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 arri
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 10
Should I give up?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
wow .. a local woman told me that she has been on 50 first dates from here. Was just going on 51st tonight .. sight unseen
 Mr. Right For You
Joined: 11/18/2005
Msg: 14
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 6:32:48 AM
I don't know if this matters, but you have quite a few Mail Setting restrictions.
Especially the small age gap.

I, myself only have the following:
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke

Never give up.
 Thudpucker
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 18
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 2:16:27 PM
Give up when you are fitted for a toe tag. Until then, you have an obligation to be a competitor in this human race.
 thebamachick
Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 22
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 2:50:47 PM
Don't give up. You are very attractive and there is nothing wrong with your pictures. I have thought of giving up too. I am not sure that people are seriously looking on this site. The online dating sites that require a fee have more people who are seriously looking for a relationship.
 thebamachick
Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 24
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 7:00:29 PM
I think your hair is cute! I know some men who prefer women with short hair. However, you could make a picture wearing something else. Give your peers some variety.

You have been specific about what you want. I wouldn't compremise that. Otherwise, you will begin getting messages from men who will waste your time.
 JRJ73
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 27
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Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:43:00 PM
Sure no problem - you are too picky. Honestly, I don't why you haven't figured this out yet. You seem very real and you a pretty girl. Someone should be talking to you by now.

Cheers
Jim
 JRJ73
Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 28
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Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:56:54 PM
LOL Hair doesn't matter. What a thing to say. Short hair doesn't make a woman look like a man - looking like a man is what does that. lol
KitchenerWoman seems very sweet and real to me. I think it's just her preferences are set a little high. Like some have said - just relax and meet some friends. Other things will eventually come along.
If you are hiding something from your profile others should probably know - maybe add it.

 MarkCK
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 30
Should I give up?
Posted: 7/1/2006 11:18:21 PM
yeah you're fine

listen, I think you should tone down your requirements. see your probably mailing guys who havn't outruled intimate encounters, so basically they can probably get your mail, but can't reply... I think that'll be why not many are replying. its pretty normal for a guy to do that !!

keep trying though see how things go
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