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 ManCrap
Joined: 10/24/2006
Msg: 27
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yeah, what ever. I've wanted to do that. seriously. "nice women" like you end up picking crappy guys. why else are you here? if you were ugly then you could advise me on the lower expectations that they are willing to take. you have a choice where other women dont. enjoy it. beauty doesnt last forever.
 Dceeeee
Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 28
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:52:43 PM
I'm none of the above....I prefer silver to gold, and I buy my own.....I hate tofu or anything similiar.....I care about others....and no one would dare call me 'shallow'..but then, my roots are in Ohio. I've lived in the San Diego area since 1974, but it has changed a lot and is nothing like it used to be....so sad.

~DC~
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 30
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 10:18:22 AM
OP:
Real simply: In some it's true, in others not.

Possibly the more important line that you put in your original post that should be addressed more however is where you wrote:

In northern California, people seem to be nicer in general.
True or not, I really couldn't tell.

However, the important thing to remember while thinking about that line is simple, while thinking of that line, also think of another: What goes around comes around. And then think about what you're trying to support regardless of where you are.

JMO
 castof1
Joined: 5/3/2007
Msg: 31
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California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 11:16:19 AM
I would love to let you know if I thought this was true or not but I don't have the time. It is Friday and I would like to go out tonight so I have to get my shovel and dig up some gold so I can get a date for the evening.
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 32
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 11:58:20 AM

It is Friday and I would like to go out tonight so I have to get my shovel and dig up some gold so I can get a date for the evening.


Some issues might not be money issues.....it's Friday so I have to find a date for this evening? Hate to tell you that that ship has already sailed. This method does not allow her the time to 'look forward' that is also important. Social skills guys, social skills! If we guys start practicing them, maybe the gals will brighten our lives with them too! Just something to think about.

 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 33
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 12:13:58 PM
Out4aWalk, you are so right, exercising them will take you a long way. Social skills are everything and many people, not just men lack them. Also, some guys are blinded by all of the flash, they don't open their eyes to reality.

For the record, I am a native Californian and get kind of tired of the flakey, superficial stereotypes that we have. My parents were originally from Chicago and I was raised with midwestern values.
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 34
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 1:17:55 PM
Miss W
Yep. Like you, I'm also a native that was raised with good values. Glad to meet you.
Also like you, I also kinda get tired of the stereotypes (I've never surfed even once...not that surfing is bad, some of my best friends do, which is fine! it's a great ocean, enjoy it!), but after a while I also find that it's easy to ignore the dialogue if I just don't put value into it. As for those who indeed are the stereotypes personified intentionally (ie; rather than being just simply who they really sincerely are), they are pretty easy to ignore also.

I guess sometimes it also gets tiresome of finding threads and conversations within threads of people generally bashing other people, whether it be by gender, geography, heritage, beliefs, etc.....it all gets old. I'd like to find a way that we all learn to be the better, and firmly believe that if we do, then we'll be pleasantly surprised at how we're being treated ourselves by what results in everyone too. But it'll take a majority here in order to make it work. Come on guys, what do you all say?
(not saying that I haven't been guilty in the past myself)
o4aw
 SoCalM714
Joined: 10/11/2006
Msg: 35
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 3:24:57 PM
My two cents for what it's worth


I am a Ca. native and I have traveled lots, Ca woman, well I love them
 H66
Joined: 5/14/2007
Msg: 36
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/18/2007 8:34:19 PM
Very well stated. A woman from SoCal will not give you the time or place unless there is something in it for her, whatever that may be. Women down here have no soul or heart. Now, I'm sure there are exception which are far and few. If a woman down here has any hint beauty or sexiness there head is so far up there azz they can't breathe. But mostly it's not there fault but the fault lies in our society. Men are dumbest creatures giving up there souls and freedom for 10 min. of pleasure while women are the most insecure. Always trying to look there best and trying to hord all the attention.
 Wreckless1
Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 37
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/19/2007 1:38:06 PM
Now would that be Northern, or Southern ???
 Wreckless1
Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 38
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/20/2007 12:50:43 PM
If it's ALL about the local yocals, then why are women lookin beyond the range....
Miles, or states, or countires.... (not that it's a bad thing...jus curious)
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 39
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/20/2007 1:27:21 PM
2bcaptain, I grew up in Tustin too. In fact, I still live in the vicinity. And I do believe that we were pretty regular. There is a lot to be said about locale. I have to laugh about what you've said about parties at the beach. My friends and I used to make fun of surfer boys, who were cute, but quite stuck up and never seemed to comb their hair.

I do have moments where I am guilty of making fun of the botoxed, surgically-enhanced, high maintenance types. Sadly, these types of women seem to be the living stereotype of the California woman.
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 40
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/21/2007 1:24:55 PM
OK Califboomergirl: So what about SoCal guys? .....half-a-brain? hmmmmm...... :-)
 WildOnOC
Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 41
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/22/2007 11:06:08 AM
Haven't found a decent California chick yet. I know they're out there, but the ones I meet are either on drugs, bullemic, over emotional and just overall wakjobs.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 42
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/23/2007 10:22:15 AM


Awww, Captain...you are too sweet. I had a crush on you too, and Iwas shy as well. Please stop by on Saturday, it will be fun. Bring the bro too!
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 43
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/23/2007 11:07:17 AM
Not necessarily true, Captain...but don't tell him. It will be our secret.
 RANDYS72
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 44
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/23/2007 2:59:34 PM
It's all true I'm telling you.They're just like an apple with a worm in it . Look good til you take a bite and find a half a worm.
 Pete73052
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 45
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/26/2007 7:03:23 PM

PHK,
You're wrong,the worst ratio is in Mono County,CA...149 men:100 women.
http://www.epodunk.com/county_data2/


Read it again... I think you confirm what she said.

California has the most beautiful women in the world. Just look at all the beautiful women in this forum... and those are the ones who can't get dates...
 Pete73052
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 46
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 9:16:29 AM
And that may be why some guys move to Northridge...
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 47
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:08:10 PM
It's ALL Cooky's fault.....
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 48
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:21:37 PM
1. No good deed goes unpunished.

2. Yes, you are a definite con artist Cooky. Didn't you get the memo about Cal gals?

3. How far is too far away??? (I mean, I'm in San Diego after all...)
 o4
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 49
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:25:21 PM
1. San Diego is 2 hours from you.

2. You didn't get that other memo either did you....you're a native SoCal...and that means, "No, you CAN"T win!".
 Pete73052
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 50
California women: fact or myth?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:55:40 PM
Well, I don't know about "to the death"... but definitely to the pain...
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