for commitment..or just not wanting complications of the meeting process .. I have never felt this way but have heard it expressed from both men and women
 rearguard*2
Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 1/20/2011 5:00:28 PM
The core of any larger city is the place to observer older wealthy women with their boy toys. Why? They can order up whatever appeals to them, rather than dealing with the cranky old farts their own age who, apparently, can't get it up or keep it up.

Its the same for men who hire women.

Lots of people just want to get laid without the agony of emotional involvement. Just read the laments of the people on the forums to see the level of emotional, moral and prejudicial expression that can be completely sidestepped for a few bucks...

In any event, you always pay for sex. Its just the mode of payment that is different when you are dating....
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 386
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Posted: 1/20/2011 7:05:01 PM
They cant just get a real boyfriend or husband, or at least a FWB, or even pull a one night stand if they are that horny?

An escort is there to cater to you at your convenience. Which of the above would do things like draw your bath, give you a massage, make your sexual experience all about you, listen to you complain about guys and sympathize with you, and pretty much just pamper you without complaining, then go away? You don't hire an escort if what you want is a bf, husband, fwb or one-night stand.

How can they get turned on knowing the man is only there for $$ rather than being ther beecause he wants and desires her?

Well, he's there for the money for sure. But, that doesn't mean an escort won't find a client desirable and enjoy the tryst as much as any one-night stand goes. My best friend is an escort (female) and she does enjoy seeing some of her clients. To be sure, it's the ones who are at least reasonably attractive, personable and gentlemanly, but nevertheless not every client is a ``let's get it over with'' experience. The pay4play world is not as black and white as it is portrayed on TV shows. If you're reasonably attractive, a male escort is not going to let the fact that you're paying for his time stop him from getting turned on and having a good time with you. It's sex and pampering, not a marriage proposal, so if you have enough disposable income to spoil yourself occassionally when you aren't involved with anyone, why not? I've seen plenty of threads from women who are spending a lot more money every month on a deadbeat boyfriend who won't do anything but watch TV. Which is worse?


Whyt, check out the men on those sites and then give me a lecture on how straight they are.

I'd say a lot of male escorts are either gay or bi. I don't think there enough women willing to hire escorts to provide a good income through straight sex alone.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 1/21/2011 5:01:27 AM
Much like some men who use prostitutes


Who uses whom in a sex for hire event?


I'd say a lot of male escorts are either gay or bi. I don't think there enough women willing to hire escorts to provide a good income through straight sex alone.


I'd say that it's just as plausible to posit a heterosexual escort who fills his/her professional time gaps with same-sex sex, but I'm one of those who believes that committing an occasional "homosexual act" does not define sexual identity; after all-

Well, he's there for the money for sure.


Exactly. When money is the escort's motivation, his/her sexual identity has little to do with his assignations.


But, that doesn't mean an escort won't find a client desirable and enjoy the tryst as much as any one-night stand goes.


Pretty much what I was saying in a previous post. Why presuppose, especially on the basis of some website pics alone, that only "gays" are willing to violate their own sexual preferences where money is in the offing? By the same reasoning, to conclude that an escort who does both genders as a professional is bisexual is based more, I think, one the facile but speculative belief that homosexuals/bis are obviously willing to fvck anything, even other species, with or without pecuniary reward.
Hey, who among us only does what he most loves at his "job"?

I occasionally regret that I didn't get a forestry degree to be a ranger (you get to wear that authoritative shirt, with epaulets, the matching hat, and a free 4-wheel vehicle, lol), but I've also thought sometimes that I shoulda tried the porn industry. No cool outfits in that career, but, I've heard they structure their compensation in a way to avoid paying income taxes, probably much like "escorts". Seems they usually bust the more famous madames for tax evasion.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 388
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Posted: 1/21/2011 5:37:49 AM

I occasionally regret that I didn't get a forestry degree to be a ranger (you get to wear that authoritative shirt, with epaulets, the matching hat, and a free 4-wheel vehicle, lol), but I've also thought sometimes that I shoulda tried the porn industry. No cool outfits in that career, but, I've heard they structure their compensation in a way to avoid paying income taxes, probably much like "escorts". Seems they usually bust the more famous madames for tax evasion.

You mean to tell me that if you were a forest ranger and sidelined as an escort, I would have paid you to come with NO large hat, not pretend badge and no khaki colored boxers? Damn!!! My fantasy has now been altered to simple nakedness ~ shame on you!! I thought you'd show up looking like Dudley Do-Right. I would pay for that.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 1/21/2011 6:36:07 AM

I'd say that it's just as plausible to posit a heterosexual escort who fills his/her professional time gaps with same-sex sex, but I'm one of those who believes that committing an occasional "homosexual act" does not define sexual identity; after all-

Unlike female escorts, I think there aren't a lot of males who are willing to be gay for pay or at least not for a couple hundred an hour.

I occasionally regret that I didn't get a forestry degree to be a ranger (you get to wear that authoritative shirt, with epaulets, the matching hat, and a free 4-wheel vehicle, lol),

And -- you could have joined the Village People!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 390
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Posted: 1/21/2011 8:05:37 AM
You mean to tell me that if you were a forest ranger and sidelined as an escort, I would have paid you to come with NO large hat, not pretend badge and no khaki colored boxers? Damn!!! My fantasy has now been altered to simple nakedness ~ shame on you!! I thought you'd show up looking like Dudley Do-Right. I would pay for that.


Lol. Well, faint heart never won fair maiden, so sure, for the aggregate of benefits coyly but saucily suggested, I'd be your Dudley (though I'd be loathe to travel in that get-up, lol). But, I'd even accept your "work" on a contingent fee basis! Lol



And -- you could have joined the Village People!


Was just hoping for cachet, not, like, fame, or celebrity status. , and certainly not with that dubious group. Always thought one would need that roped soap, noosed securely around the neck, in the showers with those overly gesticulating boys. (lol, yeah, my own frail prejudices, based solely on visuals, at work here).
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
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Posted: 1/21/2011 4:20:12 PM
Im sure some women pay for it...if there are male escorts it is because thier is a market for it. (lots of the male escorts are there for men tho-men are the primary customers for these agencies)

Id never consider it...time between partners doesnt mean no orgasms...lol...Im very good at helping myself.
 arwen52
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Posted: 1/21/2011 7:22:39 PM
I can get it for free whenever I want. It is *not* difficult for a woman to get laid, even at my age, and the guys available really aren't that bad. They may not be *great* but a lot of them aren't that bad, either. So I don't see the point.

One of my young male friends was out and while his date was in the bathroom, he was solicited by a prostitute. He was offended. "Do I look like a guy who has to pay for sex?" he protested. I would ask the same thing.

As for the poster who questioned if a woman would get turned on by a guy who was there only for the money, not because he desired her - if he were really skilled at what he was doing, of course a woman can get turned on.
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 1/22/2011 9:14:35 AM

I couldn't get turned on by that either. Just knowing the only reason he was there was because of money would sicken me.


Ok, I'll do it for free
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 1/23/2011 8:19:37 AM
I think it's fabulous that some women here know they would never be able to do this knowing a man is only there for the money, but since this is a big world with lots of different types of people, they need to acknowledge that there ARE women who don't care about this, and it doesn't make them desperate, or in need of anything - just of a different mindset. Projecting can be a bad habit - and thinking something is wrong with those who don't do things like you are is a bit egotistical (and I've done this myself at times, so I'm no exception).
 EmailTomNow
Joined: 1/18/2011
Msg: 400
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Posted: 1/23/2011 9:42:37 AM
back in the 70's it was not unusual for women to ask me out for a dinner and sex. they knew i had no problem with that and word got around. almost always they were unattractive or fat but for a short time i enjoyed the experiences that occured.
 WomanInProgress
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Posted: 1/23/2011 10:28:00 AM
^^^^Nope, not in the first sentence I didn't. The next two or three, I must have. However, I was really addressing about 12 other posts, so I wasn't singling you out - if I was, believe me, I'd have quoted or addressed you directly. I also included myself in the post, so no one would think I was on a high horse. Did you miss that?
 arwen52
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Posted: 1/23/2011 3:40:25 PM


As for the poster who questioned if a woman would get turned on by a guy who was there only for the money, not because he desired her - if he were really skilled at what he was doing, of course a woman can get turned on.

I could not. There would be too big of a mental block, to know he is only diddling your coochie because you paid him too, and for all you know he is thinking how he cant wait to be done with his "job" and take a scalding hot shower


If he were really good at what he did, you'd never have a clue that he was thinking about getting it over with and taking a shower. Part of what makes people good at what they do is that they are into it and they are into being good at it.

I've never paid anyone and can't imagine I would. However, I *have* messed around with guys I barely knew. If they are good, I can get very, very turned on and pretty darned quickly. I'm not saying anyone else *should* but just that it's quite possible if you are able to relax and be in the moment.


Ok, I'll do it for free


See what I mean? It's easy to get if for free.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 1/23/2011 10:06:48 PM

They're not completely averse to doing it, might even be tempted, and money seals the deal.


Pretty much how I ended up married, but she was the tempted one, and money def'ly sealed the deal. lol
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