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Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 46
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Dolce i am starting to understand your mental delema it is hard going through life and to be with someone going through time not being happy with the person your with or you know they are not the one life is cruel so are people. it is understandable what you are thinking thank god for opportinity dont mess this one up. Tall dark and handsome.
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 48
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Posted: 10/4/2006 5:05:39 PM
sweet teeth,

I am wondering how men feel about women with not to attractive breasts. Sagging after child birth, or larger nipples.

A guy honestly answering this question puts him in position to sound like a pig. Hence, some guys giving you good advice, but not answering it directly.

With that said, do you think men find women more attractive when they have distinctly more attractive breasts? Yeah -- it varies from guy to guy. Additionally, "unattractive" -- too relative of a term. A woman with breasts that are unattractive by most standards (because breasts by themselves, big or small are attractive by default), is less attractive, yes.

Would you prefer a woman who went to plastic surgery to have this fixed giving her a more plastic look or would you prefer natural breast that weren't too attractive?

Well, women can have it "fixed" without having a plastic look, although that costs more money. Again, depends on how bad her breasts look. If her breasts looked like wet tube-socks dangling with 50 nickels at the bottom, then yes - doing SOMETHING to keep them from looking ugly would be a good thing, in terms of attractiveness. There are pills that can actually help out "too saggy" of breasts, so if yours are just subpar, I don't think you'd necessarily need any surgery.
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 10/8/2006 8:57:26 AM
Here's the deal,,, at some point age and gravity have an effect on all our parts,,, so sad,, but so true.
I'm 58 and wear a 46DDD bra,,, they sag some,,,, does it make them ugly? Well sugar, if you think so,,, put your clothes on and go home,,, don't let the door hit your azz on the way out.

Joined: 9/11/2006
Msg: 55
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Posted: 10/8/2006 4:19:46 PM
Oh my goodness! Be happy with what the good Lord blessed you with. Myself, a woman who is beautiful in heart and soul is 100% more attractive to me than a woman with sagging boobs. I just hope you're just as happy with my less than impressive penis. Do you see where I'm going here?

I'm more interested in if you're a good mommy, than I am about how your boobs look.

I love a woman for what's in her heart, and not for how her boobs sag. If you can still get aroused when a man is suckling on them, then why change them.

What is it with people wanting the perfect body? The perfect body is useless, if you don't have a perfect brain to go with it.

ugly boobs
Posted: 10/9/2006 5:09:02 PM
I find alot of these answer to boarder on the BS scale around a 9.5

yes, boobs sometimes can be hiddious...
dont believe me?
go look at national geographic... or your grandma naked.

some guys just dont care... cause they are just glad anyones naked with them.
other guys still have a standard, and if your not up to that... then it's really hard to look beyond some crazy boobs or something shallow like that.

I can remember a few years back, in florida I was dating a girl for a few weeks, and it finally came down to us having sex... she was getting naked, I got her shirt off... and I felt like a machine, that just had my plug pulled out of the wall.
after I saw her chest, it was a disaster... triangular boobs, that were flat, and pointing downward... normally one would use the words "bouncy, jiggly" and such to describe boobs... I'd use the word "floppy, and droopy" to describe hers.
they were like beagles ears... with tiny nipples on them.
it was disturbing, cause she was perfect with her clothes on, great figure, but alittle flat chested, but that doesn't normally bother me. I really dont care about the size of a girls boobs, as long as somethings there, I am happy.
but in this case, it was like she had been hanging cinder blocks from her boobs all her life to stretch them out or something... which is why she always looks flat chested...

uhhh god that night was a disaster.
I am sure I was the worst sex she ever had that night, cause I was not interested at all.
I just wanted to get up and go home after I saw her chest, it was horrible.
unfortunatly I was a dumbass at the time, and just plain old stopped calling her and she got sad about it, and I was too young to know what I was doing... sleeping with a girl, then never bother to call her again.
we hung out sometimes after, but things just never clicked again for us.
I just couldn't picture being with her.
when I see my girl naked, I wanna be turned on... not turned away.

there are bad boobs out there...
just like you might see a guy you thinks hot, then he pulls down his pants, and it looks like a mini hotdog, fell into some guys afro... and your struggling to see his balls, when you realize they are hanging down by his knees.
yeah, thats not hot right?
sure, alot here would give a BS answer, and say "well if I love him I wouldnt care".
but I have enough girls as friends, that tell me crazy stuff, that would suggest otherwise.

damn I wish I could erase some of this crap from my brain...
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 10/9/2006 6:57:02 PM
Breasts(it) and women....yummy. suck it, tweak it, massage it, tease it, f$#% it, squeeze it, bite it, flick it, put ice on it, tickle it, tongue it, make her want more and do it all over again. But never criticize it. She has decided to be intimate with you....just enjoy the foreplay and sex and have fun. Quit analyzing it so much. When you start to analyze things, you totally change the outcome and future of that thing you are analyzing.
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 69
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Posted: 11/5/2006 12:18:16 PM
I'd love to get some octogenarians in here to talk about their boobs and balls, etc

kinda makes you realize how vain you are but as one poster tries to point out.. attraction is key so...

for every tit, I'm sure there's a man who wants/desires it
Joined: 8/4/2004
Msg: 73
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Posted: 11/5/2006 4:05:49 PM
ugly is only one issue and that is a personal prefrence if they are ugly or not. I have friends who only like very large boobs, I on the other hand prefer quality over quantity. They do not go together always. I have also seen great looking boobs which were made that way with implants and felt awful to play with. It all depends. I do have a thing for puffy nipples though and they are oh so rare.
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/5/2006 5:22:32 PM
OMG!!!!!!! Owwwwwww!!! I snagged my nipple piercing on my thumb ring while breaking in a pool game...that hurt...alot ....but yours makes my eyes water!!!!!
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 82
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Posted: 11/17/2006 6:08:08 PM
I have 36FF's and they arent bigger than my I cant imagine boobs that big....and incidentally i have nursed and they are real....
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 84
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Posted: 11/17/2006 6:15:04 PM
I think I said this before, maybe even on this thread.

Katie holmes, or one of those celebs was asked in an interview, why her bust was enlarged on the cover of Cosmo. She said ALL the cosmo cover girls are enhanced if need be. Cosmo did a survey and their FEMALE readers wanted to see no less than a C cup on the women.


Makes no sense to me.
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 85
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Posted: 11/18/2006 6:30:56 PM
Personally I can't stand fake boobs. I much prefer them to be real no matter how they look. I'm afraid society is sending the message that women need to have big perky, perfect boobs to be considered attractive. Well they don't. I am a fan of all sorts of sized, shapes and nipple sizes. I don't like to be judged for anything so I don't do it to others. Many women should be happy with what they have, there are many men out there who appreciate boobs of any size or shape, especially if real.
Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 86
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Posted: 11/18/2006 6:42:32 PM
It doesn't matter to me. Everything should be as natural as possible. The more women get fake things done it seems the more fake they are as people.

Why would anyone WANT a friend or partner who doesn't want them as is?
Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 11/19/2006 12:28:36 AM
lol No such thing as ugly boobs friend. It's the whole person and not specific area that makes a person look good.
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 88
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Posted: 11/19/2006 1:31:02 AM
If you ask me, and you did. I think I replied, but I have slept since then I think, so I will get my brevity out of its box and reply again for just me 3.

Me, Myself and I DO NOT CARE all that much about the ladies body, if I fall into her eyes, enough said, I do not date married ladies, but I will flirt with them, I flirt with everything that is female, except my mother. But I have a better relationship with my mom that most of my peers.

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 90
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Posted: 11/19/2006 3:46:06 PM
^^ hey this question is not shallow.....just stupid lol.....(cough) and shallow

I just prefer natural more then artifical and I would like it for the woman to be herself.
Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 92
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Posted: 11/19/2006 5:24:04 PM
honestly I do not think it's that important. if a decision must be made and it is possible to get them 'fixed' surgically, then that would be better- but not necessary. whatever the woman wants, actually.
Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 11/20/2006 9:30:06 AM
I would prefer a woman not get the surgery. And what is wrong with large nipples? Its all about the guy and his preference.
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 11/20/2006 1:12:41 PM
as for ugly boobs... thank goodness we have bras to cover them up

yes yes.. i know.. false advertising... deal with it
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 98
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Posted: 11/20/2006 1:55:05 PM
post #131, No!. I only have eyes for my lady, and I am careful that I look in her eyes. If she wants me to look at her she will divert her eyes from my face and I will look where they are going and track them, she moves to look at me she will find me there.

Only my lady's chest orbs get looked at naked in all cases, and only when she wants to show me. Why look elsewhere if you are statified with what you have?

Ps, nothing is ugly about humans.
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 100
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Posted: 11/20/2006 3:48:20 PM

Awww man, the ugliest kind of boobs are those ones where the nipple is bigger than the boob itself.

Or how about the ones that look like a tube sock being held up with a tennis ball at the bottom.

Or, how about the ones that have massive in-grown hairs around the nipple so it looks like one big nipple surrounded by many sub-nipples.

How about the ones that you can see the line where the natural chest ends and the silicone implant begins.

And don't forget the ones that you can tie in a knot

or the ones with scars from a botched reduction surgery coupled with stretch marks and sagginess

put a bra and shirt on .. no one would know... take it off, (shrugs shoulders) I'm me.. i really don't give a crap what anyone thinks at least i dont have back pain and i fed my kids well
Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 7/20/2008 9:07:11 PM
Saggy is just fine with me. Saggy breasts area beautiful, they are sexy, and they feel very, very nice. Large nipples or large areolas are particularly wonderful. The great variety of shapes and sizes and textures of women's breasts are part of the attraction to me, and bearing children only makes women more feminine and beautiful.

Be the person you wish to be, and enjoy who you are: the choice must come from inside you. But don't assume that guys will find you undesirable!
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