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Joined: 11/18/2005
Msg: 101
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Advance fee fraud, often also known as the Nigerian money transfer fraud, Nigerian scam or 419 scam after the relevant section of the Nigerian Criminal Code that it violates, is a fraudulent scheme to extract money from victims after making them believe they will get an immense fortune. Victims are requested to pay an upfront fee before their purported fortune is released. Advance fee fraud is a subtype of the confidence game commonly referred to as "The Spanish Prisoner." All con games of this type involve the mark making an upfront payment in order to secure the promise of a reward that is somehow tied up.

These scams have come to be associated in the public mind with Nigeria due to the massive proliferation of such confidence tricks from that country since the mid-eighties, although they are often also carried out in other African nations, including Togo, Côte d'Ivoire, Ghana, Benin, Liberia, Sierra Leone and South Africa, and increasingly from European cities with large West African populations, notably London, Amsterdam and Madrid, and lately also Dubai (United Arab Emirates) and Canada.

Originally, the schemers contacted mainly heads of companies and church officials. However, the use of e-mail spam and instant messaging for the initial contacts has led to many private citizens also being targeted, as the cost to the scammers to make initial contact is much lower.

Another recent variation of the scheme involves the use of fake cashier's checks to pay for high-value items in Internet auctions. The scammer sends a check for more than the purchase price asking that part of the money be forwarded to a 'shipper' or 'freight forwarder' after the funds have cleared. This will usually happen quickly as banking practice assumes that banks are liquid at all times and that there is no credit risk. The vendor will only discover that the check was fraudulent and the transaction has been voided a few days later, by which time the intermediary will in most cases have been paid.
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 102
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Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/18/2006 10:23:21 PM
No mention of the obvious from me, you don't need to hear it again...
I'm with Chicago, I start messin with them. I especially love the one about how they went to Nigeria for work, their contract ended, they were going to fly out the next day and they got robbed and beaten up in their hotel room, now their ticket, money and everything else is gone, they are getting kicked out of their hotel room, so on and so on. I get that one at least once a week, and oh yea, whoever get's IM's from the African Prince, he's mine dammit, he messaged me first, said he was gonna make me his Princess... Please these stories are so phony and stupid, I just love fuqqin with them... Comeon, if everything is gone, how the hell are they getting online and talking to me??? Puh lease...
Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 103
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 5:50:44 AM
For any of you who still aren't buying this........ go online and check out Nigerian Schemes and Article 419. There is a world of knowledge at your fingertips. If something doesn't seem right - check it out.

The reason these guys are from those countries is because the U.S. has no recourse to prosecute them. Straight from the lips of an FBI Investigator.

RUN>>>>>>>>>>>>>> !!!!
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 104
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:16:47 AM
I don't know but my situation left me confused and hurt.

I met a guy and he wanted to see me exclusively and took his profile off. We were just together a little while when he asked to borrow money(4000.), and then when I couldn't he wanted me to ask my aging father. He also wanted to borrow some of my son's things (21 yr old son).

He didn't introduce me to people and he made me feel old, ugly and used. On top of everything he kept something that belonged to my mother that I accidentally left in his car. (my mother died recently)

I am a good person and didnt deserve this. And I told him to hit the road. But he wouldnt leave til the morning.

However, I do feel uncomfortable dating and I see him online here and wonder if he was just in a bad situation or if he really wanted to take what he could get from me.

I am not a perfect 10 but I am not a 0 either. I am a single mother who works hard and doesnt get child support for my son's who attend university. I dont have anything to give except love, friendship or a listening ear.

I yi yi.
Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 105
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:20:32 AM
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 106
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:34:17 AM
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 107
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 8:00:14 AM
Dont fall for his line of Crap, delete him.
He's a liar, and a scum bag ,sounds like a guy that would steal his Grannys last nickle.
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 108
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 10:17:33 AM
what I can't believe is that you'd HAVE TO ASK! Is this a serious thread, or somebody just wanting to see how many people would post? I can't believe it's a real thread, it's such an obvious answer!

But: just in case the OP is that naive... BLOCK & REPORT THE GUY IMMEDIATELY! JEEZE!!
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 109
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Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 2:02:54 PM
if you had any would not have posted this no means give him a penny, and block him from e-mailing you....or change your screename.....get away from him like yesterday.........never take anyone at heart who ask you for money or anything else. he will drain you of every dime you have. if he wants to come home, he can contact the us ambassy and the will help him.........
Joined: 5/24/2006
Msg: 110
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 5:54:41 PM
Please be careful me and my sister have been scammed from nigeria me twice within a month and her three times please be extremely careful if it seems too good to be true it probably is
Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 111
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:06:40 PM
Anyone who asks for money should be dumped immediately......
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 112
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:25:55 PM
ok, sicne u guys want to have fun wtih these scammers, i am posting some of the lastest i got... i mean in yahoo this stuff is growing, i used to get one a few months, now i get 4-5 a week!...

i am posting some here, so if any of you want to go ahead and email them, or play with them, get them mad as hell, i'll be happy!!! he he he... just email me and let me know so i can laugh also!

here goes one:

Date: Sat, 17 Jun 2006 18:08:35 -0700
Subject: Please attend immediately.

Good Day
I got your contact through an email directory and decided to contact you
for assistance. I am the daughter of Jonas Savimbi, the rebel leader in
Angola who was shot dead on the 25th of February 2002, by the opposing
Before the death of my father, he deposited the sum of eight million Nine
hundred thousand dollars ($8,900,000.00) only in a finance/security Company
abroad. My father handed all the legal documents for the deposit to the
family attorney (Dr.Carlos Pedro) in trust and for safe keeping for the
family. Also, after the death of my father, my family and I fled to
Africa where we are currently living, before that, take a look at this
So, we want you to help us make claims of this fund ($8.9M) from the
abroad as you standing as my family beneficiary and transfer the money
to your nominate account or any account of your choice for that matter
before I and my family can get Visas to fly down to your country for mutual
sharing of the money. My family has agree to give you 30% for your
assistance and 60% would be for us (my family) and the remaining 10%would
be set aside for any expenses that we may incure during the course of this
transaction. My family share of 60% would be invested in your country Iany
profitable business proposed by you. We have never met, but I want to trust
you and please do not let my family down by sitting on this money when
gets into your account. Please, treat this as Confidential and
Reply to
Best Regards,
Miss. Stella Savimbi
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 113
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:28:23 PM
here goes another one:

Date: Mon, 19 Jun 2006 19:01:08 +0100 (GMT+01:00)


C/DIAGO N0 45,28805
Ref: BN71/663-07SP5/034
Batch: 181-

Dear Winner,
gladly announce to you the draw (€989) of the EL-PRIMITIVA NATIONAL
LOTERY, online Sweepstakes International program held on Friday,
of May 2006 .Your e-mail address attached to ticket number:
09033 with Serial number 7727/B03 drew the lucky numbers:
140-B7-2 (bonus no.), which subsequently won you the lottery
in the
2nd category as match 5 plus bonus. You have therefore been
to claim a total sum of 680,000.00 (SIX Hundred And Eighty Thousand
Euros) in cash credited to file KTU/802055349/707. This is from a
total cash prize of 1,200,000 euros shared amongst the first four (3 )
lucky winners in this category as Match 5 plus bonus. All participants
for the online version were selected randomly from World Wide Web
through computer draw system and extracted from over 250,000
associations, and corporate bodies that are listed online.
This promotion
takes place once in year. Please note that your lucky
winning number falls
within our European booklet representative office
in Europe as indicated in
your play coupon. In view of this, your
680,000,00 (Six Hundred And Eighty Euros)
could be released to you by
any of our payment offices in Europe.
Our agent will immediately
commence the process to facilitate the
release of your funds as soon as
you contact him. For security reasons, you
are advised to keep your
winning information confidential till your claim is
processed and your
money remitted to you in whatever manner you deem fit to
claim your
prize. This is part of our precautionary measure to avoid double
claiming and unwarranted abuse of this program. Please be warned, that
claim well not been more then 21Days. To file for your claim,
please contact
our fiduciary agent: Congratulation
Yours faithfully,
Online coordinator for

(these days they r either people dying w no heirs for their fortunes, lottery winners, the whole politically oppressed saga and so on)
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 114
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:33:39 PM
and one more! i noticed that for many of these, the 'to' email address 9which would be mine) isn't showing, which means the email was sent bcc to who knows how many. in this case, the person sent it to themselves, then got to me bcc, obviously, since it isnt showing my email addy?

but some of them do email one person at a time, i noticed that also. i guess they try different scenarios to convince u that 'this one' is real...


From: "Bridggie Williams"
Subject: From Mrs Bridggie Williams.
Date: Mon, 19 Jun 2006 2104 +0000

From Mrs Bridggie Williams.

Dear One,

For sure this mail would definitely come to you as a surprise, but do take
your good time to go through it before disposing it, as I mean well.This is
not one of those unsolicited SCAM emails ln briefy introduction, l am Mrs
Bridggie Williams a nationality of Philippine .

I am married to Mr. Chima Williams who worked with Filippino embassy in
Ivory Coast for nine years before he died in the year 2001. We were married
for eleven years without a child. he died after a brief illness that lasted
for only four days. Before his death we were living together in good

When my late husband was alive we deposited the sum ofUSD$6.5Million (Six
Million Five hundred thousand U.S. Dollars) in one of good security company
here in COTE D' IVOIRE. Presently, this money is with the security company.

Recently, my Doctor told me that I would not last for the next three months
due to cancer problem. Though what disturbs me most is my stroke. Having
known my condition I decided to donate this fund to Orphanages (less
privilages) or to an individual that will utilize this money the way I am
going to instruct here acording to my desire. I needed good and God fearing
partner that will use this fund for the helping orphanages, Research centres
and widows propagating the word of God and to ensure that the house of God
is maintained.

I took this decision because I don't have any child that will inherit this
money and my husband's relatives are not Christians and never loved me for
once through out my marriage expereince with my late husband. therefore,I
don't want my family hard earned money to be misused by unbelievers. I don't
want a situation whereby this money will be used in an ungodly manner. Hence
the reason for taking this bold decision. I am not afraid of death hence I
know where I am going to.

I don't need any telephone communication in this regard because of my health
as my Medical Doctor advised and because of the presence of my family
relatives around me always. I don't want them to know about this

As soon as I receive your reply I shall give you the contact of the security
company who will assist you and work with you concerning the deposited money
in the security company. I will also issue you a letter of authority that
will empower you as my partner and the beneficiary of the money. I want you
to always pray for me, My happiness is that I lived a life of a aged mother
and worthy Christian.

Any delay in your reply will give me room in looking for contact for this
same purpose. Please assure me that you will act Accordingly as I stated

Thanks and God bless,
Mrs Bridggie Williams.
Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 115
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/19/2006 8:19:26 PM
One of my neighbors passed away several years ago. Two months later, I received a letter from a prestigious law firm in my city. It indicated my neighbor had left me a small bequest for my kindnesses throughout his last illness. I was to call the attoney that was the executor for the estate for an appointment in order that he could fulfill the bequest. The difficulty was my neighbor had eight children, and I knew his eldest was an attorney and the executor of the estate. I called the legitimate executor, and he said several of his father's friends had received the same letter. I agreed to keep the appointment, and as requested, took a cashier's check for $895 to cover administrative costs. In return, I was given what appeared to be a cashier's check for $5,000, supposedly the amount of the bequest. The attorney claimed to be at the courthouse that day and asked if we could meet at a coffee shop. I handed over the check to law enforcement officers in the parking lot, and as the bogus attorney left, he was arrested. The guy had been pulling the same scam for several years. The moral of my tale is that con artists can be everywhere.
Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 116
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Posted: 6/19/2006 9:13:50 PM
So, is Toni waiting to get more responses from those of us that are neither naive nor insecure or any of the other terms people used on here, because Toni is really that guy from Nigeria who's been sending those e mails and messages and is simply compiling a list of people he couldnt otherwise convince of his stories?
All kidding aside, Toni, Tony, Tone'... Please don't feel you need to buy anyone's love or attention and don't ever let anyone intimidate you to the point of questioning your suspicions, gut feelings and decisions, they are there for a reason.
p.s. when you are paying for it, there's actually another term for it, and it's not love...
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 117
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Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/20/2006 6:49:04 AM
Obiously your feelings are invested. I had the same situation twice from the same country. I just put them on the unwanted mail list. Do not chat with him,and in that way he can not ask you for money. Are you rich or something? If yes, help the children or the animals that can not help themselves. This man has some nerve. Does not even deserve an explanation. What are you going to say " sorry I work for my money, and you are a snake using the internet to manipulate lonely women who are desperetely looking company. I am not that desperate. I can find it for free". I think totally ignoring these so called "wise guys" is the best thing to do.
Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 118
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/20/2006 9:46:40 AM
lol amazing what ppl say no a days to get what they want !!!!!
i would have blocked him after the first time he asked me .........but u said u have told him no many times !!!!...why r u setting yourself up then ?.......he just wants u to give in and feel sorry for him ........
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 119
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/20/2006 10:49:43 AM
TRUST ME!!! From one woman to another, tell him the only thing you'll give him is the ' ping' sound from your aluminum baseball bat!

A woman's best friend is her bank account. As cynical as it may sound, it's the truth. DO NOT send this guy money! In fact, tell him to piss off and never contact you again!

Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 120
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/22/2006 2:48:12 PM
nigeria does not even appear on the instant message thingy

No one is attacking you or your country. I think most people on here are sincere and adult enough that they would not hold your nationality, culture or family tree against you. Never be ashamed of who you are or where you come from. Be loved for who you are.

These men identify themselves as being Nigerian/or being in Nigeria. Put Nigerian Money Schemes into your computer search engine and/or call the American Embassy and they will update you on the reasons for the attitude of all the ladies on here who have been duped by these guys. The reason they transfer money through that country is because there are no laws of protection between the two. These men could be from anywhere. They just launder their money through Nigeria.
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 121
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/22/2006 3:19:24 PM

relax man, you think youre the only ones that go through the stereo typing, How about Italians and people think we are all connected to the mob? Or Middle eastern people and Terrorism, or Chinese people cant drive, or all African Americans play basketball,dances and are hung like a horse

see what im saying ?
Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 122
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/22/2006 6:24:12 PM
yeah it's a total scam, RCMP, FBI and police forces in a number of countries are aware of this one, I don't know if there doing anything about it but it's been going on for awhile.
 jim bag
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 123
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/22/2006 9:17:49 PM
invite the guy over to your neck of the woods, and have the prick whacked, and
then whack his friends too.
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 124
Guy I met online keeps asking for money
Posted: 6/23/2006 5:17:11 AM
I've rethought this.

I think you SHOULD give him the money.

Just think. If you do....the 83,500,382 emails he sends out every day will then stop. So please. Reconsider. Give him the money. Take one for the POF team and help this guy and in turn, all of us out!

Thank you so much!


Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 125
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Posted: 6/23/2006 5:38:58 AM
Oh come on.... do the Christianly thing. Send the poor guy the money so he can come home.

Just make sure it's all Monopoly money... all singles too.
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