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 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 77
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See what Howard Stern has wrought!!!

 kasandroid
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 79
Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/30/2007 9:54:18 PM
Uh yeah Cassidy whoever, you said your happily married now and bla bla bla and oh I went and took a looksy at your profile out of boredom and oh boy what did it say?

SINGLE


Disclaimer:I ain't gay, but not getting dates anyways so I read this thread out of boredom.
 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 80
Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 5:50:14 AM
^^^^ Has no idea why she isn't getting any dates?

I think female bisexuality is much more accepted in this society than for men. Like others have said, it's more about the culture we live in and how modern media has shaped our mores of what's acceptable, which seems to be much more open now more than ever.
 KTDID78
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:43:53 AM
Many females would not consider having a relationship with another female; perhaps that's why they don't consider themselves bi-sexual. Most girls I know however, would be open to kissing a girl as long as it's all in fun.
 kasandroid
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 83
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Posted: 7/31/2007 3:42:40 PM
Oh so pointing out the fact that someone says they are married but their profile says they are single means I can't get dates. Oh ha ha. I see other POFer's point that out all the time.

Okay so if I was a homewrecker then my dating odds will go up?

Umm yeah I supposse I could get dates if I returned mail, lol but the heat fried my brain and I have nuttin much to say.

 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 86
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Posted: 12/26/2007 6:48:19 PM
Honestly it is somewhat "trendy" to be bi. Why?? Part of the culture we live in. The problem is when you get older regreting some of the "bad" decisions we make when we are young and "hip". My 18 year old daughter told me about the girls w/girls in the school. I was shocked to see it in the parking lot before and after school. Are kids are being taught that there are no boundries and experiment all you want. True sexual tendencies are (I believe) given to us at birth. It shouldn't be something we "play" with, there are future consiquences.
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 12/26/2007 6:50:36 PM
Because females w/females are considered "the great sexual experience all guys want". Whether or not that is true is up to the guys. Men are probably "grossed" out by men w/men because "it is gay". Does this make sense??
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 88
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Posted: 12/26/2007 6:56:04 PM
I agree with you in the statement about the sexual liberation has made some difference. But bi-sexual to me really doesn't exist. I think it is some people's excuse as to why they "occasionaly" have eyes for the same sex. I believe all people are intrigued by the same sex but most don't follow the "taboo" of actually going all the way. We are creatures of nature and curiosity is what makes us all different. It is also the reason we sometimes do things we wouldn't normaly do. How many bi-sexual people are living that lifestyle over the age of 40?? From my experience they usually pick either the same sex or the opposite to pursue a relationship with.
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 12/26/2007 6:59:32 PM
I mentioned my feelings about this in another post. It is disturbing. My daughter who is 18 opened my eyes to something that I never would have believed. It is "cool" to be BI?? That is just a phase for some and I am sure for some it becomes a life style. We are in a very different time. (as was said by my parents when I was a teenager too) But they change like it or not.
I can only imagine the type of distraction that had for you. I was shocked just picking my kid up at school seeing all the girls in the parking lot. Weird???
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:05:37 PM
I have to say you are pretty right on with what you posted. I have no idea if it is boredom or just looking for a way to live out a fantasy. I have been in medicine for 18 years and have met a lot of people in my career. Women have been portrayed as entertainment for men for centuries. "The oldest profession" still probably holds true today. Sexual curiosity is normal human behavior. But acting on it is a choice.
I would be lying if I said that girl w/girl scenes (when not totally gross) didn't turn me on. I have never had a desire to act on those feelings I just focus them on my man.
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 91
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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:07:07 PM
You are right it has been done. I don't remember the name just the theme. I hope that day never comes. I really don't think all women want to be with other women. If they do their choice, not the majority.
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:12:03 PM
TV & Movies are influential. We all make our own choices at the end it right on. Problem is with young people today is that there are very little boundries. Heck they are trying to outlaw spanking. What is up with that??
The lable "bisexual" has changed throughout history because the rulers who did partake in this behavior would have had you killed for questioning it. Homosexual is common throughout nature as well as human nature. We have just learned how to be discreet because of changing religion and cultural believes.
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 93
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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:14:59 PM
I believe you are correct. Being gay is "in". Life styles should be up to the people involved. Our desensitizing of the subjest will hopefully be positive and not a bad thing. Hopefully things will even out and in 10 years we will be discussing the next "in" thing.
 andrea713
Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:20:14 PM
Maybe by discussing issues like this we can all learn a little something. I enjoy hearing what other people think and open my mind to other's opinions. You are a little off by the term "sexual deviant" this turn describes people who get sexual pleasure at the expense of another. Such as child molester, rapists, and people who abuse dead bodies. They are often associated with violence.
Bi-sexual is a term that loosly describes people who find both men and women sexually appealing. Falling in love doesn't really play a part in it. Hopefully when they decide what they want from a partner they make a choice and stick with it.
 islovin1
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 95
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Posted: 12/27/2007 2:43:12 PM
Big Bear 72 said

[I have heard that its now trendy for women to be bisexual.]


ONE CAN ONLY HOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 103
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Posted: 1/3/2008 6:12:04 AM


Most bisexuals that I've met are unhappy people w/ a number of issues.
You really have to choose one side of the fence or the other.
It's doubtful that your partners are going to indulge your "preferences" as much as you'd like them to.,if you are bisexual.


First comment. Completely false.
Second comment. No.. actually.. you don't HAVE TO CHOOSE.
Third comment. I'd never ask someone within a relationship to share me. Whomever I happen to be dating at the time is my "preference".
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 1/3/2008 4:38:15 PM
RE: First post.

Women are sleek and sexy and lithe and just built to be appealing. Men are bulky, hairy, and sweaty. Women only love are bodies cause genetics tells them to. Taking those two things into consideration, its quite logical and normal for women to be straight and still see a woman as attractive. Hetero men on the otherhand liking other men... doesnt quite work out according to that logic.
 asteliapuff39
Joined: 8/9/2007
Msg: 106
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Posted: 1/6/2008 2:37:19 PM
I have to say its not trendy...nowadays people are more open about sexuality!
women ARE beautiful, its impossible to not be bisexual when you are a woman, I love men, dont take me wrong, I would not be able to be all the way lesbian, but theres some women out there that are just hot, pretty legs, full breasts, beautiful face... cant say no to that!
my eyes do wonder in a store...usually they wonder more to women than men.
 6dutchman6
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 110
Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 2:35:38 AM
Bi girls/women .. DISGUSTING and take this from a guy who had a relationship (if I could call it that) with one. A very attratvie women but treated me so badly that I got rid of her in the worst way.

First off if it's genetic, why would any man want a women to bare him defective children, I'm not against Gay People but I sure as heck don't want one as my offspring if I can avoid it.

Our society is overly feminized and has created a Female Patriacrchy. It's gotten way outtah hand. Now women are acting more an more like men, I constantly see lesbianism EVERYWHERE and in the worst places, all those girls at the car shows, playboy magazine, Lesbian, Lesbian, Lesbian.

Here's what irritates my nerves the most, when a Women looks at a man as a potential mate, she's either

1. Looking for broke ass abusive dumb as shit THUG
2. Wuss with a good bank account to take care of her now that the Thugs don't want her anymore, aka used up with kids in tow!

but with a women all she needs is attraction. That's unfair.
Women put a lot more "demands" if the sex partner is going to be a male.

I can' t count how many times a women was clawing all over me but the second I didn't answer her "interrogation" correctly I got the "raped her sister/**** shield" treatment.

Also if you've been with women SO much, most don't have a friggin clue on how to please a man.

Being a single guy in A Feminazi'd society is living hell. Most women treat you like utter Shit just for being a decent human being and only respond to you if your a hard ass d*ck.

whenever I meet a Western women PERIOD, she's no go, she's either a thug luver, gold digger, entitlement queen, or so Lesbianized to the point where she's damaged goods.

Every guy who posts threads like this is bitter about it in the back of his mind, don't waste your time trying to understand it, just move on to Foreign women who haven't been Brainwashed by the Anti-Male agenda.
 6dutchman6
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 112
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Posted: 2/11/2008 3:30:13 AM
But your forgetting that just because the parents are ok, doesn't mean a defective genome can't resurface

For example there are genetic diseases that only surface under certain conditions. and your also assuming just because the parents say they're straight, doesn't actually mean they are straight, ever hear of the term "denial" if you live in a society that demonizes Homosexuality, everyone will deny being gay and only the hard core /purest gay people will come out. Look back in time, there wasn't any "Bi-trend" going on.
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 3/9/2008 12:12:37 PM
well me personally, watching chicks kiss is a turn on, but i wouldnt date a bisexual period.
im not ashamed to be turned on sexually but not date one, i think its kinda nasty for a chick to actually like or one to be with another women, so naw i wouldnt even date one that has or wants to do one.i guess ive got some nasty turns ons lol. of course i think its a new trend, and there are alot of followers out there who cant get enough attention just being straight. i think a female who considers herself straight but still sleeps with another girl is wrong. if im a guy and i did do that i wouldnt be considered straight, so how does that make u straight if u do? and then most of em are hipporcrits, wouldnt date a guy who has does, or want to experiment ha.
 chuckyB51
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 119
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Posted: 3/9/2008 3:22:40 PM
Sorry, but I don't share.
 labyrinths end
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 121
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Posted: 3/11/2008 4:35:48 AM
how can it be a trend? dont get that bit
its been around forever hasnt it?
maybe the young girls go around holding hands because they perceive it to be a turnon for the boys.thats annoying
but as far as being a trend? dont know
if youre truly bi sexual then thats a need as strong as it is to blow your nose or cough or scratch
if youre bi curious thats one step down and that need may or may not arise again
we cant help our needs and urges. we can choose to act on them or to leave them dormant
maybe what we are seeing is the more permissive modern society is allowing people to come forward and experiment and be more public about it
i am not bisexual at all
i do not enjoy a womans touch
but i do fantasize
put in my a situation with a woman -id run but i dont at all mind if someone found me attractive
( afterall, how could they not? lol jk)
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 122
Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/16/2008 8:18:28 PM

Female Bisexuality ~ just check out any night club.

The women grind on themselves while the men stare while holding a beer.


That ain't actual bisexuality, that's nothing more complicated than a couple of dumba$$es looking for.. no.. SCREAMING for male attention. ANY male attention.

Real live gay people or bi people or even straight people, for that matter are gonna do whoever it is they prefer in private. The exceptions to that being porn stars.
 NikkiFyne
Joined: 2/20/2008
Msg: 123
Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/16/2008 9:42:30 PM
I'm bisexual and young...been messing with woman now since i was 13...i believe every female thought about it some actually doing it..u cant knock it until u try it right? now as far as men, i cant say..i have a gay guy friend back in SC he told me he knew u like guys when he was in the 3rd grade, he dated girls even slept with 2 and still couldn't get stri8 lol
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