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 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 42
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@mysymstir ... Okay the story was rather funny, but I guess I don't understand why you'd ever agree to spend so much additional time with a woman that you had been speaking with for so long and that you were also aware of her "stupidity"?

Are you a glutton for punishment? Did you think the "stupidity" would turn into "smart" upon meeting her?
That was a funny story!

I once met a guy who lives in Hawaii who told me he let a woman fly over from another island to meet him. He says he honestly thought it would work out. He said he knew upon meeting her at the airport that there just wasn't any chemistry, but took her to lunch anyways. Then after lunch, he politely told her it wasn't going to work and asked her if she could catch the next flight out. She did!

My date from Hell was not from POF and he was drunk ... had already been drinking when we met for dinner and continued ... I just didn't realize how much he had been drinking. I also knew he was not going to have to drive home, so I was not concerned. We had met at a well-known popular restaurant that had a motel right behind it and he had taken a room since he lived over an hour away.

The second half of the date was at the dinner location, and it involved me being allowed to sing some Karaoke ... he promised he didn't want to participate ... would be happy just listening.

Turns out, he wanted to dance with me too. That would have been okay except I wasn't into his type of dancing and after a couple of troubled tries ... I told him I'd rather not. That didn't stop him. He just started carousing the place and flirting with all the other females in there and pulling them up to dance. The whole time, just drinking more and more ... rather non-stop.

After a while, I stood up and gathered my things and when it was apparent I was about to leave, he asked if I could go back to his room with him. I told him I had to go home and let my dog out ... she was waiting for me. I really did have a dog at the time and she really was waiting for me.

He was really mad and the next day when he got home he wrote me an email telling me what a nasty b*t** I was.

I guess I am a party pooper at times! Oh well ... too bad!
 Billbug
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 7/22/2006 6:57:38 PM
So when's the wedding ??

But seriously, I don't blame you one bit. I once drove over 12 hrs interstate to see someone at her request. Not only did she look nothing like her profile picture but also weighed more than me. A big shock to the system considering the fact that I couldn't just hop in my car and drive back home.

I think that a lot of people are overlooking the issue of honesty here. Who was not honest to start with by posting a false profile pic? Not the OP... He went out of his way to be courteous, while she enjoyed herself at his expense, he even gave her fuel money. I wouldn't call that losing out exactly. I wasn't so lucky.
 crystalise
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 7/23/2006 1:54:15 AM
Thats what you get for inviting someone back to your apartment on a first meeting orarranging a weekend trip before even meeting them. Its hard to tell from that post You dont say when or who bought up the idea of spenind a weekend together. Yep, chalk it up to experience
 treemanbdj
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 51
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Posted: 7/23/2006 6:41:05 AM
Should have been deleted for reasons of a PITY THREAD.

Read the whole STORY, most of the post (Especially theones who I enjoy their intellgent inputs in the pond regularly)

Guy, you write your profile dissainfully (and story/post) towards the American Redneck, Then you orchestrate a fish meeting/date/wekend as such..

To compound the "pity" aspect you return to post nearly 30% of the thread.

As you are at a lost for your social engineering skills, check with a local community college for a class or two. Just a thought.

Be glad Les is not vindictive with your arogant level. A simple "Hey, Mr Office that fish touched my kid" and you'd find yourself a Parole Officer, faster then you can say....

.........."What, 2 packs of cigarettes for sex????given or recieving??""


Good luck, and the story was rather funny. Funny enough I might read it again.

BDJ
 canyunflyer
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 7/26/2006 1:58:36 AM
you were intoxicated when you met her. End of story! Lay off the booze!!! Quit blaming her.
 txnluver
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 8/1/2006 2:23:13 PM
Dude I couldn't read any more of that. It is clear there wasn't a match there from the start. better luck next time. Might I add this suggestion meet somewhere neutral on the first meetings and spend the money on a room. Lessons learned and have a over it.
 txnluver
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 65
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Posted: 8/1/2006 2:28:55 PM
he does sound rather weak. Do you really think after reading this they are banging down his door. I have a and a
 yvette1966
Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 72
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Posted: 8/7/2006 12:02:31 PM
oh wow...sounds like you had an interesting first date that lasted way tooo long. Next time though make the first date coffee or a****ail.

I think we have all had bad first dates...Good luck with the next one.
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