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 Revilors
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 170
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?Page 5 of 21    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21)

I vote she dumped him and met a guy who spanked her the first time they had sex, so she married him and is getting spanked on a regular basis. (a girl can hope, right?)


You are so far off!

He spanked her and she realized it just friggin' hurts. But now he is into it and has opened an S&M specialty shop in the burbs and she is seeing a district court judge, Ernie, who likes to be bottle fed while wearing a diaper and bonnet when not on the bench.

She only spanks him when he is naughty.
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 174
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/22/2009 3:27:26 PM
just ask him...not rocket science =)

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WOW, sez a lot about how much people actually read the 15 PAGES of posts and not just respond to the OP's 1st ( and ONLY ) post. She coulda died March of 2006 and you'd still be telling her how to get her fanny tanned!! And such originality too!! "Ask him to." seems to be the main theme. Wow. Who woulda guessed it might happen that way???



Well Geez Louise, Dave I've always found simple and direct the best approach in such things..and lol, I never read any of the posts (well usually never , unless I'm at a total loss) before I respond.

lol kinchandleraz =)
 pearlj
Joined: 3/1/2007
Msg: 175
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/23/2009 9:11:00 AM
My guy friend says, "just do something fvcked up".
 serenity0202
Joined: 9/11/2009
Msg: 178
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/27/2009 8:31:14 AM
ASK HIM!!!!

I've found that most guys are quite willing... but they're not mind readers.
If you want it... ASK. Same goes for the men. If you want it... ASK.
 GWSmith
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 179
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/27/2009 8:33:34 AM
People always ask other people how they can get their lover to do this or that... how about ASK THEM.
 MsTinaB
Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 182
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/12/2009 9:45:05 PM
Before you start a relationship with anyone, you should let them know your wants and desires. Men are not mind readers. Before you start any intimate contact, you let him know you enjoy being spanked with belts, his hand, canes, spatulas, any thing that hurts so good. Thats what I do!....... SMILES
 pleasurelimits
Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 183
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/12/2009 10:59:43 PM
here is the difinitive way to ask him, first get him to be doing you doggy and then turn your head and say to him 'is that the hardest you can do me'? then 'spank me baby, spank that butt as you ride me home' that should do the trick oh and by the way I should add that you prepare well in advance by talking to him about your love life and saying that you want to establish an absolute boundary by giving him a 'safe word' that if you ever say it means and instant halt to what he is doing and then a talk about activities and how to re-start them this is a deal breaker and not to be crossed. You add
 Possessions
Joined: 10/3/2009
Msg: 184
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/12/2009 11:51:33 PM
If you're into that sort of thing, you really need to find a partner who is into the same thing BEFORE you date them.

If this isn't possible, talk to him see what he would like to experience sexually, his fantasies, his desires... things of that nature.

You just can't come out and say, "Spank my ass, baby."
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 185
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/13/2009 11:26:39 AM

Just do what my girlfriend does. She crouches and heads towards me, very stealthily, like a kitty kat. Then right before she reaches me, she turns 180 degrees away from me and POPS her ass into the air. It works every time.


I suspect that would work on every guy, every time. Lol


You just can't come out and say, "Spank my ass, baby."


You can't??!! Huh? Lol. Shhheeessshhh. Co-ed naked abridgement of free speech?!!! Actually, directing the spank, in those naked moments, to the ass only is probably redundant. Other body parts require different verbs, I think. Lol
OP, there's more than a hint of reluctance in your question to speak your mind, or speak on behalf of your ass, or something. As most everybody recommends, clarity may be the only appropriate virtue in those naked playful moments.
(Still blanching at curtailment of free speech! Lol)
 magicmike699
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 187
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/24/2009 12:07:50 PM
Hi Im Mike and its ok to ask for a spanking the best way to get it first time is to make your self a paddle from plywood or a heavy type wood make it thin and a little long try it on your self with just a couple of wacks to see if you want it bad enough then go to your boy friend when you 2 are allone and just ask him ( baby if I hand you a paddle will you give me a good ass whippin with it if I promice no hard feelings just so you can be reminded of a good spanking,) then Im 100% shure he will so bend over and take your spanking .
 Unfold
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 188
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 12/24/2009 4:22:12 PM
Be a Bad Girl!

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 GamerMan25
Joined: 1/6/2011
Msg: 190
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 7:05:48 AM
How do you get your boyfriend to spank you? Date me. I love kinky shit like that.

 boredintheboonies
Joined: 7/27/2011
Msg: 191
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 7:49:57 AM
If you like the doggy position you can request some slapping in that context if you are trying to work up to a full out, over the knee paddling. Or, you could just come right out and ask the guy. It is really not that out there in left field so I doubt most men would have a problem with it.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 192
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 7:58:33 AM
Its a damned shame a lady needs a good spanking and her man ain't man enough to know she needs one ...

I am a spanker- you need it, you know you do...and I'm gonna give it to ya.

that's how I look at it.

I've NEVER had a woman complain at ALL - hell I have sometimes given out 1st spankings before 1st kisses...

lol


and if you're really causin trouble....you might get lifted off your toes a couple inches while u need to change the squirt outta ur panties...


jejje
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 193
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 8:32:32 AM
ask him

LOLOLOL
 jon_of_arkansas
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 194
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 9:34:21 AM
just ask don`t over complicate things 99.9% of the guys in this world would ready as soon as he heard you say it and it might free him up to be more adventurous in the bedroom either get it at home or you`ll unconsciously start looking elsewhere if sex becomes boring
 Implications
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 195
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 12:49:55 PM
Blah, I think that the whole thing loses most of its point if she has to ask/instruct him to do it directly. The whole point is for her to feel like he's bending her over and she's getting one whether she's ready or not!

There's a couple things to do. You could go get yourself a Catholic school-girl uniform and do some roleplaying. If he's on the ball, he should be able to figure out the things you're getting into all by himself and you won't have to ask anymore.

You could also tell him indirectly, maybe by leaving a webpage or picture open on his computer. At least if you "tell him" this way, he'll probably digest it for a bit and you won't be sure when one might be coming. Maybe leave an erotic story you find sexy open for him to find so that he gets some insight into what women like about it.

Don't just instruct him to do it, because then it's just a smack on the ass.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 196
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 5:49:26 PM
Watch "Secretary" together. Point out Lee's frustration with her fiance. Discuss.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 197
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 7:24:55 PM
OOOH! I love that movie!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 198
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 7:58:50 PM
Spank him first.......he'll get the message you like that kind of stuff!
 Pasionlatina529
Joined: 8/5/2011
Msg: 199
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 8:49:46 PM
The guy who did it to my butt and face (not at the same time) was just his way of doing things...but now that I like it...I would ask hopefully the next one won't hurt me during the process!! LOL
 Cinnamon17
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 200
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 9:12:13 PM
JUST ASK HIM!! If he doesn't want to, he's dead!
On the contrary...I've been spanked and really don't care for it. It HURTS! Unless you're really into pain. Masochism is not me!!
 eyemitebite
Joined: 6/16/2011
Msg: 201
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/19/2011 11:56:35 PM
Lets put it like this......you'd only have to ask once.....now bend over roflmao
 WolfLikeMe88
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 202
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 8/20/2011 10:10:56 PM
I like the butt smackin personally.
You know whats a good trick.
You tell them that you like it.
 musicsupport
Joined: 6/1/2010
Msg: 203
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 9/16/2011 2:43:47 PM
Maybe you can make a compromise with your boyfriend giving you a time-out.
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