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 Kidd Icthus
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 40
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For me....never....that's normal...
 Kidd Icthus
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 42
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 1/20/2008 1:05:06 AM
I hope it doesn't...I'm trying right now to find a girl that never wants sex...
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 48
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How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 4/17/2008 3:32:01 PM
55 times a week is normal.....................isn't it???
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 49
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 4/17/2008 3:48:47 PM
3 to 5 bouts of sex a week any less I get a little owly much more I don't build up an edge of expectation.
 nocalsingledad
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 4/17/2008 7:05:02 PM
"how often a week is reasonable, is average, is, you know, normal?"

Oh, I dunno ... maybe a couple of times a week with me, a couple times with the neighbor, a few times with her friend down the road .... cripes ... maybe once more with her girlfriend ... I say somewhere between 2 and 27.
 isspringhere
Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 57
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 4/18/2008 5:52:21 AM
once a day would be normal for me.........................if she doesn't want it at least 4 times a week, then it's time to move on. I know that's cold but cum'on, there's lots of horny women out there.
 gazingatmars
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 60
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 4/18/2008 11:07:15 AM
In a relationship..per month, more than 3, less than 60. That sounds about right...

Gazing

PS, Anyone know where I can find a relationship? LOL
 hells_fire_angelgirl
Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 62
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How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 4/22/2008 6:45:36 AM
Well sex in any realtionship is very healthy to say and it actually makes the body happy in more ways then one. I know if I had the chance I would have sex everyday but in this world not everyone is able too or wants too. So its the case of whom you choose and how well you are compatiable of having a sex partner too keep up with your needs or the needs of your partner . And those like me whom arent fortunate enough to have a parnter to have sex with as much as I can I found self pleasuring myself to be well stimulating and still give my body the nurshiment it needs sexually without having to worry about is he gonna be around to please me when I feel the need too be intimate and press my body against him in the natures call of ages to feel sexual gratification.
 wbishop
Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 4/22/2008 12:26:25 PM
Like you said yourself "normal" is a relative term but in my experience early in a relationship do not be surprised if you have sex every day but when things settle in 3 to 5 times a week is a good bet. just remember sex is a 2 way street as long as both of you are satisfied then "normal" is what you make it.
 wbishop
Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 64
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Posted: 4/22/2008 12:28:35 PM
great answer! sometimes its great to just tease each other unmercifully for as long as both of you can stand it!
 catman40
Joined: 5/20/2007
Msg: 66
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 5/2/2008 10:26:42 AM
You mean to tell me . sex with my ex only once a week was not normal ?
 Zippy_Pachoo
Joined: 11/1/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 8/10/2008 10:07:11 AM
24,162,293 times a picosecond is about right.

Even then, it leaves me wanting.
 JustMary65
Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 74
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/10/2008 12:41:07 PM
Sometimes I think when you don't get it you obsess about sex, but when you are getting it it's no big deal. Frequency, for me use to be a big deal, but now I'm more interested in the quality of sex I'm receiving. There are a lot of dynamics to consider-and that's not necessarily directed at sexual drive.

I don't think you can define the terms of sexual encounters (numerically) in a ltr relationship or any other relationship where sex is involved. Yes, I'd love to have it weekly, but there are periods of time that weeks may lapse that I don't have any, where as there are other times where it seems like I have it all the time. Again-it's the quality of the coupling that interests me far more than the exact amount of days per week I THINK I should be having sexual intercourse.

The other aspect to consider is what exactly defines a normal sex life-is it soley intercourse-just foreplay-sharing intimate thoughts with minimal touching-sex can mean a lot of different things to different people. If I was sharing my bed with a live-in lover my hope would be to have intercourse on a steady basis but that would depend on our life circumstances. Sometimes just being in the arms of someone you love is just as nice as doing the naughty.

I've said it before and I'll say it again-I'd much rather have 'ONE night of INCREDIBLE ' than five nights of 'gee that was nice.'
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 80
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Posted: 8/11/2008 3:11:15 AM
Text books say that average is 2-3 times a week, in a healthy LTR.

The magic answer is to find someone who has a similar sex drive to you. Some couples are thrilled with their sex lives, and only have sex once a month; others are very disatisfied at 3-4 times a week. If you and your partner are having all the sex you want to have; and you are both satisfied with it; then the numbers don't matter.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:06:08 AM
How often? As often as my mind would get seduced and then it takes just a step in the "right direction"
Hey, isn't it nice to please and be pleased ?
 CCsMom
Joined: 4/9/2008
Msg: 84
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Posted: 8/11/2008 12:27:39 PM
2x a day, every day works for me!
 Sweet J-me Baby
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 88
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/19/2008 8:43:24 AM
My last BF and I had a very normal, healthy sex life. Sex first thing in the morning and again at night, most days, but of course there were days when he had worked a long day and was tired...Some days, there would be several times a day, other days there would be none...I think as long as both are satisfied with it, it is normal for them, whether it is once a week or ten times.
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 90
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/19/2008 11:27:00 AM
i just let the guy take the lead. everyday or 3 0r 4 times a day...fine with me. if you are into it, im into it. if it goes below 4 times a week, i'd be worried, you were losing interest.
 seyeulb
Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 101
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/24/2008 6:10:23 PM
10 - 15 times would do me!!! lol
 totum_spirit
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 108
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/25/2008 3:36:37 PM
In 8 years you had sex the maximum of 30 times! That equates to 3.75 times a YEAR??? On another thread some guy is addicted to choking the chicken nearly 7 days a week and he is having problems with him and his girlfriends sex life.

Dude if a woman only wants sex 3.75 times a YEAR I would say she is not into you or she has some un-healed issue. But I have to ask why would you stay in a 8 year relationship when your needs are not being met? Sex pulls a couple together...lack of sex pushes them apart.
 itechman63
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 111
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Posted: 8/25/2008 8:01:46 PM
Do we count just times with someone else?
 PickMe_PickMe
Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 112
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/25/2008 8:11:16 PM
I like the habit of last thing before you go to sleep (even if you think you are too tired you never are) and first thing in the morning to start the day on a nice note of love.
It is a nice way to stay close to the one you love.
So for me twice a day is perfect with more special time on the weekend.
 opnmydm
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 119
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 8/31/2008 2:09:23 PM
something wrong there, you should be having sex every day, if not, atleast 4-5 times a week..man
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 120
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 5/5/2009 3:21:06 PM

the sex we do have is electric!! love it lmao


Sounds soo . . . '90's.
 xxplorrer
Joined: 4/28/2009
Msg: 123
How often per week is a normal sex life?
Posted: 5/5/2009 6:22:09 PM
I have a theory that is nearly coming true. In our first year it was often daily or better, in the second year... evry second day, third year-> 3 days... So for 8 years maybe little less than once a week. Myself 10 years married occasionl can sneak into my happy place twice in one week. but on the whole i would say we are weekly, mostly cause 4 kids and she is tired.
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