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 xander
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 2
CFNMPage 2 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
Might get better replies if you avoid acronyms.

CFNM stands for "Clothed Female(s), Naked Male". As far as I know, it ranks under the dom/sub umbrella as the male is usually put into a submissive or humiliating setting. Googled and found

Have fun.

/not my thing
 Fcukmeplease
Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 5
CFNM
Posted: 7/22/2005 11:44:28 PM
sure,if I were at this party
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 6
CFNM
Posted: 7/23/2005 2:35:24 PM
what kind of stupid party is that? why do the women wear clothes?
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 7
CFNM
Posted: 7/23/2005 2:42:12 PM
well... ok... as long as you're not gonna try to put anything in my bum
 KenF
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:46:27 AM
I believe the man is expected to pleasure the women / woman.
Therefore, opportunity to do lots of oral, ...

Even if it is from a subserviant role.
 Bubbles27
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 9
CFNM
Posted: 1/7/2007 2:37:34 AM
Boring if ya ask me. Why would I want to keep my clothes on?
 goodkindacrazy
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 10
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Posted: 12/29/2009 1:08:58 PM
I have been to a a couple CFNM parties and they were a lot of fun. Its all about the power switch. Having that power over a male makes you feel, well, powerful, lol. One thing that they did teach me was that I am not cut out to be a dominatrix. While it was fun I felt a little bit silly ordering around naked men. Both of the parties I went to there were three nude males. They served us drinks and party snacks, we danced, played ring toss, giggled a lot and took some pics with the guys (no face shots of course). There was no sex, although there was lots of teasing by the women. The men were very respectful of our boundaries and didn't do anything that we didn't ask them to do.

How would I feel about my guy doing CFNM parties? Honestly I am not sure. I tend to go for the guys that like to take charge in bed so I don't think I would ever run into this situation. After thinking about it I still can't decide if I could handle it or not, lol.
 niceguymatthew26
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 11
CFNM
Posted: 7/15/2013 5:16:20 PM
ooooooooooh! ME! 6'2 slender, althletic body, brown hair, dark blue eyes, 160 pounds, I can give you my number if you like to prove I'm serious! I have never been able to find a real deal cfnm party.
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/16/2013 3:54:03 AM
[CFNM stands for "Clothed Female(s), Naked Male". As far as I know, it ranks under the dom/sub umbrella as the male is usually put into a submissive or humiliating setting. ]
Crap looks like I have been living this life style most of my life! I have always been jumping through hoops! lololol
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/16/2013 5:00:49 AM
Interestingly enough I was talking about this recently. Now it looks like I have to plan one.
 phoenix_55
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 14
CFNM
Posted: 7/16/2013 8:22:46 AM
If you've seen one penis, you've seen them all ...
 seafoodandeatit
Joined: 12/23/2011
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/16/2013 4:44:53 PM
[If you've seen one penis, you've seen them all ]
you think so???
I cant say the same is true for vaginas ! I don't think I have seen two the same ;)
 LoneScottishBoy
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 16
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Posted: 7/17/2013 8:23:57 AM

If you've seen one penis, you've seen them all ...


All the women I have been with say they come in all shapes and sizes.
It's also vaguely demeaning to men. You probably dont mean it like that(only you can answer that), but I know a lot of men who would take umbrage at a statement like that.

OT: I was invited to one of these once. Not my cup of tea.
I'm a rebellious thing. :)
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 17
CFNM
Posted: 7/17/2013 11:17:12 AM
If you've seen one penis, you've seen them all ...

As a guy, that's my reflexive response (ie "no thanks," head turning away).... but hey, having seen porn, they're not all created equal. And as many women do martini chit-chat, they're not all the same. Just sayin! :)

OT: I was invited to one of these once. Not my cup of tea.
I'm a rebellious thing. :)

Well, you could be a bigger "rebel" and wait outside the parking lot at around the time the show ends. I'm sure the invited women will be all warmed up and looking for a Kermy to their Piggy!
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 18
CFNM
Posted: 7/20/2013 10:35:05 PM
I would have no problem participating in a cfnm party. And I say that with all the confidence a 50yo, 300lbs man who knows he ain't gonna get asked to participate can have!
 jessebunnies
Joined: 2/18/2013
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/21/2013 10:39:32 PM

I believe the man is expected to pleasure the women / woman.
Therefore, opportunity to do lots of oral, ...

Even if it is from a subserviant role.


When and where? Send me an invite. No issues here ordering around naked men!
 35brock
Joined: 3/20/2013
Msg: 20
CFNM
Posted: 7/23/2013 7:01:40 AM
A few times I had sex when I was naked and a woman still had some of her clothes on. But I'm not interested in attending a CFNM party where there is no intercourse and the woman is in complete control.
 InShapeAndToned56
Joined: 9/23/2012
Msg: 21
CFNM
Posted: 7/27/2013 3:37:28 AM
For the most part, cfnm will fall into one of these two categories… The "stripper" scenarios which are more about exhibitionism and "F/m" scenarios which are more about women controlling men. And for the most part, each has it's own particular audience!!!
 niceguymatthew26
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 22
CFNM
Posted: 11/23/2013 5:41:01 PM
I volunteer! I have been curious about these for awhile now!
 niceguymatthew26
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/23/2013 5:42:20 PM
$20 and I'll be there and be BARE! lol! :)
 Morespam
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 24
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Posted: 11/30/2013 10:04:28 AM
I opened this thread just to find out what CFNM also.
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