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 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 214
Where are all the nice men hiding?Page 4 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
We aren't hiding, we are all around, just look for women who might live more than 20 miles away or answer women who email you. Nice women do look for nice men who actually want to meet and date, rather than email forever with no intention of going beyond that stage of the game.
 roadie105
Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 218
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Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/4/2006 1:07:13 PM
OK, here I am!!!
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 228
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:19:47 PM
I find that a lot of nice men get irked when women see them as friends but the women want a serious relationship with someone and the men state they do not are just looking for friends. The women who seek more than friends should not assume the "nice" men will change what they seek, and the "nice" men should not waste their time with the women who are looking for more than friends. my .02 worth. Fifi
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 235
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:51:00 PM
My point was...... if someone says he/she is not looking for anything serious then believe them. People date people thinking they are going to be the one they fall for and marry when the other person says they are not looking for marriage or anything serious. ( been there done that one myself, have the t shirt ). I have heard several "nice" men gripe about being dumped because she wanted something serious when he said he was not interested in getting serious so why is he griping and why did she date him in the first place? He might have been dumped for a nice guy who would commit or a bad boy she thought she might change. I don't know what goes on in the minds of others, I just know what I seek and it is an honest man who allows friendship to grow into something more if it is going to happen, and knows it takes time, effort and affection and attention to the other person.
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 239
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/7/2006 5:23:55 PM
appearance seems to be the deal with 99.9% of the men I meet online, although they are average and want a gorgeous woman. If they do not like my appearance even though my pic is not cute like I am since I am sooo unphotogenic, I wish they would not send me email acting interested when they are not. But then if they are into appearance being the major thing and they are middle aged they need to get with the real life scenario.
 oleurude
Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 253
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/10/2006 4:12:54 AM
you're kidding me, right? I'm serious. Personally, I think you're afraid to date!
 mrright272014
Joined: 7/21/2011
Msg: 274
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 6/3/2012 10:50:37 PM
well i know im not hiding at all u should check out my profile and tell me what think
 ladydee2you
Joined: 9/22/2012
Msg: 275
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 10/22/2012 5:47:17 PM
It has come to my belief that confident men, whether good or bad, are honest in the beginning. Keep in mind a zebra doesnt change his stripes.
 sollty
Joined: 10/11/2012
Msg: 276
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 10/24/2012 3:03:58 PM
Behind the green tree on the left - don't tell them I told you
 WolfSpirit29
Joined: 11/22/2012
Msg: 277
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 12/8/2012 4:36:50 PM
I don't know...either they are in another country or they are too short. Dang it anyway. LOL
 DomestikGoddess
Joined: 2/7/2013
Msg: 278
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 3/12/2013 3:28:17 PM
Where are all of the Christian men?
 MATO1972
Joined: 9/2/2011
Msg: 279
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 8/22/2013 8:30:17 PM
Ghost999 !

Your so right... some days I am ready to throw in the towel...
 born2fly61
Joined: 3/27/2013
Msg: 280
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 2/25/2014 3:11:09 AM
Oh we are all here, you just have to look.
 ChrisAkaOpie
Joined: 8/11/2013
Msg: 281
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 3/30/2014 10:15:36 AM
Well, ive been hiding in my home until I realized someone was being unfaithful. So, here I am!
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 282
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 11/3/2014 5:25:07 PM
They're out there - I have met and dated some myself!
 agirlnamedsuess
Joined: 4/3/2017
Msg: 283
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 4/18/2017 1:32:04 PM
Guys aren't interested in putting any effort into dating. They are LAZY. I am an attractive girl who looks damn good for being 50, unlike most 50 year olds I have seen. Sure, I am geographically undesirable, but I assume we both have cars and can meet somewhere for dinner. Guys wanna meet for coffee? Really? I don't drink coffee and first impressions are made to last. I am a unique person with more hopes of driving to meet someone and giving up my time for more than a cup of Jo
 Dragracer428
Joined: 1/1/2012
Msg: 284
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 4/19/2017 3:22:22 PM
Have done the diner on first date 3 times, one worked out well. One was so-so, knew in the first 5 minutes the attraction was not there. Good conversation and all but tough to sit thru when there is no attraction. The 3rd was a disaster, the 20 year old pic she used made it tough to look at her for the whole dinner.

Coffee only from now on, easier for everyone involved if after 15 or 20 minutes one or the other wants to bail.
 BriningIt
Joined: 8/8/2010
Msg: 285
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Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 4/24/2017 9:16:56 PM
Guys are LAZY? Let's see how lazy we are!
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