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A wise man once said: "Gold diggers get pennies, many hoes don't get any. She's a stripper? I'm a tipper with a counterfeit twenty"
 very happy camper
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 99
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Posted: 8/21/2008 12:22:57 PM
Of course you can't make a blanket statement on a single data point. What I will say is I had a one year relationship with a dancer. When we first met I didn't know what she did. Eventually she told me and I was cool with that. It was great money whiloe she pursued an alternate dream.

That one data point was amazing as far as sex went. As a lover though not so good. She was very insecure as she didn't trust anyone. Also she was bi-sexual and after the initial exciting exploration I realized the fantasy was better than the reality. I'm not good at sharing.

I will make one blanket statement based on the many friends of hers that I met. Dancers have a very high instance of drug dependencies, and many are emotionally screwed up as a result of their upbringings etc. I don't say that judgementally, just as an observation.

At one point I thought I might marry my dancer. Then realized she couldn't commit to one person in the long term, or to one sex for that matter. No sense caging a free spirit, she wouldn't have been happy in the long term and nor would I.

Interestingly, she became born again and married a preacher ten years later. The religion wouldn't have worked with me either.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 101
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Posted: 8/22/2008 3:44:32 AM
I was a very Professional Stripper, and I am very proud of this, and I am not a good lover. We know we look HOT. That is enought to turn you guys on. The fact is, I was and still am, a REAL DANCER, and not just someone who took off clothes ,which perhaps sexually excited you guys. I will dance for you, even now, becuase I really love to dance and I dance really excellant. I want and teach men to be good lovers. I am NOT in this world for men to use me for their pleasures. I want men to learn and desire to pleasure me. Get real, it is a fact men get turned on easier than women. Men should learn to turn women on. Men turning women on is a much more difficult process, like learning to find and the right way of stroking our hidden parts. Men, please take the time to learn to turn women on. Men, perhaps start with dancing for us and dancing with us, and tuned into us and learn about our hidden parts and the way to excite us.

True Confessions of a former Stripper
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 109
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Posted: 10/7/2008 2:41:00 PM
Nope.

They get better AFTER they've been out of stripping for a few years and forget all the mindfawk crap they learned when dancing. After they get their heads back on straight, they're good women....if they haven't caught something nasty from all the drugs/after-work-work...but if they can pass the HIV/AIDS/Herpes test, GO FOR IT!!

Only a fool gets serious about a working stripper.

As a former DJ/bouncer/bartender...I could tell you lots of horror stories...but the most important thing is this. NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A STRIPPER. Just bang 'em and be happy!
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 113
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Posted: 10/12/2008 6:43:50 PM
That's not damaged, that's just sisters doing what yer momma taught you...TO SHARE!

Now what gets a little kinky is when a Mother-Daughter pair do a tag-team on ya. But if they're both hotties...WHO CARES?!?!?!

Honestly, if more people were less possesive and more caring & sharing, there would be less unhappy people in the world. MAKE LOVE, NOT WAR!!

Or, to be more modern...EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE A BLUE DRESS!! Thank you Bill, You've given us jokes for a lifetime!!
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 116
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Posted: 2/25/2011 1:05:12 PM
probally not,but they more often than not look better naked.
 sexyisback!
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 117
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Posted: 2/25/2011 2:03:09 PM
maybe of you pay them well & tip well..?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 119
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Posted: 2/25/2011 4:32:40 PM

Interesting...what made you post on this topic then?
No experience, no curiosity, and you don't care

Do you post on all the topics you don't relate to? Or you might want to know what is it to have sex with a stripper but afraid to admit to yourself?


interesting.....for sure! So how many strippers have you had sex with?
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 121
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Posted: 2/25/2011 9:34:26 PM
I wouldn't know and not going to attempt to lay a bunch of them. Maybe you should ask Charlie Sheen. Probably not, but generally they may be better looking than your average female and you can inspect the goods before you decide to make love.
 BrookfieldMan
Joined: 2/6/2011
Msg: 125
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Posted: 2/27/2011 10:12:36 AM
from my own experience the sex isn't "better" it's just sleezier.
 BrookfieldMan
Joined: 2/6/2011
Msg: 126
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Posted: 2/27/2011 10:21:40 AM
in regards to Kaylie's being hottt in bed:

i for one WISH i could say "i'll second that Kaylie!"

what a woman!!!! mmmmmmm
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 127
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Posted: 2/27/2011 11:04:54 AM
Strippers are ""strippers""...

nothing inherently in stripping automatically means they are more experienced sexually than non strippers.
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 128
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Posted: 3/1/2011 4:29:46 PM
Most strippers don't really like men, it's about the money and power they have over drooling men. Besides alot of them are lesbians. I have seen many desperate men giving massive amounts of tips hoping to get something and going home alone with empty wallets. Besides many straight strippers have their boyfriends hanging out in the strip clubs. Don't think they are easy, you have a better chance getting lucky on Plenty of Fish, believe it or not. Even if most of the women here are for entertainment or extremely picky.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 129
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Posted: 3/1/2011 4:41:14 PM
^^^^not really bro. strippers are a lot like other women. to get one, you gotta know how to attract them and get them interested in you.


but they can be had fairly easily if you know what you are doing and they are NOT that picky...
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 135
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Posted: 3/9/2011 9:13:58 AM
One person that would be able to tell us as much on this subject as anyone is Tweeting and doing TV/Radio/Web Interviews like crazy now. Charlie's talked about everything else this week so surely he will work his way to this topic soon.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 138
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Posted: 3/16/2011 2:16:49 PM
I was a very professional, high class "stripper" , a real PROFESSINAL DANCER, for many years and I would not be considered a good lover. Why? I do NOT ever have any ORAL contact, but I do love sex, but with NO ORAL CONTACT. I want sex, with NO oral contact, within a relationship with the right man.
 mr.nike
Joined: 6/6/2011
Msg: 145
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Posted: 6/13/2011 2:29:14 PM
I have never been to a strip club.To much like paying for it for me.
 dipset3000
Joined: 12/13/2011
Msg: 146
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Posted: 12/8/2014 11:25:46 PM
kate kreger dont play the ones who love you and bite the only hand that feeds you... all those other means men wont pull you out a ditch.. learn yourself ture!
 wooweewoo13
Joined: 7/7/2013
Msg: 147
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Posted: 12/9/2014 3:52:02 AM
What...you looking for your first?.....never been with one....one of my best was a nurse....she knew and cared as I did!
 Spifflog
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 148
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Posted: 12/9/2014 8:14:39 AM
It's not clear to me Cat*Eyes.

Do you like ORAL?
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 149
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Posted: 12/9/2014 9:03:27 AM
msg#193 and #195,

I have absolutely no idea what yall are talking about.
Thread is necro'ed but I will comment anyways.
I never had a stripper before, but I have been to strip clubs. They are nice if you go to the right one. Alot of strippers have nice stories. Whether they are true or not is besides the point. Always best to go in a group and party though.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 150
a primer on strippers (that's a painter's joke)
Posted: 12/9/2014 10:07:25 AM
the difference between the sex worker and a lawyer is the former stops screwing you once you're dead.

What helps make someone a better lover, is confidence, creativity, and a real interest in you. do exotic dancers run the market on that? sometimes. sometimes not.

of course, if you just want the gal everyone else wants....all she has to do is show up, and your second biggest sex organ (that would be the brain, your skin is the first) is already throbbin'
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 152
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Posted: 12/9/2014 2:58:53 PM
They do make lousy coffee.
 Dan198508
Joined: 11/7/2014
Msg: 153
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Posted: 12/9/2014 7:09:15 PM

No. They're not better. I found it rather cold in fact. Went from "woo hoo, yes, yes, yes , yes, take me you ..............." then when finished 5 min later "k, going out for awhile, be back sometime". Can turn it on and off, waaaaay to easy. That's what I found anyway.


No, that's not how the brain works. If it goes so quickly it never really got on to begin with. I'm not saying it was an act. She may have been excited...like woo hoo, yes, yes, yes , yes I'm buying an ice-cream excited. Hyperactive without reward excited. But not dopaminergically excited.

Increased dopamine takes a while to reuptake. Transporters are involved etc. You basically never increased her dopamine. Like, I doubt that you stimulated her more than boring porn stimulates you. Very weak pre-frontal cortex activation.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2014 10:30:18 AM
its wonderful to find a great lover,but generally,as a man,I love to take charge
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