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 YourDarkAngel
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 39
where are all the real women?Page 6 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)

Yourdarkangel, I see sarcasm is lost on you.


No. I was glossing over it.

Its a common view that men who actually treat women with respect in general, are often times considered less manly than men who dont treat women well. Its sad, but true. And I didnt make it up or start that theory, nor do I condone it.


There is a truth to that. There are men that see that being respectful to women doesn't always work. And no, I'm not talking about men who have 'ulterior motives,' per se, as much as they have been taught from a young age that it is a civil and right thing to do, but found that in their interactions nothing good as been accomplished. Our culture has turned to celebrate overblown and negative sides of masculinity as more exciting and 'cool,' while self-restraint and positive roles of masculinity are downplayed or even disencouraged.

And there is also a flip side to the coin as well. I see certain women blasting men not on just this site, but in public, in articles, and in their dynamics with men. For some men, they believe it is a lose-lose situation in trying to treat women with a general sense of civility. Personality, I treat each individual case based on merit. I try to build a foundation with women that are proactive in creating a give and take situation in the workplace, or in social activities. But I shun women that don't contribute, run hot and cold, treat men with contempt or use them as doormats or are parasitical. Let's face it; there are (some) women that act as if men owe them simply because of their sense of entitlement. That's shaky ground to begin with.

(Before people get on their high horse and start flaming me here, notice that I didn't say ALL men this, or ALL women that. Chill. Please).

In opinion, either gender should practice a measure of self-responsibility, but you know how that goes in reality.
 lucilou
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/30/2006 3:24:27 AM
Thanks Studly23, one question to all? Just by Iming? and talking on the phone? Can you men recognize a real woman? Can you say if a woman is smart? kind hearted? with good personality? Because I sure can detect those with conversation with man, thats how my decision to meet them comes next. BUT they seem to go away and get scared after they for sure telling me how good I am , why is that? is it that the cost of gas is so high that they dont want to spent money? I offering to meet half way.
 doris342
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/1/2006 8:09:02 AM
i am a real woman and i am better looking than barbie but looks dont mean anything if you are lonely
 doris342
Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 7/1/2006 8:12:39 AM
amen to the trusting
 lucilou
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 7/1/2006 9:53:11 AM
Thank you Greeneyzz!!! there's nothing more than meeting a someone in person to see the real man or real woman. Good luck to you all, by the way Greeneyzz? You are so cute and handsome, if I am only younger I would ask you for a date lol
 ManitobaGrrl
Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 65
where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/2/2006 2:17:05 PM
where are all the real women ? most of them are probaly being overlooked because they have a few extra pounds on them, or have kids, or have a small stain on their shirt.
Pick a reason. any reason.
 YourDarkAngel
Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 71
where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/4/2006 10:02:47 PM

A real woman is soft and tender, when she loves her man she observes his every move so that he rarely has to ask for anything she knows what he needs.
He's down she there, she's loyal and strong, no matter what happens you can count on her standing beside her man, when she looks at him he feels like a man.
She is a real companion, he can trust her with his life. This is the essence of the female basically. (Abbreviated but the basics)
I think most of us are real women looking for a real man. there are exceptions both ways.


Mimosa . . . that's an awesome description, I know someone like this. And if she wasn't married I would have asked her out a long time ago.

And if that also applies to you, some man down the line is going to find you quite the catch.

 lucky3chevelle
Joined: 1/30/2006
Msg: 79
where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:28:16 AM
well im from the midwest and now in phoenix and ill tell you the women out here [ that ive found] suck they are fake and inmature and only looking for sex i must admit i cant wait to go back home to find someone with morals
 crzykim36
Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 83
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Posted: 7/8/2006 9:42:48 AM
Well I don't think I am bad looking, and I know I am a real woman.. But it seams the guys I aminterested in just want to continue to be players ... And the ones i don't find interesteing are the ones who continue to call..! Kim
 JRJ73
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 7/10/2006 3:39:45 PM
Very good question. Usually I would have an answer.
 krazyme
Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 99
where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/10/2006 10:11:58 PM
very good question?

well jimmm73 your one to talk.

what bout you. not talling everyone that you been in jail for 4 years.

and that you like to stalk woman??

oh and lets not forget how you enjoy hurting the feelings of 2 of my close friends.

jimmy rogers my only suggestion to you is be very careful who you play with.

as if you mess with any of my friend again. I will get you. I knwo where you live i know allot about you and your 4 years

I have a copy of your criminal record.

so leave them alone and i will leave you alone. got it?
 JRJ73
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 101
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Posted: 7/11/2006 10:01:07 AM
stop lying - I haven't bothered anyone - was with 1 girl for 7 years and we broke up recently but are great friends.. You need some help.
 krazyme
Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 7/14/2006 12:27:38 PM
it looks like I made a huge mistake.

and I am going to try to walk away with my tail between my legs here.

Jimmm73 isn't the guyI thought he was.

Seams my friends like to make stories and over exagerate things.

so this is a message to all that my prior statement about Jimmm73 was not accurate. and I do wish to send out an apology to him and to all that might of taken offense to any of this.

so Jimmm73 I'm sorry and hope we can both go on in a peacful life and do our own thing.
 JRJ73
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 108
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Posted: 7/15/2006 11:16:18 AM
Thanks for that sincere apology. Next time learn who the person is before you assume the worst. I'm glad we now know the truth.

enjoy POF.
Cheers.
 emixbee
Joined: 10/13/2006
Msg: 112
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Posted: 10/18/2006 2:16:07 PM
Real woman??????hummmmm

Once upon a time... areal and innocent stupid woman believes in a 40 teenager, player and scammer, he asked her marry...he... cheatting her...and broke her heart...for a whole year...

Well then the real woman stop to believe....

the end.....
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 113
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Posted: 10/18/2006 2:30:57 PM
Real women don't give up that easy!
They also know that being on the internet DOES NOT mean they are desperate or "dogs", so they don't feel like they are obligated to answer every email and IM and involve themselves in every activity suggested by men who contact them

A lot of them have other things going on in their lives, and don't rely on the internet for ALL their social interactions.

Once again I admit I did not read all forty'leven posts to this thread,but I think the answer ought to be obvious, they are here there and everywhere!
Cindy O
 mystique-elle
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 8/23/2007 4:29:47 AM
Real women are all over but, you guys just look for trouble... so, let us not go there....if you ignore the good ones you will find what you expect not what you want... so, where are the real men hiding

Good luck 2 all of you... check deeper in the fish bowl...do not lose hope
 jlkprop
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 120
where are all the real women?
Posted: 6/12/2011 3:25:02 PM
there arent any. they just wanna chat, not meet
 tifftaurus1970
Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 122
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Posted: 6/12/2011 6:45:08 PM
I agree with you.
I am a real woman
A real woman has a sense of herself, doesn't prance around like she's the queen bee.
A real woman is modest and sweet, gracious and compassionate.

You can see real woman today, in all shapes and sizes, the woman you are afraid of liking, is because she is not like Barbie?
Before you can be with a real woman you have to realize that your conditioning of being just visual is a lie. If you evolve with the rest of us, your thinking has to evolve too, be more spiritual, develop better qualities as a man.
Real women view men as mysterious as men view women. If you just open your heart and allow yourself to hear it, you would find that they/we are everywhere. Maybe you have some development that keeps that opportunity at bay. Maybe a real woman is right in front of you and she is waiting for you to notice her.
I wish you a gentle journey to self and to that special someone who will love you til forever, its suppose to be til death. That means your body isn't as pretty, but your mind is gorgeous! Namaste

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