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 downtoearth50
Joined: 9/20/2006
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Just curious, I have given this alot of thought, and I think there is no such thing as soul mates, but I do believe that a couple can grow and understand one and other - through working together and then fit comfortably together. What do you think?

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 trophyboyfriend
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 2
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 2:25:19 PM
I love lamp.

And soulmate is a scam that women created so they can sucker men into becoming their sexual and emotional hostages. This scam is also known as a 'relationship'. Beware of the scam men! Women are evil vampire life sucking carnivores!


I respect more often if they weren't such skanks all the time. And by all the time, I mean I love skanks.
 Mr_Fish
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 3
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 3:05:04 PM
oops - wrong profile name...
 APrettyBride33
Joined: 8/22/2006
Msg: 4
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 3:06:09 PM
*sigh* that's better...

O/T
I think the term soulmate is overused and overrated... I used to think I was soulmates with my ex, but have since discovered the truth... he was merely a stepping stone...
 *Kid Wicked*
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 5
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 5:57:30 PM
yeah,there are soul mates.

but that doesn't mean they should be together.

being single is where it's at.
 thesewords
Joined: 9/14/2005
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Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 6:00:32 PM
i wasn't even going to read this post - but then i saw that the KID himself had something to say on the matter .......
soul mates that shouldn't be together? - how does that work?

:up: paradise by the dashboard lights - sooooo f*ckin true

who's aphrodite's soul mate - anyone know?
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 7
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:12:23 PM
No

definitely not

Hell, I don't really think there is any such thing as "love"
 *Kid Wicked*
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 8
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/24/2006 11:54:43 PM
soul mates that shouldn't be together? - how does that work?




why be tied down to one?personaly,i like to expierience new things.



and new boobs.


k.w.
chicks hate me
 rocknrollmunkey
Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 9
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 10/25/2006 2:19:50 AM

why be tied down to one?personaly,i like to expierience new things.



and new boobs.



ME TOO!

lol

kidding...

actually i believe we can have soul mates that don't have to be of the "opposite sex" either... AND i believe we can have several.
 Bigandtalldancer
Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 10
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 11/1/2006 8:23:01 AM
"I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all"
------------------Alfred Tennyson

Or as Anais Nin said,
"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings."
 First Lady
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 11
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 11/18/2006 7:47:51 AM
I believe in "Soul Mates" because I believe it's a term or a word given to express the love two people have for each other - the entire package - always on the same level and loving every imperfection each may have. It goes beyond friendship because it's bigger than life itself. Yep, I've been there a few times in my life - wouldn't trade it for the world
 First Lady
Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 12
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 11/18/2006 9:32:31 AM
Don't think there's a definition, persay, for the "word" "soulmate" thenicestguyyounevermet.

It's a feeling that goes beyond. It's something totally different than the love we have for our children, fathers, mothers, sisters, brothers. Hard to explain if you've never had it - and if your lucky enough to experience it - you will know. You can call it what you want, or give it a different name - but those of us who have experienced it - give it the name "soul mates" and ohhh what a good name it is!

I know I will experience that feeling again in my lifetime - only time will tell!
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 13
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 11/18/2006 9:32:31 AM
All I can say is


What a crock of sh1t.


I particualrly love the people who not only find one soul mate, but stumble acroos ANOTHER and within a year of losing the first.

It isn't "soul mates". It is delusion.
 sexylovee
Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 14
Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 1/12/2007 7:45:33 AM
yes there is soul mates . Just I think they all come at the wrong times.
 sexylovee
Joined: 9/12/2005
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Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 1/18/2007 9:39:57 AM
I still think that there are soulmates for everyone. Not all them come at the wrong times. I guess the guy I so think is mine somehow came when I was dating someone I thought I loved. But it made me end an unhealthy relationship so it wasnt the wrong time. I just couldnt get the chance to be with him.
 yayawhatever
Joined: 10/24/2006
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Does anyone really believe that there are soul mates?
Posted: 1/19/2007 3:49:32 AM
My personal thoughts/knowings for myself on the matter of soulmates is that we all have many soulmates. A soulmate is someone that completely gets you, even when you don't. Someone who can make you want to scream in anger and shout in joy.. but you always know they get you and you them.. and you can't hide yourself or be dishonest because they already know whats really going on with you.

With a soulmate, it doesn't matter how long you spend apart, as the moment you are together again you are home.

I have encountered this several times, and you just know. The song, "It Feels Like Home" by Bonnie Raitt explains best my own personal experience with this.

I haven't really experienced this feeling since leaving Rupert almost four years ago, but I am reassurred in knowing that around the very next corner could be yet another soul waiting to connect with mine.

Simply put, its the connection that makes a soulmate, not the relationship itself.
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