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 Greeneyesblonde
Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 178
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"..but can you bring 'pleasuring yourself' into your love making sessions and then orgasm?

maybe, but why bother? Might as well just do it alone. I don't like an audience..."


Yes, of course you can...one or both can participate ..why not ?? It's all about BOTH your pleasure..and why not incorporate it into that ?

Why bother ?? Ermm do it alone ?? Why can't you both do it together ?? and I happen to like an audience..not meaning tons of people LOL..but your partner and yourself..does not an audience make..


Just my two cents worth...


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 Ageless Eyes
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 194
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Posted: 3/4/2007 7:02:38 AM
Well the last gal I was involved with had an ex who told her that it was cheating... and laid all this crap on her about it... And me... well I'm like ooooh I wanna watch... and she says she can't do it... so while her and I are together..... I guide her hand down and position my body so she has access and go with her... she starts totally diggin it and then.... starts crying... I felt soo bad for her... I could tell she was liking it but had soo much shit dumped on her about it it took a looong time to undo some of that damage...
And I know other gals who just don't do it... I don't get it.... my attitude is well it's mine and I'll play with it if I wanna....
 ProgrockVentureman
Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 208
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/24/2007 10:12:19 PM
"A good shower head, and my right hand are two of the best lovers that I've ever had"
My Morning Jacket

yeah.......uh huh.......no wonder your rude a$$ is still on here tryin to get satisfied.
 *~MisskriS~*
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 213
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/1/2007 6:08:53 PM
Any person male or female who says they dont touch themselves is not telling the truth
 goshiloveyou
Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 220
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/2/2007 7:08:31 PM

Chicks who don't touch themselves will be the ones not wanting sex the soonest. Anyone not naturally horny enough to discover the joys of "five finger taco tango" in their youth or "hand-to-gland combat" in between relationships will be the ones you always hear your mates whining about only wanting it every second Saturday once they are locked into a relationship... Don't say I didn't warn ya



I do my deeds at least seven times a day.
And I do not desire sex from anyone else, even when I'm in a relationship.
I like to hold it off for... years.

So.. you're a bit off there.
 GuitarGuy_
Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 230
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 5/11/2007 12:00:23 AM
If God didn't want us to masturbate, he would have made our arms shorter.






If there's a God.








LOL
 zichael
Joined: 1/12/2009
Msg: 235
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/4/2016 2:51:00 PM
wow that s hot my ex wife never did it in front of me but my girlfriend damn I ll wake up in the middle of the night and she s down there nothing hotter?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 236
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/4/2016 2:56:31 PM
^^^^ If she's down there in the middle of the night diddling....you didn't satisfy her

Bad boy !
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 237
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/6/2016 10:09:30 AM
I find it to be no coincidence that our hands naturally land there, lmao.

Like please stand up, let your arms dangle, and see how perfectly it aligns with your genitals. *mind blown*

As for women who never got around to touching themselves.....they must have never had a moment to themselves or ever hand a panty/pants too tight making contact with her clit. It's almost impossible to not ever have had anything come close to it and you suddenly got moist and wanted to find the source of the pleasurable feeling.

Maybe these (better quality women?) were told that if they went there, they would damage it and nobody would want them.

I recall a time in my life (must have been 7 or so), that I was reaching for something under my bed and the reaching caused for the edge of the bed to be between my legs, and I felt something. I'm sure I don't have to explain the rest..................lets just conclude that I think something similar has to happen at some point in a woman's life, and once you know and discover the whole "if you rub it, it will come", there is no going back..............you know its there, you know it feels good, and if you keep at it, well...........you orgasm.

As for the gentleman who found his lady downtown on her own, I wouldn't venture to say that she did that because she was not satisfied by him.................its just that women can orgasm multiple time and it seems a good idea to get one last one before going to sleep, or if you wake up in the middle of the night, a good way to go back to sleep.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 238
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/6/2016 10:18:50 AM

As for the gentleman who found his lady downtown on her own, I wouldn't venture to say that she did that because she was not satisfied by him.................its just that women can orgasm multiple time and it seems a good idea to get one last one before going to sleep, or if you wake up in the middle of the night, a good way to go back to sleep.


Excellent point.

It has been my experience that the more that women are satisfied with their sexual life with their partner, the more they also want to indulge with their hand. Of course not all women are like that, but I've met those that on a different occasion masturbated to either a fantasy of their own or some activity that took place. In other words, the more sex they had, the more horny they got.

Then there are some women that are on some orgasmic clock. Once they reach their orgasm, they don't want anything to do with sex for a given time. Only after that particular time would they contemplate having sex or even masturbating again.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 239
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/6/2016 10:28:29 AM

In other words, the more sex they had, the more horny they got.

Now ain't that about right, lol

There isn't an hour of the day that goes by that I'm not thinking about steamy sex, yum.


Then there are some women that are on some orgasmic clock. Once they reach their orgasm, they don't want anything to do with sex for a given time. Only after that particular time would they contemplate having sex or even masturbating again.


That usually happened to me when I first started having an orgasm from oral sex, I couldn't transition to penetration right after, it was too sensitive and as a consequence didn't feel good. A little bit of imagination, and I think anal would be a good transition, to give it a few mins to calm the f*ck down, and be functional again.
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 240
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Posted: 4/6/2016 5:45:28 PM
My girlfriend's drive far exceeds mine. Last Saturday night was terrific, she went home Sunday afternoon, then told me later that evening that she did herself after getting home. I was flummoxed. Huh? "I thought Saturday was great?" I initially took it as an affront, because ... you know ... men = stupid, but then realized it actually was quite the compliment. She wanted more, I wasn't there, ergo ...
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 241
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/7/2016 8:07:11 AM

I initially took it as an affront, because ... you know ... men = stupid, but then realized it actually was quite the compliment. She wanted more, I wasn't there, ergo ...


Yes, you should take it as a complement. Also realize that you could have pleased her and given her several orgasms. It doesn't matter. If the sex was good, sometimes it increases their appetite for more sex. But also, it increases the sense of a fantasy, which means that even after pleasing her, she still may want to do a solo thing.

What you may want to try is ask her if she may want to call you when she is masturbating and describe to you what she is doing and what she is thinking.
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
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Posted: 4/7/2016 8:13:34 AM

Also realize that you could have pleased her and given her several orgasms.


I did. Harumph. It wasn't enough.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 243
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/7/2016 8:19:26 AM

I did. Harumph. It wasn't enough.


This actually works to your advantage. That means that when you initiate, you can be subtle, and because she wants it as well, she will be constantly giving you signals.

When their libido is low and you're the one doing all the work, eventually puts a hamper in the relationship because the one with the higher libido is seen as either pushy or that they gave up. But by having this little tension, she may push the envelope and perhaps the degree of eroticism outside of the bedroom and manifest in many exquisite ways.

Enjoy it. And feed her fantasy.
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 244
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Posted: 4/7/2016 9:43:19 AM
^^^^ This sounds too complicated. Think I'll just keep doing what I've been doing.
 Inner_Gorilla
Joined: 12/3/2015
Msg: 245
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/7/2016 11:48:30 AM

^^^^ This sounds too complicated. Think I'll just keep doing what I've been doing.


By all means, keep doing what you're doing.

But if that gets old, or you want fresh, or a different spark, taking it outside of the bedroom, is really fun.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 246
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Posted: 4/7/2016 4:04:39 PM
women in general are as sexual as men it is just that they have a lot more discrimination and of course they are the ones to get pregnant so all that colours how they behave. So men have a low libido and so do some women. Same with the high sex drive.

I dont take any notice of survey statistics, not everyone tells the truth. Percentages pfft!!
 Allex75
Joined: 2/13/2013
Msg: 247
Women who don'ttouch themselves? Reason for not doing it?
Posted: 4/7/2016 6:01:52 PM
Would love you to watch me sometime
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
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Posted: 10/14/2018 5:06:58 AM
It is normal and human for all to do just that....anyone who dogs this is an idiot....lol
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