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 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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so many people willing to cast the first stone,personally i have never been with a prostitute
as for dating , it would depend on if i liked, loved her or not......everyday is a new opportunity, one of my friends at work was an alcoholic, over 20 years ago he stopped,got help, and now he is a great father husband, and friend....some of the posters are just hateful, judgmental , and just plain cruel, having said that i have much more respect for a prostitute ex or otherwise, then those common criminal types , that have stolen and are still robbing on wall street, or tacking money from the poor in the name of god
 Big Rich123
Joined: 10/3/2008
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Posted: 3/5/2009 7:59:18 PM
Tie a board to your azz, that way you will not fall in.
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
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Posted: 3/5/2009 10:57:12 PM
it depends how much she'd charge for sex after we were married.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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Posted: 6/20/2009 6:16:33 AM
I have already,though maybe it wasn't really dating. She was an FWB,although we went out to dinner and movies a lot,but a relationship wasn't in the cards as we were looking for different things. At any rate,she'd worked as an escort about 15 years before that,for an agency. It didn't make any difference to me.
 NobleSir
Joined: 1/2/2008
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Posted: 6/20/2009 6:48:22 AM
sure. I've done it before and would do it again if I met the right girl. We all have pasts and mine is certainly not so pure that I may look down on others. And for all you who stand with indignant judgement, do you claim your lives are without fault or sin? It is so easy to judge others while ignoring your own deeds but I do hope to be above that.
 NobleSir
Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 126
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Posted: 6/20/2009 6:52:55 AM
Ladies this fellow "want to travel " has some honour and confidence for if we can forgive others and allow them their future then we can do the same for ourselves.
 Channybeans
Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 130
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Posted: 6/20/2009 10:52:05 AM
Who is anyone kidding, we as humans are all prostitutes i some form, trading something for sex. There are health risks involved with dating someone who has actively participated in the sex trade and hopefully this person was careful. To become serious with such a person would be ok, however such as in all sexual contact and emotional relationship safety and honesty would be best to observe. Learning of this act before being serious would be key. If this woman is willing to reveal that she has participated in ac`ts in the past that she isnt entirely proud of and being open shows that she is serious about trusting the person she wants a relationship with. Dont punish a person who is not only willing to admit their past mistakes but trust another with their private shames.

PhEx
 DAVE632
Joined: 6/17/2006
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Posted: 6/21/2009 11:56:35 AM
I knew a few girls waaay back in my college days that hooked to pay for tuition/book/food/rent. They'd been cut off from family $$ help and they did what they had to do to get where they wanted to go. Working minimum wage at MacD's just doesn't cut it when you're going to Vet school.

So my question would be WHEN did the EX part of the ex-hooker come about? Last year? Yesterday?

Or 1982?

There's also a BIG diff between a high price call girl - usually extremely well educated, clean, tested, pick their own clients etc - and some crack wracked street skank who is likely HIV times every clade their is, client list of homeless also-skanks.

Ya, let those who are sinless cast the first stone. Lots of judges in here. Common sense plays a BIG part in an answer though.
 DocElffington
Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 6/21/2009 1:14:14 PM
I'd have serious misgivings and would probably be disinclined to date one.

First, them street walkin or truckstop lot lizards are just fricken nasty!

Second, what would a high-priced call girl want with me?


It's hypothetically unlikely, in either case.
 1965 Victoria Guy
Joined: 1/11/2009
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Posted: 6/21/2009 2:57:36 PM
Whatever a person did in their past is their business. If you have fallen in love with a person, you are in love with their present self and the sum of their life experiences. If their life journey meant that they had to resort to desperate measures during desperate times, that's their business.

One would be surprised how many RESPECTABLE women have through necessity had to resort to histories oldest profession to survive.

All I can say is I feel sorry for the men who have to criticize and slander women who have had to make a difficult choice during their lifetime.

I would not go looking for one, but if I fell in love with someone who in the past had to make a difficult choice, it would make no difference. The person I would be in love with would include the sum of their life experiences.
 hellgremlin
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 6/21/2009 3:15:28 PM
I love the white knights rushing to the defence of hookers in this thread.

Hey, sure, she might have had to make difficult choices. Sure, she might be an assertive and business-minded woman. Sure, many respectable women have done it.

But you know what? I don't care if she won the Nobel Peace Prize.

She still sold her hole. Sorry, no respect. Zero. Once you sink to that level, there's really no coming back up.
 justin47802
Joined: 5/25/2009
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Posted: 6/21/2009 7:03:57 PM
I wouldn't date a prostitute but I might introduce her to one of my friends..
 want to travel
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Posted: 6/26/2009 1:13:36 PM
the key word is ex, dont judge a woman by her past, chances are she would be pretty passionate in bed; note i have never been with a prostitute, and i dont have 'casual' sex but long term is wonderful, so is a woman with some experience
 depesus1
Joined: 7/5/2009
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Posted: 7/20/2009 9:32:06 AM
i would have no problem with it.You see it is those character building moments that make us who we are besides i imagine there are some interesting stories behind the practice. I would want them to be clean no desire to end up with a terminal disease
 GREATEST LOVER
Joined: 2/10/2009
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Posted: 7/20/2009 10:40:40 AM
if shes an ex-prostitute that means her **** is as wide as the grand canyon. so the answer is HELL NO!
 Vincent_1984
Joined: 11/14/2005
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Posted: 8/17/2009 12:39:06 PM
Well, I'm probably going to lose a lot of points from most women reading this about me but, should this women be STD free, drug free and both physically and psychologically healthy and attractive, I could date her seriously. I actually have a lot of respect for both male and female sex workers. For people who feel down, depressed, unloved, unworthy or lonely, a few hours with an undiscriminating, caring and attentional lover could do more good than years of therapy. It would at least do a whole lot more good than all the judging, preaching and discriminating those self-righteous religious fanatics could actually ever offer. How many tragedies could have occurred due to someone not being loved? How much violence, anger and pain could be avoided with people just getting laid every once in a while? Love and intimacy are basic human needs, yet no everyone gets to truly experience it.

Personally, I think the industry should be legalized and government sanctioned (Well, in Canada anyway, the states should really fix their health care first ).
Provide free STD testing; a clean, safe and legitimate work environment; and provide financial help for those with proper doctors/psychiatrists prescription. In one move you have cleaned the streets of unsafe prostitution, allowing police officers to concentrate on more dangerous crimes; provided the government with a steady new source of income; and provided a positive and essential service to a good portion of the population. Not only that, but it would also provide people with a very valuable method to learn about sex and get better at it; who better to learn about sex than an industry professional? The world's oldest profession isn't going to go away any time soon, I say might as well make the best of it.
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/26/2009 9:27:22 PM
Hell no I wouln't. Who knows how many diseases she could be carrying around.
 want to travel
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Posted: 9/27/2009 12:18:52 PM
actually yes i would, i know shes experienced as long as she was clean, who cares about her past, there are a lot of women out there that say they arnt prostitutes but the first question out of there keyboards is how much money do you make, or there the good women out there that take everything from a man in a break up
 jacob8088
Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/30/2009 7:49:41 PM
Basically, with what a woman has between her legs, she can go into "business" very easily, anytime she wants, as there seems to be an unending line of desperate men who are willing to lay down extra money.


^^^I totally agree greg. And if she's struggling to make ends meet, this would be a good oppurtunity for her. LMAO
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
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Posted: 9/30/2009 8:33:46 PM
Just say no to prostitutes. I don't think most prostitutes will totally give up their profession unless you give them everything they want. It's a lifestyle they got into that may be hard to get out of like drugs or alcohol, even if it's not good for you, and there is money to be made. Sometimes it's easy money that is hard to resist.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 183
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Posted: 9/30/2009 11:56:32 PM
I have dated strippers in the past....


But I would not even fukc a protitute. Much less date one.


I couldn't do it. I'm far too unapologetically picky and territorial.


I like good girls who have a freaky side. Not girls who have let their freakiness define who they are as a person.

-8sf8
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 184
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Posted: 10/1/2009 12:25:16 AM
^^^ Huh?

Lolololololololololol


Underlying this issue is fear of women who have sexual power.


WHAT?!? Lolololol.


Btw, dont worry soldier, i dont think many of the ladies would even consider you mate.


You should see my email box, lady. I don't know who you think you are, but some walmart greeter looking older woman with a penchant for consequence-free enabling posts, making yet ANOTHER assumption about me really does not sting much.

Also, I have no idea what ancient times you are talking about. I would say that I know more about history than you do, but I don't make assumptions about people just for the heck of it.... unlike some.

Throughout the course of human history, protitutes have never been marriage material. Ever. They were concubines, or mistresses perhaps.... but not wives.

You're seeing what you want to see. There are still consequences for decisions and behavior in life. Preaching the opposite is not going to change what men think about these issues.

And you think MEN are judgmental!?!? Every single one of my female friends is harsher and more judgmental about other women than I could ever imagine being. Ever.

Get back in touch with reality. Please.

-8sf8
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
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Posted: 10/1/2009 1:20:38 AM
^^^ I would say that you can just look at my posting history, and tell that I do.

You can't claim you know more than others, because you obviously don't. You're 10 years my senior, and still use insults as fall back option while debating.

I don't claim. I know.

One person's perception of arrogance is another's self confidence and wisdom.

In my experience, it usually boils down to whether the receptor agrees with the person in question or not.

I don't respect slutty women. You think that women should be able to spread their legs for anything and everything with a pulse, whenever they feel like it, and not be judged for it or have any social consequences.

We disagree. Therefor you find me arrogant and judgmental. I find you hedonistic and unrealistic.

Simple.

-8sf8
 Antithetical
Joined: 8/13/2009
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Posted: 10/1/2009 5:46:08 AM
The data for prositutes in Victoria looks promising; however, I'm wondering if valid comparisons can be made with other cities where prostitution is not legal.
 Vincent_1984
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Posted: 10/2/2009 1:46:23 PM
Would you say the same thing about a man who's body had been "used up" by all kinds of women? Both the male and female body are made to recover you know. Not that the female genitalia really gets damaged in the first place, it's pretty much built for the act. Don't be so quick to buy into the "loose" myth, it's built to stretch and retract, and don't be so quick to hate or discriminate either. If you could get paid a lot of money to have sex with women, wouldn't you be, in the slightest bit, tempted at all?
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