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 stoneside
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 3
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I agree with "Who Me".
 Esperanza143
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 4
When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/2/2006 4:54:07 PM
When the decision to become mutually exclusive in the relationship....time to say it has been nice...be honest...you may want him back at another date
 BrownEyedLeo
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 6
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When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/2/2006 10:55:53 PM
A Fk Buddy is a person one uses to meet a need. As long as both parties are aware the once a week meeting is solely for the purpose of meeting that need, there should be no reason to change that until your needs are being met elsewhere. It's okay to use someone to meet a need, as long as both parties are in complete agreement about it.
 ManitobaGrrl
Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 8
When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/15/2006 2:48:58 PM
when he kisses and tells
 Spanish Joe
Joined: 6/5/2006
Msg: 9
When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/15/2006 5:01:50 PM
I think you should dump the f**k buddy before you start seeing anyone.
Otherwise, you have no need nor desire to make the new relationship work.

Imagine the concept of you meeting the perfect person, and down the road, he or she finds out you were doing the FWB thing with someone else.
Afterall, your FWB may also be giving you sloppy seconds from the other people they're FWB'ing...
Imagine if that perfect person catches something the FWB person gave you. Remember, condoms don't protect against all STD's...
Getting tested isn't a valid concept if your're with a FWB as some of the tests (HIV) can take 3-12 months for a trust worthy result.
 POF_JERK_KING
Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 10
When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/15/2006 5:06:05 PM

At what point do you break it off with the once a week F buddy because you are dating someone else.


The best answer is a short and sweet one.

Never.
 sweetlifenow1
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 11
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When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/18/2006 10:17:15 PM
What's to break off?? You both already agreed that this was a non-commital enjoyment right from the begining right?? If not you were not FB's. Both parties know that when things change they change. FB's are someone to fill the time with. You don't go out on dates, you don't go to the movies or have dinner together, you just F__k. If you have more than that then your not FB's. Don't get me wrong you do have some things in common or at least should have some sort of conversation, then it's down to business. How did we as society forget the terminology of FB meant!! When you start putting expectations and hope to it, move on he/she is no longer a FB but a boyfriend or girlfriend in the hoping.
 Kirklet
Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 12
When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/18/2006 10:26:06 PM
I tend to be all about one person and not into the F buddy thing anyway...so my answer would be to never start the F buddy...hence no decision to make.
 jasperjohn
Joined: 2/21/2006
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When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 6/19/2006 12:41:52 AM
If you're dating someone new, forget the f**k buddy! Drop them immediately
 winteragain
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 14
When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 8/23/2009 9:57:13 PM
hmm when to break it off.. how about never. even when you're married with another chick you need that backup or else you'll go crazay plus you need a constant supply of Other Woman's STD's what're you gonna do when you don't get your weekly dose of gohorrhea/syphilis? come on be real man
 2HEDZ
Joined: 3/16/2005
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When to break off the F buddy
Posted: 8/23/2009 10:36:48 PM

I've recently met a woman that I get along with good. It's early still, this weekend will be our 3rd date. At what point do you break it off with the once a week F buddy because you are dating someone else.


break it off? bro when you have a once a week F buddy you keep her and the other woman you're dating can be delegated to six other days of the week. what are you an amateur?
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