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Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 229
Where are all the nice men hiding?Page 9 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
The women who seek more than friends should not assume the "nice" men will change what they seek, and the "nice" men should not waste their time with the women who are looking for more than friends. my .02 worth. Fifi

Ok, let me get this right. So nice men are supposed to do what? Quit looking for women who want something more than a friend? Are we supposed to become eunichs while the bad boys get the women looking for relationships? We will be there for them when the bad boy cheats on them! Maybe the nice guys can try not being so nice? I am at a loss, really. Seems to me that something More than freinds is still based on FRIENDS isnt it? Marriage is more than freinds isnt it? Sorry all you nice guys, cant think of that either!
Whats a guy to do!
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 231
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:04:51 PM
You mean theres feminine logic?
Joined: 2/10/2006
Msg: 232
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:15:14 PM
Say it isnt soooooooooo
 For sale by owner.
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 233
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:18:55 PM
Well, at 23 I still a kid, I know this. But to answer the question, I am no more hiding than I ever was, nor is any other honest, hard-working, and devoted man. We are simply overlooked. And being that I am an ogre, no one wants me. So single I am, and single I shall be. I have learned to accept that. But y'all have a great day though.
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 235
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:51:00 PM
My point was...... if someone says he/she is not looking for anything serious then believe them. People date people thinking they are going to be the one they fall for and marry when the other person says they are not looking for marriage or anything serious. ( been there done that one myself, have the t shirt ). I have heard several "nice" men gripe about being dumped because she wanted something serious when he said he was not interested in getting serious so why is he griping and why did she date him in the first place? He might have been dumped for a nice guy who would commit or a bad boy she thought she might change. I don't know what goes on in the minds of others, I just know what I seek and it is an honest man who allows friendship to grow into something more if it is going to happen, and knows it takes time, effort and affection and attention to the other person.
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 239
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/7/2006 5:23:55 PM
appearance seems to be the deal with 99.9% of the men I meet online, although they are average and want a gorgeous woman. If they do not like my appearance even though my pic is not cute like I am since I am sooo unphotogenic, I wish they would not send me email acting interested when they are not. But then if they are into appearance being the major thing and they are middle aged they need to get with the real life scenario.
Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 244
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/8/2006 9:34:37 PM

Isn't more about meeting a nice guy AND having chemistry? I chat with lots of seemingly nice gentleman but then you meet and there's just no spark! Are we looking for something that only exist once in a lifetime or only in our 20s? It's not appearences... it's something beyond description.. it's just two souls that mesh and you know it from the beginning! Am I just too much the romantic here?

I would say if you meet somebody, they are a nice guy, treat you right, everything clicks, but you say you don't have that so-called chemistry, I certainly wouldn't count them out. Maybe the chemistry will come later. Too many people are looking to the chemistry or physical attraction and overlooking the basics.
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 247
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/9/2006 8:29:51 AM
In my humble opinion, I think alot of women arent finding nice guys because they have an idea in there head about what a nice guy is, and if she doesnt see that in him, he isnt a nice guy. Its all about what you believe, as to how you feel. Chemistry comes when you believe in someone, whether he/she deserves it or not. Meaning whatever this person is saying to you is true or not, as long as you believe it. How you feel is determined by how you think. Your mind tells you how to feel. IF someone tells you a car is going to hit you, and you believe it, you'll feal fear, but if you dont believe it, you wont feel fear, even if the car is going to hit you. IF you're looking for a guy to be perfect for that chemistry to be there, then, he will have to lie, because noone is perfect. And when the flaws come out, does the chemistry go? Likely so! Sometimes it takes more than 1 little meeting, for chemistry to be there, and certainly hard to get on 1 email on POF.
Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 249
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:54:59 AM
Browneyed, I know guys do it too, but Since my only expereince with relationships is with women, thats all I have to draw from. I dont have any expereince with guys! I have heard it said by some freinds of minbe that a woman decides in the 1st 5 minutes if she likes you or not. I am sure that doesnt apply to all, but it makes alot of sence. 1st impressions sometimes are the lasting ones, but also are wrong many times. I have been told by some that my 1st impression isnt a good one , but after they get to know me, They found out that it was a wrong impression. Poeple arent always what they seem to be. Some that may seem nice arent always nice, and the same is true with people who seem bad. It takes time to get to know someone.
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 251
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:55:01 PM
Were not Rare Angle Eyes We just need a day off work .
Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 253
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/10/2006 4:12:54 AM
you're kidding me, right? I'm serious. Personally, I think you're afraid to date!
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 268
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/14/2006 6:34:36 PM
At home with their wives.....
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 270
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 9/15/2006 3:17:31 AM
johnnglc: Some people are smarter than others. Divorce is expensive, but worth it.
Joined: 7/21/2011
Msg: 274
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 6/3/2012 10:50:37 PM
well i know im not hiding at all u should check out my profile and tell me what think
Joined: 9/22/2012
Msg: 275
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 10/22/2012 5:47:17 PM
It has come to my belief that confident men, whether good or bad, are honest in the beginning. Keep in mind a zebra doesnt change his stripes.
Joined: 10/11/2012
Msg: 276
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 10/24/2012 3:03:58 PM
Behind the green tree on the left - don't tell them I told you
Joined: 11/22/2012
Msg: 277
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 12/8/2012 4:36:50 PM
I don't know...either they are in another country or they are too short. Dang it anyway. LOL
Joined: 2/7/2013
Msg: 278
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 3/12/2013 3:28:17 PM
Where are all of the Christian men?
Joined: 9/2/2011
Msg: 279
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 8/22/2013 8:30:17 PM
Ghost999 !

Your so right... some days I am ready to throw in the towel...
Joined: 3/27/2013
Msg: 280
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 2/25/2014 3:11:09 AM
Oh we are all here, you just have to look.
Joined: 8/11/2013
Msg: 281
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 3/30/2014 10:15:36 AM
Well, ive been hiding in my home until I realized someone was being unfaithful. So, here I am!
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 282
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 11/3/2014 5:25:07 PM
They're out there - I have met and dated some myself!
Joined: 4/3/2017
Msg: 283
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 4/18/2017 1:32:04 PM
Guys aren't interested in putting any effort into dating. They are LAZY. I am an attractive girl who looks damn good for being 50, unlike most 50 year olds I have seen. Sure, I am geographically undesirable, but I assume we both have cars and can meet somewhere for dinner. Guys wanna meet for coffee? Really? I don't drink coffee and first impressions are made to last. I am a unique person with more hopes of driving to meet someone and giving up my time for more than a cup of Jo
Joined: 1/1/2012
Msg: 284
Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 4/19/2017 3:22:22 PM
Have done the diner on first date 3 times, one worked out well. One was so-so, knew in the first 5 minutes the attraction was not there. Good conversation and all but tough to sit thru when there is no attraction. The 3rd was a disaster, the 20 year old pic she used made it tough to look at her for the whole dinner.

Coffee only from now on, easier for everyone involved if after 15 or 20 minutes one or the other wants to bail.
Joined: 8/8/2010
Msg: 285
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Where are all the nice men hiding?
Posted: 4/24/2017 9:16:56 PM
Guys are LAZY? Let's see how lazy we are!
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