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 Paddy O Furniture
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 5
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The logical side of my guava jelly brain tells me that I'd just call another booty
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 8
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 7:52:49 AM
I'd feel that it was finally time to call that potential booty call I had my eye on...

A booty call is supposed to be convenient, serve its purpose and have no ties. So there should be no feeling about it unless you become attached, which is a no no.

So you set up another one and life goes on.
 stoneside
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 14
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 12:15:39 PM
Booty calls end. It's part of it. Sooner or later one of the two people meet somebody for something longer term. So I would be ok with it, it's to be expected that it will end. In most cases sooner rather than later.
 justme1202
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 16
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 2:04:36 PM
would make me feel like a piece of ass. but wasnt that the point in the first place?
 Tigress
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 19
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 5:03:37 PM
Just move on. Replace him. There is always lots more great sex to be had. And for a woman, it's even easier to get! You'll be ok! Maybe the next great one won't be able to live without you!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 20
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end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 5:22:38 PM
Those situations usually end mutually, or they just fade away - never a big deal 'cause by then you have probably already moved on to better things!
 blondein_tokyo
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 22
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 7:57:41 PM
If it's JUST a guy who is calling me up suddenly, asking for sex, and leaving straight afterwards, then I wouldn't even BE with him in the first place. I just don't see the point in that.

I prefer sex friends- someone I can talk to, have a good time with, go out with, and THEN have an awesome fvck. That is a real relationship, and includes mutual respect. I have managed to pull that off a few times. The sex may end, but the friendship never does.
 sex_kitten_69
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 25
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 9/20/2006 11:08:47 PM
either u stopped being good in bed,they found someone better,or they started to develop feelings for u and decided to end it
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 27
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end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:43:01 AM
If all it ever was ... was a "booty call" ... then when it ends, the "booty call" ends. Nothing more. I'd probably miss the sex, but it wouldn't be the first time in my life.
 Bubbles27
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 34
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 1/2/2007 8:14:33 AM
Time to find some new booty.
 ImTheOneUwant
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 41
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 1/3/2007 10:22:56 AM
Booty Calls are not long term, they all eventually end.

I dont like them too much, as I like to feel like I actually like the person I am with, not just a sex partner.

L.
 aSydneyMale
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 48
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 1/5/2007 8:08:46 PM
Doesn't sound like a booty call to me... sounds like some of the ingredients for a relationship... just off-topic... how gorgeous is Tiger in Mississippi? Shame I'm on the other side of the world...lol
 PlattsburghLady
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 49
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 2/24/2012 2:08:23 AM
I have one right now that's a good friend and I almost prefer it. We still hang out, just us and with mutal friends but have set up boundries to preserve the friendship. I also have one right now that's just a booty call, which has its perks, but isn't quite as satisfying. Just me though :)
 RedElectric
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 50
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 2/24/2012 9:48:18 AM


well this is how its been. We met a year ago online - seen his pic was alright, awesome personality on the phone...we met and damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Needless to say we pretty much spent the weekend together and it was/has/is the best sex I have ever experienced with anyone...We do hang out afterwards, there is a lot of caressing and kissing and talking etc. He works out of town for two weeks and is back home for two and we see eachother at times when he's around homeand we usually have all nighters then hang the rest of the day. I've liked him since the first day i met him and havent talked about how I feel but how he makes me feel when Im with him and he says he feels the same and how sexy i am and blab blah blah.... When he does call it not late - hes just calling to say hey and shoot the shit but I throw in the comments like "get your ass over here - I want you...so even though he calls I usually make the initiative for him to come over. He always says that Im on his mind and sends text messages saying hi etc but I want more...thinking of ending the sex part with him even though I dont want to but my feelings are getting in the way here and really ive done it to myself...he's always bringing up the first time we met, fantasies, he's had of me, how easy i am to talk to and that I dont pressure him or nag etc...He's said he wants to devote as many hours up north to work to buy a home etc...My brain says stop this, my heart says dont and my instinct says wait there's no rush. Sometimes i wont think of him for a few days or so and when I do my m*th*r f*ck*n phone rings or I get a text or email from him...He was the first man I was with after my separation - married 10 years- and find dating men a whole new ball game than it was yeeeears ago lool.l......so what the f*ck.. so what is this a booty call...should I end it or just let it role like it has and enjoy the ride...pardon my pun lol...


I have been in a similar boat :/ It sucks.
Have you actually had the conversation of being exclusive? You have all this chemistry, and it's so wonderful, and then he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship It's like, WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?!

I was finally able to end one when he fell asleep drunk on the bathroom floor during one of our randezvous. After 6 or so years of always going back, that's what it took for him to just look unappealing to me. If it doesn't end on bad terms, you can't just turn off feelings, no matter how hard you try. I've been seeing another guy off and on for almost 8 yrs and when I broke it off with him because I wanted to move on, my heart literally felt broken. What it comes down to tho, is self worth and self respect. If you KNOW you deserve more, you're just torturing yourself with this. What my therapist said kind of helped... it's not just me with the issues, it's also him... he can't commit to anyone, let alone you, and he can't hold onto a "real" relationship because there are expectations he can't meet, and so he looks to what is "easy". That realization is hard to swallow, but just being aware makes it a little easier to put into perspective.
I don't know if that will help, but I wish you luck and happiness.
 BMB81
Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 51
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 2/24/2012 2:29:29 PM
Not a problem, sometimes they just go away for awhile (like 13 years!), sometimes they just find someone they want to have a relationship with or they move or get deployed. I've never had one end it over anything I did.
 onceagain57
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 52
end of a booty call - how would that make you feel
Posted: 2/24/2012 3:03:46 PM
geee...if it was understood from the begining....ad the other party moved on for what-ever reason....yep...it would be hard but as grown-ups........
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