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 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 347
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Gentleplus is right on the money to me....
 CaptainA.D
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 348
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/30/2012 8:02:58 AM

it is a fact that men IN GENERAL are not as relationship oriented as women are. it is also a FACT that men are more prone to pursuing purely sexual interactions then women are. yes, duh, there are women that just like to "hook up," but the fact is, MOST women are looking for a relationship. most men that i have dealt with, that my friends have dealt with, and my friends friends have dealt with have issues with commitment and bail when the L word is thrown out there by the woman FIRST. of course there are men that can use the L word without freaking out. i think the fact that people get married all the time is a testament to that.

please spare me the "don't make generalizations" cliched comment. this sort of thinking does nothing but evoke my ire. i mean, do i have to qualify every single thing i say with some kind of qualifier...honestly...it is soooooooooooo irritating...

Sorry but, in general,women do this stuff too. Also game playing. It isn't just men that do that. Its a people thing. I also read a post you wrote on how women aren't as visual as men are. Thats false. Actually alot of women on here told me that i don't look attractive and actually below average. Hence is to why i haven't met anyone on here. So you wanna explain on how looks arent as important to women? Sorry but people in general want the most attractive mate. Thats how it is
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 349
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/30/2012 8:18:49 AM
Captain AD

It is a scientific fact that the male sexual responses are very different than women's. The male response to visual stimuli is different from that of a woman. A man can see a picture of a naked woman and be completely aroused. Are you suggesting that women have the same exact type of sexual responses that men have? I mean that is really funny, honestly. You see, this is why women do not get aroused by the penis pictures that you send to them.

In addition, women are typically looking for relationships and men are typically looking for sex. If you deny the truth of that statement, then you are being intellectually dishonest.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 7/30/2012 10:30:27 AM
larissan04
"In addition, women are typically looking for relationships and men are typically looking for sex. If you deny the truth of that statement, then you are being intellectually dishonest."

This is a generally true statement... Is it also true that men in their 40, 50+ years often have an "awakening" to authentic relationships and begin to value character, lifestyle, intellect, etc more highly ????...

And then men begin to pursue relationships from that perspective.... we as men age and are more likely to become more hormonally balanced.... I know personally that I now tend to randomly get a lump in my throat when there is a sad or emotionally charged movie scene or news story.... these are new emotions for me and I feel a greater level of empathy and connection for others....

My Testosterone still seems to be dominate at the same time but just not the ONLY driver as it was in my past youth..... And yes some or many men do not get to this place of growth and balance for sure...

So the men who love B itches are essentially frozen in an immature and unenlightened state and cannot, will not, don't care to become a greater evolved being with depth of character

IMHO
 CaptainA.D
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 351
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Posted: 7/30/2012 10:38:50 AM

It is a scientific fact that the male sexual responses are very different than women's. The male response to visual stimuli is different from that of a woman. A man can see a picture of a naked woman and be completely aroused

That is true about men but....Thats also true with women. Playgirl is sold more than playboy is. And the movie "Magic Mike" has done pretty well. Women get arounsed at a mans physical features. Thats the bold truth. My pics and profile is why i havent had luck on here. I can't understand why you denie by saying women arent that into a mans looks when im sure many women on this thread will say they are very much into how a man looks. Women are as visual as men. I know physical attraction shouldnt be important and thats now how we fall in love but if anything starts, human beings have to be physicaly attracted to the other person. Looks are #1 most important. I know it sucks, but we are human
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 352
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/30/2012 11:05:28 AM

But not everyone is going to GET a healthy relationship, and lots of people would either not recognize a healthy relationship( even if it bit him or her right square in the ass) or WOULD recognize it- and run like hell to get away from it.
Cindy O
Ain't that the truth.

I've always thought this phenomenon rather fascinating. Some guys seem to love it and keep coming back for more, the thrill of 'breaking her' I suppose. I also cannot count how many times I've been told I'm hot/cute/beautiful when I'm mad and ripping him a new one.

I haven't read the book or even heard of it, a catchy way of advising women to not be a doormat I suppose.
 CaptainA.D
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 353
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/30/2012 6:58:26 PM
I know im right with my statements. People all want the same. Physical attractivness is #1 , its 2012, women don't have to hide that anymore and just blurt out the truth that they want the same as men do
 Teri11215
Joined: 1/30/2011
Msg: 354
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Posted: 7/30/2012 7:09:47 PM
Why doesn't everyone admit, both men and women, that there has to be some kind of physical attraction first, before there is any kind of relationship to develop. It doesn't mean that all a person wants is sex, especially without knowing the person really well. Yes it is 2012, and along with it, a lot of diseases that could be avoided if you knew the person first, and not just what they look like. This is just my opinion, and opinions are like a-holes, everyone has one lol.

btw, I read a lot, but I never heard of this particular book, and I really don't think I would like reading it either, but that's just me. I feel the only person that could oneself is yourself.
 alexvanlee
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 355
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/30/2012 10:05:38 PM
i think this is stupid. i don't like ****es. ****es are dogs who you **** and chuck. if any guy keeps them around is because he can't get anyone better.
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 356
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Posted: 7/31/2012 6:21:19 PM
fishygral- I'm not a fan of self-help books because a book can't help someone, only a person can help someone.
At the end of the day, we have to take responsibility for ourselves. An author can suggest y0u do something, but you must take action for it to work.
Also, it's a fallacy to believe that you can lump people together.
What works with some men will not work with other men, it's the same way with women.
We are individuals, not robots or clones of each other.
I've said this several times in different threads, but control of others is an illusion.
You can't control someone, people allow themselves to be controlled.
If your reaction to this statement is disbelief, think about this.........
If ACTUAL control of others is possible, why do we have a prison system? If we were REALLY able to control others there would be NO crime, we could simply tell someone not to do something and they would not be able to do it.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 357
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Posted: 7/31/2012 11:22:31 PM
Captain A D

Women do what stuff? What, exactly, are you talking about?

Look, when I said that men are more visual than women, I was talking about the scientifically proven fact that men can get sexually aroused from purely visual stimuli. If you don't know this, then please stop asserting your ignorance and please go take a class in human sexuality or something. Male sexual responses are different from women's. I am not talking about a woman thinking a man is handsome or something, I am talking about very biological sexual responses here. You are either not tracking the conversation here, or you just don't know what you are talking about.

This has become very OFF TOPIC, and I don't think there is any need to keep asserting the same point ad infinitum.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 358
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/31/2012 11:25:46 PM
Captain A D

"I know im right with my statements. People all want the same. Physical attractivness is #1 , its 2012, women don't have to hide that anymore and just blurt out the truth that they want the same as men do"

you know you are right in your statements? how so? just 'cause? you "just know"? this is a profoundly illogical statement.

and you assert that Playgirl is sold more than Playboy? Where is your source for that, because I have found the stats to be drastically in opposition to what you are saying. I did research on sexual addiction while in college. Male sex addiction always involves extensive pornography, whereas with women, the acting out was of a purely relational-emotional nature. There were very few cases of women that were addicted to pornography, which illustrates my point. Furthermore, if you were to look at who is actually buying Playgirl, I am sure you would find that it is mostly men, i.e., gay men.

then this is probably why you are having so much trouble with women. men and women don't want the same things. most women want a committed relationship. in addition, the vast majority of women get attached to men when they have sex with them. men can have sex with a woman and not get attached - ever.

if you do not understand that men and women want different things, are motivated by different things, then i can't help ya. you have completely missed the point altogether, and you make all these assertions that are based upon nothing but your own opinions. sorry, but you can't site yourself as a source here.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 359
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/31/2012 11:37:55 PM
gentleplus

well, you make some good points, especially considering that the testosterone levels start to decrease in men from their mid 30s on. by the time a man hits his 50s or 60s he may have a very different way of relating to the world.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 360
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Posted: 8/1/2012 1:47:31 AM
And they say titles do not sell books , haha...
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 361
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Posted: 8/1/2012 7:37:43 AM
CaptainA.D asserts (fallaciously):
<div class="quote"> Playgirl is sold more than playboy is.

Oh, I so like facts and figures.
Playboy: current circulation ~ 1.5 million; online viewers unavailable.

Playgirl: current circulation ~ oh, that's right, there are no subscribers because the hard copy version of Playgirl was discontinued in or around 2009.
But even at its peak Playgirl only had a circulation of ~1.5 million, where Playboy is now, more or less, your mileage may vary.

But, what makes this story even funnier, in light of the poster's assertion, is that years before the end, the editorial staff at Playgirl had already been changing the format of their skin-sheet to one that appealed more to homosexual males, which at that time (~2003-2006) made up ~50% of their readership, if we were to use that term loosely. Apparently, the homosexual crowd either doesn't like to or is incapable of reading, part of the revamp in format was to minimize words and maximize visual. Since 2009 Playgirl has been online only and pretty much visuals only as well with a not so subtle audience of homosexual males.

So, Captain L. D., next time you want to make assertions using facts and fiction made up out of whole cloth use something that cannot be verified - like sexual dimorphism and gender preferences on Venus or Beta Centauri.

TK
[facts and fiction is fun]
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 8/1/2012 7:56:08 AM
barnbloo...

"Dream on"

I don't understand your meaning ... please explain??????
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TY TK for your thoughtful research.... let me add

Crains Business Chicago

Playboy circulation Jan-June
2008= 2.45 million
2009= 1.63 million

Playgirl circulation

2008= 300,000
2009=60,000
 LAgoodguy
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 363
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Posted: 8/1/2012 10:48:54 AM
To stay on topic, As soon as I start to notice that my date acts like a b**ch, I'm out of there. I'm not looking to make my life more difficult or bring drama into it. I want to enjoy my life, I want to wake up in the morning feeling good with a smile like I do now.
 4ms4me
Joined: 4/24/2010
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Posted: 8/1/2012 11:10:20 AM
Seeing this title reminded me of something I saw on the train last week. A guy gets on and sits in the seat ahead of me, and a few moments later a very attractive girl walks up and starts berating him - I think he walked ahead of her on to the train, something like that, certainly not very serious. Anyway, she puts her foot up on the seat beside him and says "Kiss my foot" - so he does. Then she says "No, kiss it where you hurt me", so he kisses her foot again. She then sits down beside him and continues berating him as if he were ten years old. I wondered if they had some kind of D/s relationship, but even though he spoke quietly and not very much, I heard him objecting, so I don't think that was it - it seems she's just a **** and he's essentially ok with it. But she was pretty hot, so I suppose that had something to do with it.
 Thomas_Andronicus
Joined: 6/17/2012
Msg: 365
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Posted: 8/1/2012 3:15:50 PM
B.abe I.n T.otal C.ontrol of H.erself.

Oxymoron.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 366
Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 8/1/2012 11:04:14 PM
its so vey dont have to take responsability so let v female ( mum) take it all, ver easier to leave so mre convienient. feminism has created many ****es so most men now have to put up wit em.
 INSTYLE9611
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 367
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Posted: 8/2/2012 1:13:49 PM
The title says it all lol
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 368
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Posted: 9/13/2012 1:46:20 PM
I love being a ****'s ****!
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 369
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Posted: 9/13/2012 1:52:54 PM
Trying again: I would love to be a bytch's bytch!
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 370
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Posted: 9/13/2012 2:14:52 PM
Well if it is true, I should have a bunch of men in love w/ me, hee hee hee...I don't tolerate BS, but I have been called high maintenance.

Guys, u get what u pay 4 (not literally) So when u wake up in the morning next to Coyote Ugly, u have only urself to blame 4 being too lazy...
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 371
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Posted: 9/13/2012 3:44:31 PM
b*tches; in heels and leather especially.
;)

Just sayin....
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