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 MrGordonGecko
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 7
if your ex cheated on you, and left you for that person Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
I think the problem with cheating isn't that you could not forgive that person, but that that person could never truly forgive themselves.

It's the message you send, that you will take them back under such extreme circumstances only enables them to think they can keep up that kind of behavior. To accept them back is a sign of weakness.
 ffryan
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 12
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if your ex cheated on you, and left you for that person
Posted: 7/30/2006 8:59:14 PM
Not in a million years. I don't play runner up to anybody.
 dogar2007
Joined: 5/24/2006
Msg: 32
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if your ex cheated on you, and left you for that person
Posted: 8/9/2006 10:45:40 PM
Once an account is established elsewhere, that person is no longer welcome at my Fidelity & Trust location or within a hundred yards of my ATM (Always Trusty Manhood).
 katymomof4
Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 37
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if your ex cheated on you, and left you for that person
Posted: 8/10/2006 10:27:10 AM
My ex cheated on me and hid it for a year and a half. I figured it out and soon after he left to go and be with her when he realized he could not lie to me anymore. We still work in the same company and he spends more time talking to me now than he did when we were together. I know he regrets his wrong doings and his choices but there is no going back ever. You can't move forward in life if you are always taking a step backwards. Besides that once a cheater always a cheater. I would not take that person back for all the money in the world.
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