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 bluemoon24_7
Joined: 4/18/2014
Msg: 65
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or notPage 3 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
Then please report his profile for deletion. He's a pig.

VVV Still a pig. And so was your post in Off Topic.
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 1:33:24 PM
Sorry, I was trying to be humorous on my own account.
I'm not talking oral either, I'm not into that, that's not love, I'm talking inside.
 _babblefish
Joined: 9/23/2011
Msg: 67
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 1:37:35 PM

Then please report his profile for deletion. He's a pig.


don't stop there, three posts up the profile graphically talks fish sticks and tarter (sic) sauce,

pigs are pigs whether they wear lipstick or not
 BLonde^j^AngeL
Joined: 1/2/2015
Msg: 68
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Posted: 2/9/2015 1:46:10 PM
^^we r not in profile review

by all means remove ur lipstick ;0D
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 2:19:12 PM
Again, sorry. I put it so disgusting, but blonde angel gets the question, and thank you for the response, that's the kind of input I've been looking for.
 BLonde^j^AngeL
Joined: 1/2/2015
Msg: 70
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 2:33:34 PM
Only a porno flick requires a "money shot"!
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 71
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 2:35:14 PM
What did you think anyone would say??? Why don’t you save that kind of conversation to have with someone you’re in a relationship with, and I would suggest not using twelve year old boy words when you talk to women.
 kj521
Joined: 8/8/2012
Msg: 72
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 2:38:54 PM
Randy.....

You really could have asked that question a little more delicately.....with that said....I am sure it will bother some and not others.

Not knowing the particulars of your cancer, I would suggest just focusing on the positive aspects such as being able to perform at all. :)


This opinion comes from a widow of a husband whose cause of death was prostate cancer.....


Best of luck!
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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 kj521
Joined: 8/8/2012
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Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 2:46:25 PM
^^^^^^ I apologize if my post comes across as that but that was not my intention. I truly wish you the best.
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 2:47:05 PM
I was reading some other posts on here about sex, and I thought mine was G rated compared to some of them. Again, it was suppose to be humorous towards myself, NOT to offend anyone else.
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 2:52:30 PM
Kj521. Sorry about your loss, sincerely. Was the cancer spread too far already? Did he have his prostate removed? ( I did) Or did it plain old just come back like cancer can.
 kj521
Joined: 8/8/2012
Msg: 77
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 3:02:49 PM
Thank you....

It was already stage 4 when diagnosed....so no need for surgery.

And BTW. ...there are forums for men and their partners that are living with prostate cancer that address these types of issues....
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 3:22:41 PM
I'm lost on here. This was a big mistake on my part. My apologies .
 kj521
Joined: 8/8/2012
Msg: 79
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Posted: 2/9/2015 3:30:56 PM
Why are you at a loss? You had a legitimate question....no need for apologies.

Best of luck!
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 3:40:43 PM
Thank you, and I do want to know ladies opinions, just wish I would've worded it WAY differently.
 SunshineGirl__
Joined: 10/7/2014
Msg: 81
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 3:55:03 PM
You want to know women’s opinions about your ejaculate???? Good gawd, go post in the sex forums.

You seem to have no common sense, or respect for women.
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/9/2015 4:47:21 PM
Be honest with you, that's where I thought I was was in the sex forums. That's why I didn't think I was out of line that bad. Makes sense now. Oops. The 'Prostate cancer" part probably reeled me in and I forgot where I was forum wise.
But I'm done appologising the the men, did I offend you!
 kj521
Joined: 8/8/2012
Msg: 83
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/9/2015 5:04:23 PM
Randy......

Based upon the original post......this is an appropriate thread to pose your question.

I wouldn't be particularly bothered by the side effects you are experiencing but this opinion is coming from someone who is very knowledgeable about the various effects of prostate cancer.

But there are many women who are not......so it will require you to explain the various effects as they pertain to you to potential partners . Being honest and forthright is the best advice I can give.

May your psa stay low..... :)
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
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Posted: 2/9/2015 9:38:54 PM
Randy,

do you have retrograde ejaculation or none at all? In the end, probably doesn't matter a hill of beans, but ...

KJ, your kindness to Randy is a breath of fresh air.

TK
 randyO337
Joined: 1/26/2015
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Posted: 2/10/2015 6:36:10 AM
None at all. There never has been anything since the surgery.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 86
Prostate cancer ...guys,how have you handled it/or not...Ladies, how have you been supportive/or not
Posted: 2/10/2015 6:45:04 AM
Mistakes happen.. to answer your Question Randy , no as long as you explained to me WHY it wouldn't bother me.
Best of luck
 randyO337
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Posted: 2/10/2015 6:51:02 AM
With my last girlfriend, whom I was actually engaged to, I could never do that in her, it made me feel bad, incomplete or something. Most I talk to say " oh yay, no mess" but I feel that they would miss it after a while, maybe even cheat because of it???
 randyO337
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Posted: 2/10/2015 10:12:19 AM
No input from the ladies? Would my issue bother you? It bothers me.
 PenelopeLeChat
Joined: 7/29/2014
Msg: 89
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Posted: 2/15/2015 9:14:47 AM
Randy, as someone who has dated 2 men in your situation and one with ED. There were also a few that were on blood pressure and depression medications. If you find the right partner it won't amount to a hill of beans if you take your time with her and make sure she understands the why. In other words... communication.

Besides, some women can make enough of a mess for the both of you. ;)

As Always,
LePew
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