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Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 3
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Ladies... Some advice, if you would.Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
make another date right there! ask if they would be interested, if so, go ahead and make plans for a few days from then, or the next weekend, whatever.

if someone is interested, there's no use in playing any games!
Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 5
Ladies... Some advice, if you would.
Posted: 5/27/2006 8:26:32 PM
Sometimes dating is like sales...

So, you've made the initial meeting and you have decided you would like to meet again. Ask. Right then. If she says yes, then set a tentative date and time and make a plan of what you might like to do! Close the deal! You'll both know that you are serious about a second date that way. Plan to confirm the date by phone or IM or e-mail. If either gets cold feet or if schedules truly do change so as not to allow a meeting, contact can still be made and plans either reset or not, depending on the circumstances.

Just like in sales, you have to ASK for what you want (and this goes for ladies, too!).

As for non-verbal communication, not all handshakes are cold, especially if you clasp the outside of her hand with your other hand to convey warmth and gentleness while looking into her eyes telling her that you really enjoyed your time together (in whatever words you wish to use for that purpose).

Good luck!
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 6
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Ladies... Some advice, if you would.
Posted: 5/28/2006 8:08:37 AM
erm, if it went well you shouldnt need to ask this....?
Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 10
Ladies... Some advice, if you would.
Posted: 6/20/2006 2:32:29 PM
Congrats, Wonkabar!! Thank you for letting us know! May you have continued success!
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