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 lynni
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 118
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Because my hands are full..... lynni
 LOVES2TEASE
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 119
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/13/2006 12:22:20 AM
ok so i still dont know how much is to much lol is it ever to much?
 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 122
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Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/13/2006 4:19:02 AM
Preference.

Some guys don't masterbate either. I have a hard time believing that, but frankly some people don't have a high sex drive, or get enough sex where they don't need to. I wish I was that lucky. ;)

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 Fr0
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 131
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Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/14/2006 3:52:29 AM

I think this is a tendency where sexual freedom is highest. It has NOTHING to do with having sex or drive at all. You are taught these things, it is seeded in your mind. Some people also prefer to wait for good dreams.
In these matters there is no difference between the genders either.


What?... I don't follow you here. Masterbation has everything to do with a high sexual drive, why else do you do it? Boredom? Periodically.. I'll give you that, but I was speaking completely on a general basis that I'm sure there are more men that masterbate than women, and I know a few of both gender that I've acertained do in fact, not masterbate for reasons such as religion, personal preference or just plain get laid all the time, and have no need for it.

Granted, masterbation has been stained in the past with being wrong but lets face it.. that was like, when my parents were younger. Times have changed sir.. ;)

Fr0
 joejoebah
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 133
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/14/2006 7:56:54 AM
I don't understand why anyone would never touch themselves..how would we really know ourselves sexually if we never found out by ourselves?
 stevelfun
Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 149
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/15/2006 5:19:31 PM
Funny how something 'simple' like it not being your own touch can make it soooo different.

Knowing, feeling it is you... VERY different indeed.
 sexy_temptress
Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 153
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 12/15/2006 7:38:48 PM
I CANNOT IMAGINE any woman not doing it. I think it's almost a strange concept NOT to touch yourself. I can honestly say that I learned to be completely comfortable with myself, what I like in the bedroom, my sex spots, my turn ons, by virtues of touching myself all the time from the age of 7 to now. Masturbation is one of my favourite things in life :)
 NewGirlInTown2
Joined: 9/11/2006
Msg: 154
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/21/2007 11:39:27 PM
They're lying if they say they don't.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 162
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Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/22/2007 6:53:42 PM
i dated a gal that said she couldnt get off that way. she needed actual penetration.
 TwistedEnvy
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 167
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/22/2007 9:41:04 PM
I used to never touch myself, because exactly what she said, it is MY touch. My touch doesnt really turn me on, and no porn doesnt help either. For me it was more of a I get turned on when the guy im with gets turned on kind of thing.

Even now i only do in the shower, dont ask me why.
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 172
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/23/2007 9:50:10 AM
I like masterbating, but of course nothing can beat the real thing, but still I like touching myself anyway
 funversation
Joined: 1/1/2005
Msg: 173
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/23/2007 1:50:09 PM
I, too, have enjoyed the company of woman who "do" and woman who "don't" and those who "do" are the ones who really enjoy sex and want it frequently. Not that the "don't" crowd can't enjoy sex...they most certainly can! But if they can go long periods without the need to masturbate they can (and will!) go through long periods without the need for sex! (Don't ask me how I know!)

If a girl can show you her collection of toys and give you a detailed run-down of what works best and why, she'll be a delight in bed!
 Greeneyesblonde
Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 176
Women who don't touch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/23/2007 4:22:13 PM
"If you don't know your own body, you can't expect someone else to"

Exactly my thoughts..

Women and men have to be comfortable with their own bodies..simple as that..


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 Greeneyesblonde
Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 178
Women who don't touch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/23/2007 6:51:17 PM
"..but can you bring 'pleasuring yourself' into your love making sessions and then orgasm?

maybe, but why bother? Might as well just do it alone. I don't like an audience..."


Yes, of course you can...one or both can participate ..why not ?? It's all about BOTH your pleasure..and why not incorporate it into that ?

Why bother ?? Ermm do it alone ?? Why can't you both do it together ?? and I happen to like an audience..not meaning tons of people LOL..but your partner and yourself..does not an audience make..


Just my two cents worth...


GEB
 jcos713
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 183
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/25/2007 3:32:06 PM
very nice would love to caht with you sometime
 angelblueeyes29
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 187
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 1/27/2007 11:56:35 PM
Under extreme circumstances I do.. I can count on one hand how many times I have had to.. I lack imagination.. so it really does nothing for me.
 Ageless Eyes
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 194
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Posted: 3/4/2007 7:02:38 AM
Well the last gal I was involved with had an ex who told her that it was cheating... and laid all this crap on her about it... And me... well I'm like ooooh I wanna watch... and she says she can't do it... so while her and I are together..... I guide her hand down and position my body so she has access and go with her... she starts totally diggin it and then.... starts crying... I felt soo bad for her... I could tell she was liking it but had soo much shit dumped on her about it it took a looong time to undo some of that damage...
And I know other gals who just don't do it... I don't get it.... my attitude is well it's mine and I'll play with it if I wanna....
 ladylowrider41962
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 197
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 3/4/2007 10:48:50 PM
well i get my self off and plus it helps when you with a man and he isnt sure where to touch you i tell him touch me here baby
 ProgrockVentureman
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 208
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/24/2007 10:12:19 PM
"A good shower head, and my right hand are two of the best lovers that I've ever had"
My Morning Jacket

yeah.......uh huh.......no wonder your rude a$$ is still on here tryin to get satisfied.
 SmokeFan
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 210
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 3:25:10 PM
I'm the same way, I never did it until one night I thought I would try it and it did nothing for me....I guess I would rather have a man's touch than my own and don't see the need to do it or even use sex toys, if a man can't do it for me then I don't need it...just me though!
 *~MisskriS~*
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 213
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 6:08:53 PM
Any person male or female who says they dont touch themselves is not telling the truth
 troylee
Joined: 2/2/2007
Msg: 216
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 9:16:31 PM
well here's what u do u sit on your hand till to falls asleep then it feels like someone else
 youheartme
Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 217
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 4:51:43 PM
Women who don't/won't touch themselves are missing out. Those who've only tried it once or a few times need more practice & creativity.

Some women don't like the idea of touching themselves, others don't think they should have to, others are intimidated by religion.

I've never had enjoyable sex with a man. I've had multiple orgasms alone. I know exactly where & how to get myself off every time. It's never disappointing. I've had a LOT of practice.
 rjpeagles
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 218
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 5:42:34 PM
I don't date women who don't masturbate...in fact I wish there was a mail setting that said "must masturbate to contact me".
 goshiloveyou
Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 220
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 7:08:31 PM

Chicks who don't touch themselves will be the ones not wanting sex the soonest. Anyone not naturally horny enough to discover the joys of "five finger taco tango" in their youth or "hand-to-gland combat" in between relationships will be the ones you always hear your mates whining about only wanting it every second Saturday once they are locked into a relationship... Don't say I didn't warn ya



I do my deeds at least seven times a day.
And I do not desire sex from anyone else, even when I'm in a relationship.
I like to hold it off for... years.

So.. you're a bit off there.
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