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 RedHeadedRodney
Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 258
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EVERY guy is a nice guy....

Don't believe me? Just ask em and be suprised if they say anything else...

Its when you can get atleast 5 women to tell you a guy is nice with a straight face and they aren't all standing together that maybe, just MAYBE you can believe em...

Even then it can be debatable...

Just an observation...

Rodney
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 268
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/25/2008 5:22:26 AM
Well said Robin and a huge hug for you too for going thru the same thing. :( No better advice can be given than from someone who's been there.

Just an FYI to Linda : You dont have to remove your 'only men can contact you' thing on your profile. If you add a female friend to your favs list and she adds you too, you can both email each other without lifting your restrictions. :)
 michkat52000
Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 278
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/28/2008 5:20:13 AM
i know lots of nice guys...lol,my 3 sons, 2 brothers, dad, uncles etc...awww and i've met lots of nice guys from here too...i just think when the woodmizer dubbed me "sister" kat that no one wants to break the "habit"...lol...life is too short to be anything but nice (to all you meannies out there) male and female alike...on the flip side linda, i take it the guy you were seeing was in a terrible marriage, jeez it takes us humans a long time to realize mistakes sometimes, and i know from experience that it makes a person gun shy...he might just figure his chooser is broke and he doesn't want to hurt you too...just my humble opinion
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 279
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/28/2008 6:24:57 AM
Ive met some nice guys thru here (forums) and have had the pleasure of meeting them at some POF parties. Now if i could just find some nice guys who smoke and are closer to my area! lolol Seems everyone lives too far
 RedHeadedRodney
Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 285
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 5/1/2008 12:44:55 AM
Will mention that I have met some of the best people I have met off here at parties...

I have met some great people in Detroit before I started to go to parties in my area...

It was a very BIG reason for me to start hosting parties over here when the only host I knew of over here got in trouble and was banned off the forums. Going through some things I have through the past few years Been much more interested in making new friends then finding a girlfriend so the parties make sense... Although I have also found out there are some real decent women out here as well. Seems going to these parties people are more themselves and are not as reserved as they might be on here.

So If you are having problems meeting decent people in your area you should really consider going to parties local to your area. Some hosts just name a place and people show up and other hosts try mixing it up a little bit. But both types of parties work out somewhat.

Biggest thing is you should go to these parties thinking you are going to make new friends regardless. If you happen to find someone special along the way GREAT but if you go to these parties enough you start to realize you can find companionship and have fun and stay single at the same time. Being single ISN'T a crime or even have to be a bad thing. We all are "programmed" to be with someone but socializing in a group setting and making new friends allows you to not be desperate and sit back and wait for someone truly special. Of course there can be the ocassional special person who draws your attention and makes it very hard for you to ignore them... Whatever it takes. Going to parties also makes it a little safer to meet new people as well since you are in a more public forum.

Parties do tend to bring out some of the social misfits or people who have no business trying to find someone for whatever reason. With that in mind you should not be afraid to contact the host or someone in the management or security of the club you are in if someone is following you around or causing you to question their intent such as they won't leave you alone or otherwise making you feel uncomfortable. You should not feel that you need to leave because someone is causing you to feel uncomfortable and you don't want to start trouble. Especially since it is possible that person is doing the same thing to others as well.. And these miscreants are a big reason why it is a good idea to meet people in a public setting instead of 1 on 1... Atleast in a club you can get help to get them away from you if they are bothering you.

Rodney

Rodney
 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 292
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:20:48 AM
Echoing what Linda said, I can't tell you how many times women complain to me on how vulgar, arrogant, and sex-crazed men behave on dates (and communication in general). Seems a lot of my fellow men feel the need to act like horny, immature 15-yr-olds in order to attract women, and mistake overheated machismo and rudeness with masculinity and virility.

But women aren't off the hook of responsibility, either.

Face it, this society is geared to what I call the pursuit=>catch game. Many women lament the fact all their choices are crap and complain there are no decent men out here but never proactively take the time and effort to find someone more compatible.

Most classy, attractive, intelligent women my age seem content to let men perform like trained seals at their feet, vying for their attention, without so much as lifting a finger. Quite the opposite, in fact; they seem to enjoy and feed off it. Sickening behavior to watch, actually, and I see it all the time. I refuse to play that game. Most women have the enormous advantage of simply picking and choosing who's acceptable from the pool without really getting their feet wet themselves. I can't tell you how many women's profiles I see that have 400+ in their Favorites lists (one local woman had a mind-boggling 1400+!!!), and then have the temerity to say they're not on here for an ego trip or really enjoy all the attention. Yeah right. I look at those profiles and don't even bother responding. I have no desire to add to the legions of admirers and try to make myself visible from a rather bloated crowd. With that much attention, quit sitting on the fence and make a friggin' choice, dammit! ...lol

Bottom line is there's a lot of blame to go around with our dating dysfunction, and it's about time people started examining their own selves honestly and squarely through a very uncompromising mirror.
 motownmaniax
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 295
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 5/6/2008 5:46:32 AM
I agree with Tony. I wait for the woman to initiate. I'm sick of trying to interpret "the signals" or take hints from "body language". You pretty much have to lipsmack me upside the head to make your intentions known, but once done don't cry foul about being duped or hoodwinked by me into doing "anything".

And "most" men wear their horniness on their sleeves so should be easy to see what they want. I know there are some slick operators out here that use charm and subterfuge to insinuate themselves into a woman's bed, but even then, once they make their real intentions plain, all you have to do is say no?

I'm rather amused people make such mystery out of such things.
 davidDAman
Joined: 12/19/2008
Msg: 297
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 3/15/2009 4:28:33 PM
im a nice guy. my only flaw is i aint a gold member

baahahahahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


 eddj
Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 300
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 3/17/2009 8:26:17 AM
Yes he does....the best money can buy ..............................................................................................................................................................
 DevotedRomance
Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 301
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 3/17/2009 8:28:53 AM
Dman has a stalker a kissing and huging stalker you go man you go....
 tami407
Joined: 7/7/2008
Msg: 302
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 3/17/2009 12:22:37 PM
woohoo, a stalker for dman...



tami ~~
 michkat57
Joined: 8/3/2009
Msg: 304
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 9/9/2009 8:12:31 PM
find a woman who appreciates a nice guy and all will be well...some gals/guys just like the dark side, and usually end up sooooo unhappy...i'll take a sweetheart anyday...hey i found one too, but it took a really long time...nice guys should be with nice gals, billy bad asses should be with barbies
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