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 Celeste55
Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 101
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oh and to jaymann, us woman get the sh#$*y side of the stick too. Any of us that aren't skinny enough, or smart enough, or witty enough, or tall or short or blonde or..............................The list goes on!!!!!We are much more likely to settle than guys because we are much more able to see through exteriors, due to our talent at communication. I speak for all women when I say I'd rather be with someone who really "gets" me in comparison to some handsome buff guy.
 jayyman74
Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 3/13/2007 3:16:43 AM
Hey, Celeste. No, your right, I was just speaking on behalf of the average guy is all.
 .Marc
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 103
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Posted: 3/13/2007 4:10:01 AM
I fit the aforementioned"average guy" description.

I'm also a huge dork, a romantic, and have a very strange sense of humor. (All of this should have been obvious for those of you that have been playing along at home )

Anyhow, while the "average guy" traits don't seem to be a problem, and the "romantic descriptor seems to be helpful, the strange sense of humor and the dorkiness make it somewhat difficult to get out of the initial "What the hell is wrong with you!?" period of meeting someone.

Still, the fact that I've had at least a small share of people that were interested in me shows that I am not "undate-able."

"Average guys," dorks, and unbelievers everywhere, remember: many, many women are romantics at heart. If you've gotten them on more than two or three dates, they WANT to fall in love with you. It's all a matter of opening up, both of you deciding if the match works, and letting them. (I could be totally off base, but that's my experience.)

Also, for those who are totally in doubt as to their date-ability: I read a story recently about a snake-charming tattoo artist who found her match in a fire eater who also stuck silverware up his nose. (The spoons from Waffle House were, apparently, his favorite.) If two such people exist and are capable of meeting each other and falling in love, there is hope for us all.
 Hot Buttered Soul
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 104
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Posted: 3/13/2007 1:12:33 PM
Not unconditional love. we have as a society learned to over analyze everything from our pets to work, to friends, to our childhood, to our parents, our children.. and the list can go on and on.

as liberal and non judgemental as people say.. we are as a society becoming more judgemental all the time.
 tb61
Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 105
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Posted: 3/13/2007 1:41:21 PM
Depends how you view true love... i think love is blind and true love is the love you feel with you're eyes wide open (and your heart wide open too)
 One Betrayed Angel
Joined: 1/6/2005
Msg: 106
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Posted: 3/14/2007 7:26:43 AM
Yes, I wonder. Time after time after friggin time, I am approached by men that just wanna get it on. I don't WANT that. I want a partner for LIFE, not AIDS for life for god's sakes. And, I'm a lady as well.
And congrats to you for leaving the cheating bast&rd! Thats why I am here again. Life is way too short to spend it on ANYONE who treats you less than a REAL angel.
 opgirl
Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 107
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Posted: 3/14/2007 7:46:34 AM
I do believe true love exists. But the only problem with that is that I've truely loved men who never loved me. So yes it exists. Will you find happiness with it? That's anyones guess.
 gonzofanmel
Joined: 10/3/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 11:02:56 AM
True love?? In what sense? In that whole Valentines and roses, fairy-tale, happily ever after sense? If that's the case, then I'd have to say no. I believe in REAL love---the kind that grows with time, but also requires work and effort. Most people nowadays just aren't willing to make the effort to make love last.


Personally, I feel completely cheated by the idea of "true love" because of growing up and watching "The Princess Bride." I'm still waiting for the guy who says "As You Wish."
(Although personally, I always loved the other guy more--"Hello, My name is Inigo Montoya...")

 madameBlue
Joined: 10/28/2006
Msg: 109
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Posted: 3/14/2007 1:53:40 PM
Love, true Love does exist! The only problem with true love is that it is a very rare commodity and doesn't just happen to every one just because they want it to happen.
true love survives all the horrible nightmares that reality can provide,but more importantly, true love can survive the good times, the easy times and the endless boring times.
If at the end of your life you and your partner can truely look at each other and still love each other,then you have my admiration for you are one of the favoured few who have found true love.
Love happens in spite of, not because of.!!!
 Hot Buttered Soul
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 110
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Posted: 3/14/2007 2:02:55 PM
What is true love? I dont think most people know.. its co conditonal... i think they have an idea in their head... but lord knows nothing can compare to it. The fantasy and reality are 2 different things.
 Freaky Bald Guy
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 111
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Posted: 3/14/2007 2:10:40 PM
yes those qualities do exist...they are just rare and really hard to find.
 NannieKate
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 112
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Posted: 3/14/2007 2:24:26 PM

Does True love Exist?


Yes.
 flareheart
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 113
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:34:39 PM
You know what you want, with that, you'll find someone.

But what is true love really anymore? It'll be interesting to find out once we transcend our emotional-chemical addictions ^^
 bboop
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 114
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Posted: 6/17/2007 9:04:56 PM

True love?? In what sense? In that whole Valentines and roses, fairy-tale, happily ever after sense? If that's the case, then I'd have to say no. I believe in REAL love---the kind that grows with time, but also requires work and effort. Most people nowadays just aren't willing to make the effort to make love last.


Well said^^^^^^^^
 OscarDGrouch
Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 6/18/2007 7:28:11 PM
Yes, it does. Why would anyone even condsider otherwise?
 Little Mrs Forlorn
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 6/18/2007 7:35:06 PM
yes true love exists
sometimes it takes a while to find the right one
but after two marriages and one commonlaw one for me
thats 22 yrs of my life....i found the right one
 classy_lady99
Joined: 4/5/2006
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Posted: 6/19/2007 3:25:23 PM
Most people don't know what true love is and therefore will never experience it!

They think if they're not madly in love it's not worth the effort. Madly in love lasts what about 2 weeks! LOL

But it's not laughing matter that we as a society put me first and have forgetten how to love!
 ryanisthecab;eguy
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 118
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Posted: 6/20/2007 9:40:28 PM
well if u find true love tell me how to find it lol i have been tring for 2 years now allmost 3
 _ZEPHYR_
Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 119
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Posted: 6/24/2007 11:49:45 AM

All I want is someone who is loving, compassionate, and caring. And most of all honest. does these qualities exist anymore? I wonder, do you?


i was married 16 years.... ive been single 4...
sometimes i wonder if i will find true love in this life time.... but i have realized the more people i meet and the more i date, it seems i run into a better guy than the last one....
so i do have some faith left.... i think we need to meet as many people as we can, learn lessons, use those lessons to weed out the ones who don't want the same things, learn the games, (it's bs right?...i hate games!) we have to put ourselves out there, try and be positive and confident, and always do things for ourselves to make us feel good!
and have you noticed when you shine on the inside, people really do notice, you become more attractive!!

it's not easy out there.... men (more than women) of all ages only want sex... i dont get it... it's so much better when you feel something in the heart and mind!

i always say... dont give up or hide away from the world because of a few dumb guys! =)
 sweetguy1962
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 120
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Posted: 7/23/2007 6:29:05 PM
I think true love does exist, just fading fast with the new generation.
 Sandman 67
Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 121
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Posted: 7/23/2007 8:52:01 PM
True Love is real. I have experienced It once, I was young,and had no Idea I was in True love at the time.
With age comes experience and it is a catch 22 experience. As you get older,True love means more than pure feelings. It is a complete package, stability, connection, looks and education are just as important as pure feelings.
 wholovesunshine
Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 122
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Posted: 8/17/2007 10:10:03 PM
True love exist definitely, I found them from my parents. For me, I enjoy the love in me and happy together with the one, but when the feelings has gone, we just can give up and move on.
 bathurstfish
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 123
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Posted: 8/18/2007 2:50:36 AM
i believe it does exist. but its hard to find or obtain. thoses who have it or found it should be the richest people on earth.
 JT19822
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 124
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Posted: 9/4/2007 7:18:52 PM
I do believe true love does exist. It is just a matter of finding the rite one. Love is a strong word to use and should only be said if you truly care for the person your with. Eventually you will find your soul mate. Take your time, live life to the fullest, go out and meet new people. When your time comes you will know the feeling :-)
 Metaphor365
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 125
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Posted: 9/4/2007 7:27:21 PM
OP, it truly exists if you truly know what you're looking for. After that, it truly exists if you and the person you're with truly believe in it. The problem seems to be that people don't believe in it enough for it to become reality. I say this from experience; I know I'm 18 what experience can I possibly have right? But that's the most honest answer I can give, and really I believed that even before experienced proved it.
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