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Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 1118
Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships?Page 59 of 59    (19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45, 46, 47, 48, 49, 50, 51, 52, 53, 54, 55, 56, 57, 58, 59)
Ainen and Halcyon are calling the thread resurrector a "troll" via issuing ad hominem attacks on what was a relevant opinion?

I would say, "you can't write stuff this rich", except... well, they did.

When the troll posts stop (check the posting history) only then will the "ad hominem attacks" stop.

Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships?

Only if there is a significant disparity in intellect between the partners.
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 1119
Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships?
Posted: 12/21/2014 2:32:33 PM
Is intelligence a curse in relationships? sure is in the forums, lol. truly intelligent people rarely follow herd mentality, unless they find it actually makes sense. But, there are people who aren't intelligent, but "cunning". they can waste their brains on finding a smart way to chase after a dumb thing.
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 1120
Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships?
Posted: 12/21/2014 4:54:43 PM

I am with you. Intelligence is a basic requirement. "Intellectual" is different, they can be too cool and analytical, often not sexy at all, as they don't take care of their appearance and live in their heads. That is a generalisation I know.
Smart savvy men are more likely to be successful but those with a very very high IQ can be quite strange and eccentric.
If I had to dumb myself down in order that the guy feel superior or non threatened, I would just move on. What we need is commonsense and street smarts to do well on this planet.
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