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Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 2
What do women do ?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)
.....What does not having a partner got to do with giving up on life? The days start the same regardless if you have someone in your life or not. Enjoy them, the warmth of the sunshine or the rain on your face. Talk a walk and smell the air, pay attention to the feel and sound of leaves crunching under your feet. Autumn is the most beautiful season of all, enjoy it. Get out there, talk to people, make friends....god theres so much to enjoy instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. People respond to attitudes and pick-up on negativity.
We are on this earth for such a short period of time, why waste it.

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 9/25/2006 7:51:43 PM
I haven't given up on life,,, don't plan to... I wish there was a S/O in my life,,,, but that does not define who I am or what I do..
I live life,, every day,,, I went back to work,,, I go to my gym,,, I play,,, I've found an unattached man to take ballroom dancing with me for the next six weeks. I have fall flowers sitting in flats on the porch, waiting for Sat. planting. I yack on the phone and the computer with friends, I flirt while I wait in line at the grocery store. I'm planning a short trip soon,,,,
just don't know where ~~~ yet.
I plan to go out of this life dressed in red and purple,, with a gin and soda in my hand, chocolate on my face,,, give up???? I doubt it!

Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 9/25/2006 8:48:28 PM
I can't imigine me ever giving up on anything. Just because life doesn't always give me what I want certainly does not mean I am going to give up. I go forward and live each day without a thought of giving up. I am a firm believer in finding the Positive in the most negative of things.
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 9/26/2006 9:47:39 AM
Good self esteem is the key to this issue.

People with fear of rejection can continue working on being miserable in their hermits life, or they can work though their problem, come out of it with good self esteem, and be happy.

No one else can do this for us. Once you have done the work on yourself, it is something you can never loose.
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