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 cynderalla
Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 26
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I was so upset when I got my first Hate e-mail...it brought me to tears. I soon realized that what they had to say was not the majority of what others thought.
I say..." Suck it up, buttercup". "You know where you can Kiss."
Shalom
 redfishbluefish
Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 27
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:56:51 PM
Don't let the opinion of one person change anything that you do.

Shalom
 graykisses
Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 28
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/27/2006 9:22:29 PM
I have nothing to say about the turd that sent you the email

Just wanted to add - SHALOM
 el barto
Joined: 4/27/2006
Msg: 29
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/27/2006 11:04:38 PM
good on everyone for adding.
i found this nice little gem in the forums today (quite rare to find something this great) that I thought was appropriate for here.

“If I do not speak out and resist, I am an accomplice”. Sister Helen Prejean

Applicable for so many things going on nowadays.

shalom
 kap10cavy1963
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 30
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/28/2006 3:35:56 PM
My only hate mail "So far" has been written out of jealousy.
I can only pity the sender, it rolls off my back.
 julietjuliet
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 31
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/28/2006 4:44:41 PM
I'm surprised i havn't had any yet, considering i i go in head on firing on all 8 cylinders. I did get attacked by a fella for posting too many threads ha ha! Hanvn't seen any from him yet, so at least i got the brains to think up a topic. Don't let it disillusion you, there is always support from someone at the forum when your getting shot down! Who cares how you sign off, it's your input that counts!
 el barto
Joined: 4/27/2006
Msg: 32
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/28/2006 4:46:04 PM
^^^ pssst! you forgot....

shalom!
 RollerGrrrl
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 33
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So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/28/2006 7:06:46 PM
i've never gotten any hate mail!! well, there's a hoser who follows me around & disagrees with me every time i post...but she's not too bright, so it's not very fun.

keep on keepin' on, dude.
 designingwoman
Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 34
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So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/28/2006 7:29:50 PM
I've had hate mail sent to me because it states on my profile that I am a Democrat. Goes to show what kind of people the opposing side can be sometimes

I use "cheers" alot on my posts. SHALOM rocks as a signoff. Keep using it, the dummies who complain about it will get annoyed
 moodsacoustic2004
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 7/29/2006 12:32:06 PM
sorry to hear that, personally i think there should be a international law to ban all types of
terroristic hate groups and organizations, including those protected by the united states constitution. that's the bottomline to ending it, but just like war and crime, it's big business for governments and law enforcement. j.c. only
 Wild Heart
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 36
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/29/2006 2:44:23 PM
Huh? Someone actually took the time to send this to you? Maybe this is like grade school where people do things like that because they like you?
 pansatyros
Joined: 3/24/2006
Msg: 37
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/29/2006 3:14:43 PM
For once somebody is wishing peace to everybody in jewish and somebody got offended by it?

Shalom, Peace, Assalamu alaikum...
 PA!GE®
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 38
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/29/2006 3:21:04 PM
I've never had hate-mail
wait let me finish
I've never had hate-mail from anyone with the balls to not delete their profile right afterwards
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 39
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So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/29/2006 4:33:51 PM
shalom ... used as a Jewish greeting or leave-taking.

If that's the way you want to sign off on your posts ... then why not? Others sign off with just an initial ... I mostly use two hugs. Forget it ... some folks have nothing better to do.

Some anonymous 30 something guy once wrote me that I'm "an old, fat, ugly woman" and that no man will ever want me. Huh? I guess some flea flew up his nose and he had to vent on someone.

 RainMaiden
Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 40
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/29/2006 7:08:43 PM
Robert, you do whatever feels natural to you. Sometimes, on other bulletin boards, I end my posts with "Namaste". Who cares what someone else thinks? If they're going to be hung up on something like that, they're certainly not for you.
 Atlas1974
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 41
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 7/30/2006 5:32:24 AM
Perhaps this person was getting all pi$$y with you because they really wished you were signing it "Salam Alaikum" (or As-Salamu `Alaykum or whatever it is) instead of "Shalom"





The message you are replying to:
Posted By: montanadharma on 7/25/2006 432 PM
Subject: So I got my first hate mail today...

...
So, I guess I'm taking a poll here; Do you find it a "turn off" when I use the word Shalom to sign off? If so, what if I just used the word "peace" or "Paz"?

Thanks for your input. I'm just wondering if this person has a point or is just a total freak.

Shalom,
Robert


 kap10cavy1963
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 42
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/5/2006 10:56:59 PM
I brought this back up to share, thread search for you newbies.

Got these tonite.

Her: with a profile like that .i bet you dont find a good woman'
i bet all you find is trash

Me: Well XXXX? Can I call you XXXX?
Ok, now that, that's settled, I can tell you I'm not really looking.
I know this is a dating site but I tired of the games early on.
I am a forum junkie and have many friends there.
If I meet someone, fine, if not, I'm not really worried about it.
My profile changes at my wims, it might read different tomorrow.
I have been contacted by women I have no interest in.
I just ignore them.
I have high standards and don't date trashy women or do one night stands.
I hope some of this makes sense.
Feel free to write back

Edit: I will probally end up on her favorites now.

Her: well it sounds like trash. so i thought that was what you would get is trash.i thought you looked very nice until i read your profile.and i am looking for a nice guy to maybe hang out with sometimes

Me: Well darlin' since you are arrogant and judgemental enough to say that about someone you don't know,you can save your time and pass me by.
I would rather hang out with a room full of hookers than spend an evening with someone that's already judged and sentenced me.
Good luck, you're gonna need it.

Edit:I will be on her favorites soon, she so wants me.
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 9/5/2006 11:50:43 PM
OH DEAR ~~ Kap that was priceless.

It sounds like she's annoyed that you are just not looking.
 bobby7
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 44
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 1:34:56 AM
"Her: with a profile like that .i bet you dont find a good woman'
i bet all you find is trash"




I looked at your profile..Now I have to change mine..I never got a hate mail, an' I'm a
tad jealous..Thanks a lot!!
 Wickens
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 45
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 5:22:27 AM
Hmmm. I think that word is the LEAST of anyone's worries.
You could be saying "Pece d00d" or some other ebonics/l33t slang.
That person is just a moron.
 cynderalla
Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 46
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:18:40 AM
Ah Kap you are the lucky one you keep weeded out the weirdo's...we all know you are the coolest!
 Raveninns
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 47
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So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 6:26:00 AM
I've had all manner of stuff written to me when I've posted in the religion and current events forums. I thought at the time that they're just to cowardly to post up front because they would be thought to be the bigots/racist/haters that they are.

Cheers and SHALOM, I personally love the tag. Raven
 jazzthief
Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 48
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 11:08:28 AM
You guys should embrace the hate mail! I love it, because then I get to write back and grind them to dust BWAAAAAAAA HAHAHAHAHA
 2kindhearted
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 49
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 1:54:36 PM
Hey Robert, don't feel rained on, I got hate mail for my preferences on my personal profile. So what, we can not please everyone, it's impossible. So do your own thang. What does Shalom mean ? But it's good that you talked about it to us in your forum. Wishing you many blessings of life...2kindhearted here's a hug to make you feel better
 Meface
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 50
So I got my first hate mail today...
Posted: 9/6/2006 2:30:35 PM
How would that person know your threads were turning a lot of people off? Except for a few emails, people on this line don't know each other . They made that up. Last I heard, this was still America and the constitution hasn't been repealed. Freedom of speech.
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